I have always wanted to masturbate with another guy, but I never had the opportunity in my teens, when most guys tend to get together for experimentation. I feel like I missed out on something fundamental. I have read the Kinsey Report, which states that nearly 60% of all males have at one time had a sexual experience with another male. This has always intrigued me. Last year, I answered a personal ad placed by a bisexual married guy who wanted to get together with another guy for masturbation. We communicated for some time and finally met. I was really nervous, but he was a nice guy, and we decided the next night we'd get together again to do the deed, which we did. It was a little awkward, but I really enjoyed it. I helped him and he helped me, and then we sat around naked for an hour or so talking. Eventually, we masturbated each other again before parting. It was a great experience, but it's out of my system now.
- age 36, Massachusetts
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- age 17, Ohio
This question brings back memories! I was 16 and helping my best friend clean out their horse barn, when their stud horse got a tremendously huge erection at least 3 feet long. We were cracking up laughing, joking about masturbating the horse and things, when I for some reason said to my friend, if you think the horse has a big penis, you should see mine! He said prove it, and I worked up an erection and showed him. He said his was bigger, and I said prove it, and there we were standing face to face, about a foot apart, staring at our boners. They looked to be the same length, so I said put yours right next to mine. He moved in and we were standing face to face, erections touching. Without saying a word, we began to hump our erections together, and soon climaxed all over. It never happened again, because we both felt so weird afterwards, but we still laugh about it from time to time. I'd love to do it again with him!
- age 19, Kentucky
Twice. Both times we had a "race" to see who would finish first. The first time I was single and a friend of mine was sleeping over. We were talking about sex (as I recall we were looking at "The Joy of Sex") and I was really horny. After the lights went out I asked if he wanted to race, and he did, so we went for it. The second time (after I was married) was when I was spending the night at a friend's house and we were talking about masturbation. He had not masturbated in several weeks, so I suggested we should have a race. In both situations, we didn't see each other's genitals because the other guys were too shy to do that.
- age 31, Minnesota
Although I've since had many gay sexual experiences, the first time I masturbated with another guy was about as "straight" as two guys spanking the monkey together can be. When we were both about 15, my best mate stayed over at my house, and we lay in our separate beds watching TV late at night. As is typical of late-night TV, the programs were boring, but the ads in between — commercials for phone sex that have since been banned for being too explicit — kept us awake. We began to talk in depth about the things we were seeing and the things we'd like to do, and I ended up saying, "Dude, we're far too horny right now — let's just have a 'pull' and get it out of our system." Under the blankets of separate beds, looking straight up at the ceiling and having no physical or even verbal contact during the process whatsoever, we both went crazy. For me, just knowing he was masturbating only meters away from me was a biggest turn-on that the little virgin I was at the time had ever experienced.
- age 20, Australia
Last summer my 15-year-old brother walked in on me masturbating in my bedroom. He said not to be embarrassed, and that he did it also. We talked about how long each of us had been masturbating and what ways we liked to do it. Each of us got erections, and we decided to do it together then because we were the only ones home. It was kind of weird doing it with my brother, but it was also exciting, because I had never seen anyone ejaculate before.
- age 14, California
Of course! How does a guy learn otherwise? I was 11, my pal a year older, and we were outside after a cookout while all the adults were inside. I don't remember exactly how we got there, but soon he was masturbating and I was copying what he was doing. It was my first orgasm, and it startled me so much I stopped. What was that? I thought. I tried it a few more times that evening and eventually discovered that's what an orgasm was supposed to feel like. From that moment on, I was an unrepentant masturbator! Over the next year or so he and I continued to masturbate with each other and even to masturbate each other whenever we had the occasion — maybe half-dozen times all total. By then I had begun to ejaculate upon orgasm, so it was even more delightful.
