I would like to masturbate with my best male friend. We have known each other for 10 years; he and his wife are responsible for getting my wife and me together. Our friendship has grown closer and we share common professional interests and goals, and we also do a lot of fun social activities together. We both recognize the sexuality in each other and have very intense relationships with our spouses. I would like to be able to share more of our friendship, and I think masturbating together would open a new level of intimacy and sharing, making it easier to talk about subjects that we now shy away from.
- age 59, Washington
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I would like to watch myself masturbate — but I am blind in one eye, and my other eye is infected with pink eye.
- age 14, the Netherlands
My best and closest friend (a wonderful, friendly, and attractive woman) is someone I'd love to see masturbate. I have wanted this since we first met more than a decade ago, and we have brilliant chemistry, but we've always missed opportunities to get involved with each other. Now she's married, so it's not likely for that to happen. But if it were possible, I'd simply enjoy watching her get such great pleasure from herself — or help give her that pleasure.
- age 30, Canada
I'd like to watch my girlfriend, my male friend, and my female friend masturbate, because it arouses me to think about it. I may not be sexually attracted to my friends, but I'd be aroused seeing them masturbate to orgasm.
- age 15, New Jersey
I'd like to see my boss's 25-year-old assistant. She is beautiful and flirts with me. I would like to hear her moan and see her arch as she reaches for her orgasm. I bet she masturbates often. Truth is, I would like to make love to her, too.
- age 61, New York
My best friend — but I also already masturbate with him. I just don't usually watch him because I think he would notice me — he is a total homophobe, and I think I'm gay. I would really like to do more with him, such as mutual masturbation, but I'm afraid to ask him. However, it really confuses me that he flirts with me all the time in class — like he'll touch me and sometimes rub my foot with his or stare at me from across the room. I guess I should be happy that he at least likes to masturbate with me.
- age 13, Washington
I'd like to see my dad masturbate — I think because he's the one who showed me how to masturbate. I would like to see him do it again because I look up to him.
- age 18, United Kingdom
Probably my best friend. He's younger than me. Not only do we work together, but we are also workout partners. When I was a teenager, I had several experiences with friends and mutual masturbation. Now, as an adult, I would like to have that chance again. I'm very close to this particular friend and I think it would be cool to watch him. I just find it very erotic and exciting to see another male masturbate. He is in great physical shape, which would add to the experience.
- age 45, Vermont
I would like to watch one of my male friends masturbate. I've had a crush on him for 4 years now, and am really attracted to him. I don't know why. I'm gay and he knows it, but he's straight and is kind of afraid of me. So anything like me watching him masturbate will probably stay in my fantasies. However, it would be really hot to watch!
- age 15, Australia
I'd like to watch my little brother masturbate. He is 10 years younger than me, and I have basically raised him since our mother died. Mom told me about secretly watching my other brothers masturbate and the good feeling she got knowing that they were most likely capable of reproducing, and how good it was to know that they had normal sexual urges. My brother currently lives with me; in fact, I'm on his computer as I write this answer. I am sure that he masturbates; I have heard him. The closest I have ever gotten to see him masturbate is to have seen him in the shower and watch his penis become erect as he washes it. I always leave because I don't want to upset him.
- age 32, California (female)
Probably my best friend. I think I would like to see him masturbate because he is the only person I know who is uncircumcised, and I'd like to see how he does it.
- age 14, Missouri
My female roommate was masturbating one morning when I was on a day off. If it looks as good as it sounded, I would love to see it! After hearing her go off, I swear women have better orgasms than men do!
- age 27, Canada
A friend of mine always comes down to my house after school. I want to see her masturbate because I have wanted to get into a serious relationship with her, but haven't yet done so, and masturbation could act as an icebreaker. Also, I'd like to see a male friend of mine who has lived near me for a couple years. I would want to see this so I could see how circumcised guys masturbate. I am uncircumcised and curious about circumcised masturbation.
