A guy. It's a matter of equipment. Guys have penises, and they masturbate them. They know what it feels like. They know how to do it. Girls can learn, but they'll never understand the exact feelings you're having, and they'll never know exactly how to touch you to get you really excited. Another guy, well — he'll do an excellent job. Girls get bored easily and think it takes too long. That's because they can't tell the difference between what's nice and what hurts. Another guy does. When you say, "do it like this" or "do it like that," they understand. Plus, you can learn things from each other.
- age 17, United Kingdom
I'd pick a guy. I have always fantasized of being masturbated by another guy, just to see what it would feel like.
- age 14, Florida
A girl for sure. I'm straight. Also, I can have a lot of fun with the girl. I can masturbate her at the same time.
- age 27, New York
No two thoughts about it — a guy! Girls are so clueless when it comes to giving a guy a handjob! I want someone with experience!
- age 17, Massachusetts
A girl, because girls turn me on more than guys do. Guys do not turn me on at all.
- age 14, California
I think I'd have to choose another guy. Some of my friends are kind of open about masturbating, usually in the form of jokes, and I always get aroused when I hear them talk about it. I've always wondered what it would be like to have another guy's hand on my penis, and I think it would be exciting to do the same to him. I'm not gay and would never have any type of sex with any of my guy friends, but I often think about them masturbating while I masturbate and think it would be fun to have a mutual jack-off session with one of them.
- age 16, New York
Even though I'm hetero, I would pick a man, because I think it would be more exotic — and I have never had anyone else do it to me. One should not underestimate the aspect of it being strange and new.
- age 17, Germany
A guy, because males have been masturbating since the dawn of time. Seeing a girl give a guy a handjob is really cute, 'cause they don't know they're messing with the masters!
- age 16, Canada
A girl, because it would feel weird being masturbated by a guy.
- age 13, Massachusetts
A guy. I am not gay, but the thought of another guy masturbating me turns me on. Just the thought of another guy seeing me spooge gets me hard.
- age 18, Iowa
Hmmm ... tough one! A guy certainly would know what feels best — but then a girl is a girl, man! I would have to say I'd prefer having a girl masturbate me. Call me weird, but ....
- age 21, Illinois
A girl. I like the idea of masturbation with other guys, but I am straight and would like it with girls even more.
- age 13, Colorado
I would have to say by a guy. I have gotten masturbated by girls, and they don't do it right. Guys have more experience, and it's also a more exotic kind of feeling.
- age 18, New Jersey
A guy. I don't consider myself gay or bi, but for some reason I have always wanted to be masturbated by a guy. Perhaps I just don't feel ready for any experimentation with the opposite sex — but masturbating with another guy just seems sort of natural.
- age 15, Texas
A girl, because I would feel more comfortable looking at a girl rather than another guy.
- age 17, California
A guy. It just seems like something I want to try for the experience. But only with a friend I am already very close to. It just seems dangerous, fun, and exciting. I would of course masturbate him, too — otherwise it would just seem too weird.
- age 16, California
A girl. Her tender touch would feel good.
- age 16, Australia
I would definitely want another guy to masturbate me. Women are always too gentle with their hands — most don't even know how to give a firm handshake, much less know how to really jack a dude off!
- age 33, Texas
Both. A girl is more fun to do it with, because of the feminine part — and it's more erotic (at least when you are very horny). But a guy is better because he knows what he is doing. Most girls don't know how to give handjobs, and the wrong way can really hurt. Guys know what to do, and it feels oh so good.
- age 18, Florida
I would definitely pick a girl, because it would be more like sexual intercourse (I think).
- age 13, Indiana
A guy — because it's a male thing!
- age 15, United Kingdom
As much as I love the hands of my woman caressing my penis, and I know the touch is much more intimate, I still feel that only a guy knows how to get a guy's rocks off the best. Only a guy could know what it feels like during those long pleasurable moments before you reach the point of no return, and how to prolong that beautiful feeling. Then, when you reach the incredible spit-second point of inevitability, only a guy knows how hard, fast, and furious to pump. Guys know best!
- age 42, New York
A girl, because they have soft and beautiful hands.
- age 15, New York
I would have to say a guy. I don't really know why. I just feel more comfortable around guys than girls.
- age 16, Ohio
Personally, I would choose a girl. I'd prefer her softer hands on my penis than another guy's hands. I wouldn't worry about her not knowing how — I could teach her that.
- age 14, New York
If your question became a reality, I would need the person to be near me 24/7! I would choose another guy (I am not gay) because he would know the territory well, and he could show me new or different techniques. Also, it's never happened, so I am curious!
- age 19, Missouri
Without question, a girl. There is hardly anything that turns me on more than seeing a small, soft, feminine hand stroking my penis. It is a totally different feeling than my rough and large hands doing the job.
- age 18, Kentucky
A guy, because I make love to girls and masturbate with guys.
- age 16, Texas
A guy. Even though I'm straight, I don't feel ready to have girl see me naked. I am not embarrassed about my body — just protective of it.
- age 15, California
I probably would pick a girl, because to me it seems more like making love ... or more like making each other feel good.
- age 12, Arizona
I guess I would choose a guy, even though I am straight. Let's face it — you can be masturbated by your wife/girlfriend for the rest of your life. You may as well make this month a different one!
- age 16, Australia
Definitely a guy. I would not like a girl doing a job on me.
- age 11, Illinois
I would pick a girl, because I have been masturbated by another boy, and I want to know what it's like to have a girl do it.
- age 15, Utah
Probably a guy. I don't think I'd want a girl to do it, because I would probably go too far and start having intercourse, which I prefer to wait for until I am married.