- age 58, Florida
Never! Ain't no dude touching my boys! Just this spring a *former* friend was staying over at my house for the night after a junior-prom party, and I let him sleep in my room, since all the other beds in the house were taken. I woke up about 3 AM — he had pulled off my sheets and was playing with my penis and pumping his own pud at the same time. I shoved him out of my bed, got dressed, and then kicked him out of the house and told everyone that he tried to play with my package while I was sleeping. My best bud is still friends with him, but I won't get near him anymore.
- age 17, Georgia
I was 17. I had been wanting to masturbate with my best friend for a long time, and I decided to give it a chance while I was house-sitting. We had a couple of beers, and I told him where we could find a big stack of porn. He was up to seeing it, so we looked at pictures together and also read some erotic stories. When asked, he told me that the stories made him more horny, so we read more stories (by this point, I had guessed that he was interested, too). When it was obvious that we both had erections, I mentioned that there were also a couple of vibrators, and he was "up" for that, too. We measured our penis sizes (which were the same), and I had one of the best orgasms ever! Afterwards, we were still friends, but he felt pretty guilty about the whole thing.
- age 41, Washington
No, I haven't. I would like to one day, but probably not with a friend, in case it got weird later.
- age 19, Australia (female)
Yes, one time a friend and I went skinny-dipping in my hot tub. We messed around, and then we dried off, came to my room, and masturbated together. It was awesome. The best part, though, was rubbing our bodies together in the warm water. I wish I could do it again.
- age 15, Illinois
Yes, I have masturbated with another girl on many occasions and actually do it quite frequently. My first experience with this was when I was about 10 years old. I was sleeping over at my friend's house, and it was pretty late and dark in the room, and we were just chatting quietly with each other. Somehow we got onto the topic of our vaginas. We ended up showing each other our private areas, and soon we dared each other to touch the other. We didn't know exactly what we were doing, but we knew it felt good. We continued to experiment with each other every time we could, and we've done so ever since. Now we even take it a little further with each other. Both of us are very sexual and prefer guys, but instead of sleeping around with every guy we meet, we find it safer to relieve our sexual frustration with each other.
- age 18, Arizona (female)
My older brother introduced me to the wonderful world of masturbation at an early age, and from then on I always had a buddy or two for masturbation. It was an almost constant thing for most of my teen years. We all later married and had children and grandchildren. I think all of that learning to share was good for us all.
- age 68, Texas
The first time I masturbated with a guy was a little less than a year ago. I was spending the night with a friend, and we were lying on the twin beds in his room, and I developed quite an erection. Not being one to waste a good erection, I took it out and began stroking in earnest. He was a little apprehensive at first, but after we joked around and he found some lotion, he took out his penis and began masturbating also. We shared techniques (most of mine gleaned from the pages of JackinWorld) and compared penis size and how much we ejaculated. It was interesting seeing his penis and the way he masturbated and the differences and similarities to myself. It was a turn-on to watch someone and have someone watch me, and I had a great orgasm.
- age 16, North Carolina
One VCR...one TV...one sofa...two guys...stuff happens!
- age 37, New York
Yes. It was nighttime, and my friend and I were having a sleepover. It began of course as simple sex talk, but it grew into the "show me yours and I'll show you mine" sort of thing. From there it escalated to touching, massaging, and just the routine experimentation normal for boys our age (we were 13). After that we just started masturbating right in front of each other, and since we are straight, we started talking about the girls we liked. Eventually we were too horny to contain ourselves, and we started masturbating each other. Let me tell you, there is nothing better than to have someone do the work for you! I had one the most intense orgasms ever, and we have done this many times since. By the way, I am a devout Christian, and this is the same friend I pray with. God is good!
- age 15, Indiana
Tons of times, and I will continue to do it. I'm a total bi-guy and have been since I was old enough to masturbate. There aren't many friends of mine that I haven't done it with. We're all "straight," but seriously, only a couple have turned me down. One friend actually walked in on me masturbating on the computer one night, and a couple of nights later, he just kind of brought it up that it was cool with him, and we started to do it. We've done it a couple of times together since then, which is always fun!
