I told him it was my first time, and he said to continue with what I was doing, but he didn't ejaculate. I feel really horrible about doing such a bad job, as stupid as it may sound, but I want to make sure I don't make the same mistake again. How can I do a better job next time?
- age 15, California
There's no reason for you to feel bad. After all, it might have been his first time with someone else, too, and he may have been just as nervous as you (if not more so). Also, though you rarely hear this, sometimes a guy can enjoy receiving sexual pleasure even if it doesn't end in ejaculation. He may have just had trouble reaching that point, which is very common – especially among inexperienced couples.
Still, almost any woman can improve her skill at masturbating men.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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