- age 17, Indiana
I love to watch men masturbate. I think it is the most erotic thing in the world. I think this desire stems from back in my early teenage years when I hadn't even seen a penis, much less a man masturbating. This guy did it in front of me. I was transfixed from that moment on. Now, many years later, whenever I look at a guy, I wonder if he has masturbated that morning. I would love to know when and where and find out all the details.
- age 33, United Kingdom (female)
I'd like to watch my big brother masturbate. I'm 14 and he's 16. I'm just starting to grow hair and my penis is just starting to grow. I only ejaculate a little bit when I climax. I've never seen an older male ejaculate. I'd like to see what it's all about, but I'm not sure about asking him. He may think I'm weird.
- age 14, Indiana
I have a new next-door neighbor who reminds me of my cousin. This is significant because my cousin and I went through puberty together and experimented with what we knew then about sex. We started just feeling each other up and later went into masturbation together and then masturbating each other. The first time I saw my neighbor I knew he looked like my cousin, but after I helped him move into his new home, I started thinking about what my cousin and I did and started thinking about how much fun it would be to do those things again, this time as an adult.
- age 49, Virginia
No one, as I think it's really not right.
- age 13, Singapore
Well there *used* to be. I've commented before that when I was in high school and college, there were numerous friends I would have liked to watch — some, because they looked cute; some, because they were close friends; and some, out of curiosity. Now that I read this site, I sometimes think back to those days. Things weren't as open then, but I had heard a lot about masturbation — singly or in groups. However, I felt guilty about it at the time, plus I was very timid. Moreover, people liked to use the words "homo" and "fairy," which I was not, even though I was called that because I was skinny and uncoordinated. Anyway, now I wouldn't watch anybody anymore, except myself in a mirror.
- age 58, Illinois
I'd like to watch my boyfriend masturbate, because I want to see the expressions on his face and somehow share that experience with him. I think it would be a turn-on for me and make me feel good if I knew he was fantasizing about me while doing it. I'd also like to watch one of my best girlfriends because we often talk about the topic, and we even turn each other on a little bit by sharing our fantasies. I'd like to know how she looks when she experiences sexual pleasure.
- age 17, Germany (female)
I'm a little embarrassed about this, but I would like to watch my 18-year-old son masturbate. I guess I would want to see how he does it compared to me and to offer any advice he may want, since I've learned certain techniques that have made it more pleasurable since I was his age. While I would probably find the experience somewhat erotic, my feelings toward him would be more of a father's pride in his son rather than a lust for him sexually.
- age 45, Washington
I know that this sounds kind of strange, but I would like to watch my dad masturbate. I know that he does it and has been doing it for 35 years. I want to watch him so I can find out how somebody masturbating for so long does it.
- age 16, California
There's a girl that I've had a crush on for the longest time. She's a swimmer and she has an amazing body. It's too bad that we're good friends. She doesn't want to ruin our friendship with anything more than being just friends. I think the reason that I want to see her masturbate so badly is that she's so free with her sexuality. We talk about it all the time, and I'm dying to see her "in action."
- age 18, New Jersey
My best friend on my hockey team got his father to coach us. His family goes to the same gym as mine. He and I often get into discussions about sexual things with his father. His dad's really open with us and I think it's really cool. I think it would be interesting to see him masturbate, even though I'm straight and have a girlfriend.
- age 16, Maryland
I can come up with 52 friends — perhaps one a week for the next year. I've been fortunate to watch two friends so far. Watching the first guy was exciting, even dramatic. The next one, years ago now, was simply fun. There are dozens of reasons why I'd like to watch so many others. Some are beautiful; some are truly warm, kind, and gentle. The sights are great, but the intimacy is what's most important.
- age 46, Oregon
He is one of my best friends. I'm not sure whether I'm gay, but the idea of seeing his penis intrigues me and turns me on. I want to see him masturbate. I know the feeling isn't mutual, as he despises anything to do with homosexuality. I think I could be gay and this might be just a crush. He means a lot to me, so hopefully it will pass and we can be normal friends again.
