Friends, brothers, dads ... you get the idea
I want to masturbate with another guy, just for reasons of curiosity and experimentation. Is it possible to catch any type of STD during a mutual masturbation session?
The furthest I'd go would be to touch him and possibly masturbate him and have him in return masturbate me.
Except in the case of open sores or cuts on the hands and genitals, there is zero chance of contracting an STD simply by masturbating another guy or being masturbated by him.
After reading your site several times I have asked several of my friends if they masturbate.
I have been teased for asking them. Am I wrong for what I have done?
I used to be friends with this guy, and we always either mutually masturbated, masturbated each other, or wrestled in our boxers or nude.
Then one night when I was sleeping over at his house and we were lying in bed together, he asked me to give him oral sex. I told him no, even though I really wanted to try it. He never talked to me again. What should I do, and what does that say about him?
- age 16, Illinois
I'm 24 and have recently gotten to know a guy who is 19.
We both go to the same college. We have talked about masturbation and how we have masturbated with other males; I have always been into doing this kind of thing as long as we didn't touch each other intimately or romantically. I get the feeling he would like to do this me. I am wondering if this isn't a good idea because he is 5 years younger. Exactly how much of an age difference is too much?
- age 24, Pennsylvania
I'm 16 and my brother is 12. I really want to tell him about masturbation, but I don't know if I should.
Also, I don't think my parents would appreciate me telling him about it. How should I bring it up, since we've have never talked about it before?
Perhaps it's better that you don't tell him about masturbation then. Go on your instincts – if you think doing so would be against your family's values, then you probably shouldn't do it. Of course, you could always "accidentally" leave the JackinWorld URL lying around somewhere....
I am 15 and masturbate at least once a day (usually more). One day my dad walked in on me.
He cussed me out and said I would be gay if I masturbated and even went as far as accusing my grandfather of showing me how to do it. Now that I am in high school I want to confront my dad about the matter and clear the air – but I am scared to do so because he is very closed-minded. What should I do?
I am a 24-year-old heterosexual male and a mentor to a 13-year-old boy as part of a church program.
This boy is an only child who lives with his mom and stepdad. Sometimes he casually brings up the topic of masturbation, but he never really talks about it, and I don't feel right pushing the topic. When he talks about it, it's always very abstract – it never has to do with himself. And he never stays on the subject for long. At the same time, I have an overwhelming desire to talk about masturbation with him, to see "where he is at" and help him if he needs it.
I am a single man with a 12-year-old adopted son.
He found JackinWorld. (I don't mind – I encourage him to keep logging in.) But now he wants to masturbate with me and even sleep with me in my bed. I've told him no several times, but he says since we're not blood-related that it would be okay. Maybe he'll believe you more than he'll believe me – can you explain why it's wrong?
I don't understand why guys would want to masturbate with each another.
That doesn't interest me. Does that mean something is wrong with me?
Absolutely not! This topic frequently come up on JackinWorld because a lot of people have questions about it. But certainly it's not abnormal or even unusual not to want to engage in mutual masturbation. Some people do, some don't; that's about all there is to it.
I'm 17. I recently told my ten-year-old cousin about masturbation and wet dreams.
I did this because his dad thinks masturbation is bad, and I didn't want him to think that. Also, I didn't want him to be scared the first time he ejaculated. I just gave him a basic definition – no techniques – and I gave him the address of this site. I haven't seen anything in the Bible that says masturbation is wrong, anyway. (We both believe in the Bible.) Have I overstepped my boundaries or done something illegal?
