About the hows, whys, and ifs of male masturbation
My boyfriend is 45 and says that he has never masturbated. Do you think he is telling the truth?
Something like one or two percent of men that age have never masturbated. I wouldn't say that's the percent chance that he's telling the truth, but if he's the type who isn't completely honest with you about relatively trivial matters, then I'd say it's unlikely.
After 3 weeks of abstinence from sex, with the exception of a few incidents of masturbation during the abstinence, my boyfriend's ejaculation was abnormally light in quantity and tasteless during oral sex.
Normally, after we have abstained for that long, the quantity is much more voluminous and tastes bitter, salty – almost repugnant. He ejaculated normally, as he always does with oral sex. Supposedly he is not having an affair. What could be the cause of this new type of decreased ejaculation?
I am a 21-year-old female. I've started seeing a new guy, and last night we were fooling around and he ejaculated while I was masturbting him
– and I noticed that although the semen was liquidy, by the time I got to the bathroom to wash my hands, it was really sticky, like dried glue. I don't know if it was because it hit the air, but I've never seen this before. Could he have a disease or something?
My boyfriend and I like to mutually masturbate. But when he reaches his climax, he holds back from ejaculating.
I've heard this is unhealthy and can damage him in the long run. How can I get him to release himself? Do you have any suggestions on how to prevent messes and things of that sort (if I can get him to ejaculate)?
I have been living with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have great sex and are very loving to each other, but I have recently discovered that my boyfriend masturbates in his sleep.
Is this possible? He asks me to wake him up if it bothers me and he will turn over. His main point is that he really is asleep. Trust has never been a problem in our relationship, so I'm wondering if what he is saying is indeed the case.
Is it possible for a 15-year-old boy not to masturbate?
I asked my boyfriend to stop masturbating because it seriously damages my self-esteem – he often does it after seeing a sexy commercial or TV show. He does get other sexual action, like me masturbating him and oral sex, but I don't know how to prove if he is still masturbating.
I have noticed that my boyfriend touches himself in his sleep just about every night, even though we have an amazing sex life.
When I tell him about it in the morning, he says he does not remember any of it, and he wonders if he has a problem. Could he truly masturbate in his sleep and never remember it?
I recently gave a guy a "hand-job." He didn't give any sign that he was enjoying it.
I told him it was my first time, and he said to continue with what I was doing, but he didn't ejaculate. I feel really horrible about doing such a bad job, as stupid as it may sound, but I want to make sure I don't make the same mistake again. How can I do a better job next time?
- age 15, California
When I masturbate my boyfriend, he gets all quiet and it looks like he's about to pass out (all relaxed like).
Does this mean he's enjoying it?
- age 15, Georgia
I bet it does. Some guys react to pleasure by being very quiet – even if they're enjoying it immensely. Watch his breathing – if it's a little irregular, he could be enjoying it a lot. If it's very steady, maybe he isn't getting much out of it. If you really want to know, ask him – he might say yes either way, but the way he answers could tell you a lot.
Whenever I masturbate my boyfriend, he never makes any noise.
He just lies there like he's asleep. I ask him, "Are you sleeping?" and he tells me he isn't and that it feels so good – but I mean, if it feels good then why doesn't he do anything to make it more obvious? Why do girls often moan or breathe harder than guys in these kinds of situations?
