I've been masturbated by both male and female many times, and believe me — no female can do it like a male. Girls do not truly understand the penis like a guy does. I've had girls pull back on my shaft so hard I thought the skin would tear off where it connects to the head. Or, when you tell a girl she can squeeze your penis tighter for more pleasure, this does not mean also to grab your eggs and crack them. Guys just know not to do these things. A guy has countless experiences in handling his own penis, and he knows exactly what to do and how to handle it to make the best orgasm. I love being masturbated by a guy. The best, longest, and most intense orgasm I've ever had was by another guy, and to this day I recall that experience when I masturbate. Please, God, give me one month of these orgasms...please.
- age 47, Canada
This Week's Wackiest Response:
Most definitely a guy. Why would I let a girl masturbate my penis when she has obviously already broken hers off?
- age 16, Arizona
I would pick a guy only because it's been so many years since I had mutual masturbation sessions with my best friend. We are both married now and work so many hours we don't have the time. Our wives are usually with us whenever we're together. I think he would like to relive the experience as much as I would, but the opportunity never seems to arise. (No pun intended.) It was a very strong bonding and sharing experience and we've been best friends since first grade. We are now 43 years old and I think we would both enjoy it. I may plan a golf trip for just the two of us. That would be a good reason to have a weekend with my buddy.
- age 43, South Carolina
I would pick a girl for two reasons. First, I am married and want only my wife to masturbate me. Second, if I did pick a guy and my wife caught me, she would no longer be my wife, and that is not an option.
- age 26, Tennessee
Even though I'm not gay, my roommate and I had mutual sessions almost every Sunday night. Now that college is out for the summer and I'm back with my girlfriend, she's taken the matter in hand. However, my roommate did a better job *by far!* It would definitely have to be another guy. Guys know what buttons to push. My girlfriend gets bored with it after about 5 minutes and gives up. I just can't wait for school to start in fall!
- age 20, California
Until a few months ago, I would definitely have said I'd prefer a guy. But since starting penetrative sex with my girlfriend, I would now say a girl. I found that my girlfriend could also masturbate me as though she instinctively knew how to give me the most pleasure — and how to delay my orgasm. It's as though she has had her own penis to practice on. And when I ejaculate with her, it is exciting to cover her breasts with my semen. In the past, I have ejaculated in front of my friend, but this didn't give me any great thrill.
- age 14, Sweden
I'm a guy who thinks that another guy might be the better choice. Who else knows best how to masturbate a guy but another guy? We've had plenty of practice on ourselves, that's why. I thought it would be fun to have my female partner attempt to masturbate me once and I patiently explained to her how I'd like to have it done. She didn't grip my penis hard enough to stimulate it to orgasm and the feel of the lubricant on her hands turned her off. She also told me she really didn't like the unpredictability of when and where my semen would shoot. She became frustrated and her hand began to tire when I didn't climax within the first five minutes of our fun. Since I was a teen, I have often fantasized about another guy masturbating me, even though I am straight.
- age 25, Washington
I would pick a girl because they know the female genitals.
- age 16, California (female)
A guy for sure — I love having sex with a girl, and being masturbated by a girl, but it is the excitement of being with someone else that makes it so good. The actual orgasms I have when masturbating myself are much better, because I know just what feels good. So I figure that another guy is much more likely to know what feels great for a guy and to be able to do it.
- age 21, Australia
I would choose either. I am bisexual and would love for a nude girl or guy to masturbate me.
- age 19, California
Having been masturbated by both, I'd choose another guy. Just seems like we know best how to handle a penis and make it more pleasurable. It's something about the grip and ability to "read" the responses and know when to slow down or speed up.
- age 44, Vermont
I would choose a guy for a number of reasons. They can do it much better than a girl. It is a unique bonding experience to masturbate with a friend. And there is no commitment to a relationship because you're already friends. Plus, I've always fantasized about masturbation sessions with other males. When I develop a deep enough relationship with a female, then we can move into sexual play. But I don't want to move into an intimate relationship with another male; so we can engage in sexual play just because it's something different than doing it by yourself.