- age 14, Alabama
I would say a guy first, but only because it's something guys think about — but many never would do. Then I'd say a girl, because once the thrill of masturbating with another guy is over, it's over — unless you're looking for more. Girls present a second challenge. Most guys want to get it on with them but are too shy or embarrassed.
- age 20, Canada
A girl. Originally, I had only been interested in other guys and was actually convinced I was homosexual. But at about age 14 I lost interest in guys and switched over to girls. Now, the thought of being masturbated by a guy sickens me. I can't understand why you'd want anybody but a girl to do it. Personal preference, I suppose.
- age 16, Colorado
A guy, definitely. Although chicks are great, guys are the pros at masturbating. Being masturbated by another guy is great. If you're with another guy, try putting both your penises together and masturbating them at the same time.
- age 25, Louisiana
I've had both males and females masturbate me, and I have to admit guys do a much better job. They know all the right spots and exactly where to touch you to make you go crazy,. A girl has no idea — she just guesses.
- age 21, Virginia
A girl. Although I would not mind being masturbated by another guy sometimes, I would rather be masturbated by a girl over a long period of time. I am not gay, so a girl would also win in that regard. I would only masturbate with a guy from time to time.
- age 17, North Carolina
A guy, because a lot of women think masturbation is not a cool thing to be doing.
- age 18, Canada
A girl. When I masturbate, I fantasize about either getting masturbated or having sex with another woman — so if I could have a woman masturbate me for real, I would take that without question.
- age 23, Pennsylvania
Definitely a guy. A man understands the need to masturbate, so he'd be willing to do it more often. A girl may think you're a pervert or something if you masturbate more than a few times a week. Also, you could return the favor.
- age 14, Colorado
A guy. Doing it with a guy would feel natural. I am straight.
- age 16, Oregon
A girl, because I'm not comfortable with other guys masturbating me. It might also lead to something else.
- age 14, Ohio
I have been masturbated by both guys and girls, and for me the guys were almost always better. They know what feels good on themselves, and that really helps. Also, they usually have bigger hands and can apply better pressure on my penis.
- age 30, Georgia
I think it would have to be a guy, because I've fantasized what that would be like, and I am more curious about that. I figure if I ever get the chance to experience what it would be like, it would have to be now — because when I'm older, I doubt if it could occur.
- age 16, Florida
A girl, because I don't want a guy touching my penis if I don't have to.
- age 14, Ohio
Another guy — naturally.
- age 32, Denmark
Definitely a girl. If you didn't want it this way, I would think you might start to consider yourself gay. I don't think that if you masturbate with a guy you are gay — but if you prefer to, maybe you are.
- age 17, Australia
Another guy. I think it would be wonderful to share the pleasures of masturbation with someone of the same sex — preferably my best friend. I've got all my life to be with a woman, and I would like to find out how it would feel for my best friend to masturbate me. I hope sometime in the near future I can gain the courage to ask my friend if he would like to mutually masturbate with me — especially since neither one of us is dating anyone right now. It would be a great way for both of us to make each other feel better. Anyway, there's no harm in experimenting with someone, especially if it is safe.
- age 19, Texas
A guy. I've only been done by dudes and wouldn't want to take a chance on whether a girl would know how to do it.
- age 14, California
I would probably like a guy. I've had some girls who don't know what the hell they're doing, and it pisses me off — you're just like, "I'll finish it myself, damn it!" I'm not gay, because I like pussy and all — but I like thinking about other guys, too. I guess I'm bi, but I don't know.
- age 16, Ohio
A girl, because I feel better about being "in control" of a woman by having her masturbate me. I don't get that sense of dominance over a man.
- age 20, New York
I have had many women masturbate me, and it is not a very pleasurable experience. When women do it, they are always ripping out hair and trying to take my "head" off. Although I have never been masturbated by a guy, I would like to try it, because a guy knows what it takes to get the job done.
- age 20, Pennsylvania
I would probably pick a girl, because I love women. I love everything about them — their soft skin, light touch, well ... everything. I'd love to masturbated daily by a girl, to watch the way she was amazed by my erect penis and get very into it. Woman are more sensual than men. I don't have anything against a man masturbating me — it's just that other guys only do it so you'll masturbate them. A woman will do it just for the experience.
- age 15, South Carolina
Most inexperienced girls haven't got a clue what a guy likes or where he is in the pleasure process. Guys get close to the edge early, back off, get close again — again and again (but can orgasm in about 10 seconds if necessary). A girl takes much longer to orgasm and can have multiple orgasms. Maybe this is the reason girls don't understand how a guy likes it. In any case, a girl can drive you crazy if she stops rubbing at the first sign of ejaculation, exactly when rubbing is most pleasurable. I guy would know not to stop — but he wouldn't necessarily know any better about how I like it. Given a month to train a person, I would probably enjoy it after the first week no matter whose fist it was. I guess I'd pick a guy, however, because he'd likely have a bigger hand (more contact) and shorter nails (so as not to scratch). In any case, I'd be counting down the days until I could wrap my own fist around my favorite play-thing again.
- age 49, New York
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IF, FOR THE NEXT MONTH, YOU COULD EJACULATE ONLY BY BEING MASTURBATED BY EITHER A GIRL OR A GUY, WHICH WOULD YOU PICK?
[Notes: Of those who picked one sex over another, 65.5% would pick a male, and 34.5% would pick a female. Of those who had experience with both sexes, almost all agreed guys have better technique than girls. Of those who picked a male, almost all said it was because guys know how to do it better. Of those who picked a girl, about half said it was because they were not gay.]