- age 16, United Kingdom
A friend of mine is a well-known actor. He's so hot! He looks amazing in a swimsuit — with a body to die for. I would love to watch him strip, lie back, and masturbate to climax. Now that would be a show! Why? On one hand, it would be visually exciting; on the other, it would be something nobody else would see. Now, if I only had a third hand!
- age 47, New York
I would like to watch any guy masturbate that I find sexually interesting. Watching a guy pleasure himself means that I can concentrate on watching him feel the intense pleasure instead of worrying about whether I'm "doing it right." So, while giving a guy pleasure is nice, it is relaxing and at the same time incredibly arousing to see him masturbate.
- age 19, Florida (female)
I would like very much to see my wife masturbate. She just refuses to masturbate, no matter what. She says it's not something that she has any desire to do. I think if she ever tried it and let herself enjoy it, she would find it as rewarding as I do. She also believes that I should not masturbate although she knows I do. I would love to watch her bring herself to a huge orgasm and then have her watch me as I bring myself off as well. She does masturbate me and I her, but she will not masturbate with me. I think it would be a huge turn-on for us to do this!
- age 53, Ohio
My best friend and I shared everything as we grew up. We discussed weekly how our bodies were changing through puberty, and would show each other how we were changing. We discussed a lot about sex and masturbating. Yet we have never masturbated together. I would like to see him masturbate to see what techniques he uses. And of course, I'd love to see how big he has grown down there.
- age 18, United Kingdom
I would like to see my teenage grandson masturbate. He comes to our house regularly, and almost every time, he goes into the bathroom and stays about 20 minutes. Our tub has sliding doors, one of which is mirrored and the other isn't. We always leave the mirrored door so that it is not directly in front of the toilet, but when my grandson leaves, it is always in front of the toilet. I am sure that he changes it so he can watch himself masturbate. Much as I would like to watch him, too, I would never do anything to violate his privacy.
- age 72, Texas
No, not really. I wouldn't feel right watching one of my friends masturbate.
- age 15, Minnesota
Two of my friends are gay, and I would love to watch them masturbate. I have always dreamed of them masturbating and then having sex in front of me.
- age 42, California
I'd like to watch my boss masturbate. He's a few years younger than me and a good-looking guy with a really nice body. I'm sure he would look great naked and stroking.
- age 47, Pennsylvania (female)
I would love to watch my little brother masturbate. He is 12 and I know that he already does it, as I almost interrupted him once when I burst into his room. He sometimes comes to my room and asks me all kinds of questions about sex. I get turned on a lot and asked him once if he would want to do it with me. He said he just wants to watch me masturbate. He sat on the side of my bed and watched me do it. I could see through his pajamas that he also had an erection. Maybe one day he will do it together with me.
- age 14, Canada
My younger brother is 16 and has a huge penis. I have seen his erection in the sauna, but he is too shy. We have masturbated together, but only in darkness in the same room.
- age 21, Utah
I would really like to see my friend, who is a guy, masturbate. I'm not gay, but I have never seen another person masturbate, and I think it would be the most fun to see him do it. We are friends right now, and I hope to become better friends with him so this could actually happen. I think I want this because he is what I want to look like. I can't wait until we become better friends!
- age 14, Kentucky
The only one I'd like to watch is my wife, and I'm blessed to be able to do it frequently. Each of us gets a real charge out of watching the other masturbate — the one who's watching usually gets horny to the point of joining the party, so that we're both going at it, changing our rhythm so we can climax at the same time. For me, watching my wife's handiwork is hugely erotic, but it's also a continuing post-grad education in how to please her. She tells me (and shows me in action) that watching me has the same effect on her.
- age 44, Missouri
It would be interesting to watch my identical twin brother masturbate!