- age 15, Washington
If it were only for a week, I would choose a guy because he would know what he's doing. But for a whole month, I would choose a girl because doing this for such a long period of time would undoubtedly produce a very intense and personal relationship. And by masturbating me from one to three times a day, she would become just as good at it as any guy in less than a week.
- age 19, Montana
I have had many hand jobs from women but only a few were what I would call great. However, I have also had several hand jobs from guys and they almost all were great. I believe that guys know how to work the equipment and therefore if I had a choice, it would have to be a guy working on mine.
- age 49, Canada
Guy or gal — I really wouldn't care. So, given that indifference, I would, perhaps, prefer a guy to masturbate me — he would have a more intimate knowledge of how to please a guy, and where and how to get me going. So a guy it is, then. (No doubt you will get many responses to these questions that say "I'd choose a girl 'cause I'm not gay," but I don't think that homo/heterosexuality has anything to do with this question — just my thoughts.)
- age 17, Australia
A guy — friend only. I would never consider being masturbated by one of my female friends. It would be way too awkward and uncomfortable for me to deal with afterwards. And, doing this with a stranger is way out of the question.
- age 45, Maine (female)
A guy, I guess. At camp last year, a friend showed me how he does it by doing it for me. It was the best ever and I greatly enjoyed it. I don't think any girl could repeat that. I wasn't attracted to this guy at camp and I'm still not, but I have stayed in contact (we're in different states) and he's going to try to get to camp again this year; I'm already signed up. If he's there, I'm going to show him some of the stuff I learned at home over last year (he can't access JackinWorld — no computer at home, and his school locks out educational sites...go figure). I just don't see how a girl could know how to stroke the way a guy does.
- age 14, Washington
Although my response is purely conjecture, I would pick a guy hands down (pun entirely intended). Another man would have a far better idea of how to masturbate a guy than would most women. He would understand the importance of pressure and stroke, of employing the "Stop & Go" method, and how to gauge when a male is nearing ejaculation. Moreover, a guy would be far less squeamish about masturbating a pal through a satisfying orgasm — complete with abundant semen on his hand — than would most women.
- age 62, Michigan
If I could only reach orgasm by another person, it would definitely be a guy. I'm not gay, but having another guy masturbate me would really turn me on! I've never had it done before, except by a girl. So it would be an exciting new thing to try. Also, if it was by a guy, then chances are that I could turn around and masturbate him!
- age 14, Colorado
I can understand the feeling that a guy, being proprietor of a penis, knows more about its care and handling than a girl would. But as a straight guy, I'd still prefer a girl pleasuring and treasuring my member. I'd devote the first week of the month to basic training, showing her the touches, the moves, the hot spots I like — and learning what she wants as well, because I would expect the fondling to be mutual. After that short course in Masturbation 101, we'd be ready — and I guarantee you, by the end of the month, my orgasms (and I hope hers too) would be better than a same-sex partner could deliver.
- age 39, Ohio
Even though I am straight, I would rather be masturbated by a guy because for a whole month, which is a long time, my penis has to be stroked right. I have let girls masturbate me before, but often it was either too slow, too fast, or the wrong way — and they often complained of the cramps they had in their wrists because of the amount of work that had to be put into doing the job. However, a guy should know exactly what to do and it wouldn't take a long time, because he would simply be used to it, as he has what you have. I think it would be the same for a woman, too — no one knows a woman's spots better than a woman.
- age 17, Maryland
I would pick a guy. I get off watching guys masturbate. I would love it if he would masturbate while lying next to me, and then just finger me until I have an orgasm. That would be the best!
- age 39, New Jersey (female)
I'd choose a girl because I'm a straight guy and it is just a lot sexier that way. Plus, I would love to return the favor.
- age 16, Texas
As a teen I experienced many mutual masturbation sessions with a few good friends until about age 18. I was single until 31 and had hetero sex exclusively. Now, I have been married for 32 years. Therefore, I have experienced a male hand until age 18 and a female hand thereafter. Possibly it was the excitement of youth, but my memories of males masturbating me are more intense than the female situations. Or, is it that guys know what masturbation is all about and know better how to satisfy another guy? It might be fun to meet up with some of those teen friends again and relive the memories in person.
