I've heard this is unhealthy and can damage him in the long run. How can I get him to release himself? Do you have any suggestions on how to prevent messes and things of that sort (if I can get him to ejaculate)?
Some guys have a real problem ejaculating in front of their partners. It may be because they feel semen is unclean – hygienically, spiritually, or otherwise. Or they're simply uncomfortable with the emotional vulnerability that this very intimate moment involves. It's unclear whether it's safe to avoid ejaculating (either by simply stopping short of orgasm or doing some kind of squeezing technique that prevents semen release), but JackinWorld's official position is just to let it go the way Nature intended things to work. Try talking to your boyfriend about why he doesn't want to ejaculate in front of you. Find out if he ejaculates when you're not with him. Tell him it would be a turn-on to see him ejaculate. If he's concerned about the "mess," put a paper towel on his chest, or gently hold a wad of tissue against the penis head, which will catch the semen as it comes out.
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My boyfriend and I like to mutually masturbate. But when he reaches his climax, he holds back from ejaculating.