- age 16, California
Probably my 19-year-old cousin. He seems to understand masturbation well, and I would really like to see how another guy makes his penis happy. If at all possible, I would love to masturbate with him to learn his techniques and to teach him mine. I think it would really strengthen our bond and give us more to do together. I think he also has interest in seeing me masturbate; he's sort of hinted at it in our conversations about masturbation. Anyway, thanks for having this question, because now I have the courage to ask him to masturbate for (or maybe with) me.
- age 18, Georgia
This will sound awful, but I'd most want to see my brother masturbate. I have that desire because it's so taboo and forbidden, and there is something exciting about the idea of breaking that kind of "rule." In real life, I'm quite sure that I wouldn't act upon it even if the opportunity presented itself, but in my fantasies and the odd erotic dream, watching my brother is very sexy.
- age 30, Canada (female)
There are 3 or 4 boys on our junior high swim team that I would like to watch masturbate. They are my age and good looking. I've seen them naked, they are similar to me in size, and I just think it would be fun to get together and all of us masturbate. I have a few other friends who like to masturbate with me and some more would be cool. Also, the new assistant coach, who is about 22, would be awesome to watch! I've never seen anyone older masturbate.
- age 13, Ohio
I'd like to watch my mom masturbate. I know that's kind of weird, but she's an attractive woman and I'd like to see her naked. She's a single mom and extremely secretive about anything having to do with her and sex. This only adds to my curiosity, because I know she has to masturbate or have sex sometime, although I could be wrong. I think that much of the time she's too tense and would benefit from a good orgasm or two. I have no idea why I feel this way. All I can say is that I've felt this way since I was 13 or 14, and the feelings are still there today.
- age 24, Wisconsin
I would really like to see my father masturbate. While I've masturbated with cousins and compared technique notes with my grandpa, I've never caught my dad in the act. I've seen his penis before, but I'd be interested in seeing how our techniques vary, whether he uses lube, how much semen he ejaculates, etc. I guess I'm just curious because he's the one guy in my family I haven't seen masturbate. I'd be interested to know if father and son are similar in preferences.
- age 17, North Carolina
Two people — first, a bagger at my local grocery store. He's about 20 years old — tall, thin, blond, with a prominent Adam's apple. I don't know for sure why I want to see him do it, but I've been picturing him lying back on pillows, head back, with penis in hand, since the first time I saw him. The other one I'd like to see is my best girlfriend. She's a sexy, good friend and sometimes we turn each other on with our very open talks about our boyfriends. For once I'd just like to "go all the way" with her.
- age 28, California (female)
I would really like to watch one of my friends masturbate. I don't even know if he masturbates; I'm afraid to ask him. He is really muscular and quite popular. He is my role model. I think I would like to watch him masturbate just because I admire him so much.
- age 13, Wisconsin
I keep having this fantasy of seeing my boyfriend's father masturbate without him knowing that I'm watching. I imagine that I'm hiding in his closet, or that I "catch" him masturbating while watching a porno movie late at night in their TV room. He is an extremely attractive man, and I've liked him from the day I met him. I think I would like to see him pleasure himself because I would find it erotic to see the man shoot the semen that made my boyfriend. I think it's because I never had a father, so it's erotic for me to want to be close to him in these ways.
- age 21, New York
My best friends are twins. I would like to watch them to see if they masturbate the same. I'd also like to see if they really are identical in *every* way.
- age 15, Oregon
I had a hard time thinking of one person in particular (there are many that I'd like to watch). After some thought, however, it was clear — you (the webmaster). I'd like to watch you! I've come to this site for about two years. You have provided instruction to the curious and an outlet for those more experienced looking to share their fantasies and details about their masturbation habits and techniques. However, I don't recall any instances where you shared yours. I guess I'd like to watch the expert doing what he does best. Most of all, I'd like to watch you bring pleasure to yourself — Lord knows, you've brought it to me and countless others.
- age 34, Virginia