- age 63, North Carolina
Probably a girl, because most girls know their way around a vagina better than guys do. Plus, it's fun to see the other girl get wet.
- age 16, Indiana (female)
I would have to answer by a girl. I am in a stable relationship with a female and if the only way to achieve an orgasm was by being masturbated then I would have the most pleasure and frequency with her. I have also been masturbated by a male and can say that as a rule, males can do a better job because they know better what is most enjoyable. However, if two people are discussing the situation as they pleasure each other, it is possible to achieve a most pleasant experience with either gender. Communication leads to more pleasure.
- age 63, Georgia
I'd definitely pick a guy because I think there's something really sexy about them not really knowing what it feels like for me and I think it's very sexy to watch them try so hard to make me orgasm. Oh and also because I'm not very attracted to girls!
- age 18, Australia (female)
I would definitely choose a guy, especially if I could masturbate him as well. One reason is that I am bisexual and there is nothing like holding another man's hard penis in your hands and hearing him moan as he ejaculates, all while he does it to you. Also I think that guys just know better than a girl how to masturbate a penis. There is something subtle about the right pressure and speed and knowing what pleases another guy. Years of practice I guess!
- age 46, Germany
A guy. No question. My wife does a good job of masturbating me (when she decides to), but my best friend is a guy and guys know what guys like. Once, she asked for a "lesson" on masturbating a guy, so my friend and I demonstrated for her. She sat back and admitted, "I feel so inadequate." I just do to him what I would want, and he does to me what I would want. A woman can't know that, even with masturbation education!
- age 31, Maine
Well I am a guy...and although I know another guy would do a much "better" job as far as knowing what to do, as a married heterosexual, the only person besides me authorized to do that is a "girl" — specifically, my wife! So definitely, a "girl!"
- age 41, Arizona
A guy — I'd be too embarrassed to have a girl do it.
- age 14, Illinois
A woman. Having your package rubbed by anyone is fun, but for me, a woman is preferable to a man, as I am primarily heterosexual. The disadvantage is that they don't understand why we like to have our penises rubbed so often and they usually don't feel as much in favor of casual sexual contact as men. In other words, with a guy a mutual wank is often just another fun thing to do; whereas with a female, it becomes a situation involving love, commitment, and respect.
- age 30, Arizona
A guy, I have been married for 22 years and my wife still can't bring the pleasure to me that a guy can. Many men and boys have masturbated me in my life, and a few women, but no woman has been able to pleasure me like a guy.
- age 45, California
I started masturbating just last year. So far, the girl next door, who's 14, has masturbated me because she asked to, and so I let her. She rubbed too hard and too fast, but did make me ejaculate real fast. It hurt a little. Last month, my best friend and I had a sleepover and we masturbated together. He did it much better. He went real slow and didn't rub me too hard. I liked it lots better!
- age 13, Ohio
A guy, because I'm straight!
- age 28, United Kingdom (female)
I've been married for 44 years, and still would prefer to be masturbated by a guy. The bottom line is that a guy can handle another guy (or a woman, another woman) because they know their bodies. It also satisfies the bisexual feelings I have. I'm lucky to have a friend and we do each other once or twice a month when the opportunity arises. It is our "secret" and no one knows about our outings. Sometimes we do it in the car, or when we go on fishing trips — or, when our wives are not home. There's nothing like it!
- age 64, Iowa
A girl. I'm a gay male and have only been masturbated by a girl maybe once in my life, so it would be more intriguing and exciting than having just another guy do it.
- age 45, New York
I guess I would choose a guy. I recall my teen years, when I masturbated regularly with my nephew, who was my age. Nowadays I enjoy also being masturbated by my wife (we both love mutual masturbation). Even so, I would love to take the opportunity to go back 20 years!
- age 37, Belgium
I would love to be masturbated by a girl, especially a really hot girl that I know. I would pick a girl because first of all I'm not gay, and secondly it could develop into a great sexual relationship. Who doesn't develop a good relationship after you've been touched up by someone?
- age 14, United Kingdom
It would be a girl. I have dreamed of being with girls even since before I knew about masturbation or connected it with erections. There was a nervous time as a teen when I couldn't stop masturbating and no girls were interested in me that I figured I must be gay. That proved to be wrong in my case, because I never quit dreaming of girls and in a few years I had girlfriends, and then a lover, and later, a wife. And still, I masturbate because I need to masturbate and enjoy being a man; yet at the same time, one of my most powerful fantasies is to be masturbated by a woman.
- age 44, Wisconsin
A guy — a girl would be too risque at my age.
- age 14, Oregon
I don't think I'd really care. Although you would think a guy would have a better feel for what another guy would like, I think a girl can be more fascinated with stroking a guy's penis and would want to please him more than a guy would. Of course, it all depends on their sexual orientation in the first place, as to how dedicated they would be to the task at hand.
- age 57, Ohio
First off, I can't imagine not being able to masturbate myself or have sex with someone for a month. But at least, someone else could masturbate me. I would have to choose a girl to do it for me, because I have only achieved orgasms by getting fingered by a girl. A guy has given me an orgasm only through actual intercourse. Since girls know girls the best and right places to explore, I think I would have no choice but to do it with a girl, which I have no problem with. Sorry guys!
- age 18, Arizona (female)
Definitely a guy, as they know exactly what to do. I am uncircumcised, so another intact guy would be a bonus, as he would know how to use the foreskin better than most circumcised men. I think deep down, many men want to be masturbated by another male, but are afraid to admit it. I have had it done before and the orgasms have been incredible.
- age 30, Australia
I'd have to pick a girl. My sense of morality is too strong for me to choose otherwise. I don't like the whole idea of being masturbated by another male; I just find girls infinitely more erotic, arousing, and hot than guys.
- age 17, United Kingdom
I'd choose being masturbated by a guy. I'd like to explore what that feels like. My girlfriend has masturbated me at times. Although it's very good, I'm afraid she'd make me sore after an entire month. Perhaps a guy would know a little bit better how to treat another guy? Besides, maybe I'm slightly bi-curious.
- age 23, Norway
I'd have to say that I'd rather a guy masturbate me. I find it very much of a turn-on to be masturbated by someone else, especially a guy. They have much more determination (at least the ones I've been with) to bring me to orgasm. I also think that it is a great way to get close to a guy, sometimes it seems that masturbating can be even more intimate than intercourse itself.
- age 19, Ontario, Canada (female)
I would prefer to be masturbated by a girl because I would not be comfortable having a guy masturbate me; it just is not right — at least, not for me. It is just better to have your girlfriend toss you off, instead — probably because I would have to call it gay having another bloke doing it to you. I think most males feel more comfortable being tossed off in the company of the opposite sex.
- age 16, United Kingdom
A real toughie, this time — at this point in my life, having batted from both sides of the plate, so to speak, I'd have to say I'd rather receive from my neighbor, a woman. We have a standing "play date" for every Wednesday evening, unless something really special comes up, and it rarely does. I have nothing against my current boyfriend, who is outstanding in bed, but my neighbor knows the touch a woman wants and needs and is so terribly talented. The thrill of "forbidden" sex is so stimulating. I didn't have to train her and she always surprises me with something new to make me smile.
- age 26, Florida (female)
A guy would be better to masturbate me. Reason #1: I'm gay. Reason #2: I used to think I was straight and every girl I had a sexual encounter with seemed rather ignorant when it came to the male genitalia. Obviously, they knew that stimulating it was a worthwhile cause, but they didn't know at all how to do it. I would imagine that some girls can become rather adept in stimulating the male genitalia, but there is a term for them and Cybill Shepard stated it quite properly in the NBC movie about Martha Stewart — "Hey slut! I'm writing your parents a letter telling them you're a whore!"
- age 25, Illinois