- age 31, California
We had company so I had to share my room with my brother, who's 16. We were watching TV in bed and he asked to see my penis. I showed him, and he wanted to touch it. While he was touching it I got an erection, and he began to masturbate me. He took down his boxers and began to masturbate himself with his other hand. I took over on him, and we began to masturbate each other.
- age 14, Oregon
My first masturbation experience was at the hands of two other boys. I was 11 on a sleepover in a backyard fort. One friend had an older brother who had shown him how to get "sperm" out of his penis by rubbing it. It sounded crazy, but I was going to be the first to try. I never touched myself — my two buddies took turns rubbing me. I felt this burning from deep inside, and I asked them to stop — they didn't. Suddenly I was very surprised by the splash of semen on my stomach, chest, and face. I freaked and yelled at them to "get it off." They cleaned off the mess and I went to sleep.
- age 46, California
Yes, I have masturbated with a member of the same sex. One day my friend and I were sitting upstairs in my room just talking about guy stuff: sex, masturbating, orgasms. I got a really hard boner. My friend was wearing gym shorts so I could tell he had one also. He then pulled down his pants and started stroking his penis. I then felt it would be okay if I did the same, so I pulled down my pants and started to masturbate also. We just lay there on the floor watching each other masturbate. I had the best orgasm I'd ever had. We timed our orgasms happen together. When we got through I asked him if he had a good time also, and he said he had the best orgasm in his life. So we both ended up thinking it was pretty good. We are both straight, so we thought it was surprising that we both enjoyed it.
- age 15, Mississippi
Dude, I'm gay.
- age 23, Minnesota
About 4 years ago, while drunk, I was in a hot tub with my friend. We were both naked. He cautiously made a pass at me. We are both straight (at least I think he is — he's married). At first unsure, I got curious, and he moved next to me and began to stroke me, while I started to stroke him. He was fully erect, but I was not. We decided to return to my bedroom, where we masturbated each other as well as performed oral and anal sex on each other. For me, that was a one-time thing. I didn't like it.
- age 29, Florida
I tripped and fell on his penis. I swear!
- age 15, Illinois
No, but it will happen. It must — I have way too many fantasies about it. But it's hard sometimes for a "straight" girl to get another girl, know what I mean?
- age 19, Spain (female)
It was a typical game of truth or dare. I was sleeping over at my buddy's house; we met through swim team, so I had seen him nude many times before. I'm straight, but the sight of his long, developed penis was a weird sort of turn-on. I dared him to masturbate, but he had to watch me do it as well while he masturbated. We both reached huge orgasm, and luckily enough, we weren't caught by his parents.
- age 15, Minnesota
When I was a teen, I had a few opportunities to masturbate with friends, but I always chickened out at the last minute. I always regretted not doing it, and it became a fantasy of mine to someday do it. Three months ago it finally happened at the gym I belong to. I was there early on a Sunday sitting in the steam room. Another guy about my age was in there. I noticed him playing with himself under his towel, so I started, too. After he noticed me doing the same, he came over and sat next to me. We both removed our towels and masturbated each other to ejaculation. Just as we were cleaning ourselves off, someone else walked in. I caught up to him in the parking lot and asked if he would enjoy some more mutual sessions in a more private location. So now we hook up a few times each week at his apartment. Hopefully my wife won't find out about it, as we have advanced to oral sex and are planning some anal exploration soon.
- age 32, Washington
Yes. It was weird. We both stayed under the covers.
- age 15, Wisconsin
Easy one! Boy Scout jamboree, 1974, in a pup tent with a bud. I'll show you mine if you show me yours, followed by, I dare you to touch mine, then only if you touch mine first, then can you jizz yet? That was the first and last time — but I came close again in college. Roomie and I used to watch each other "pull" all the time, but he never had the nerve to let me "pull" him, even though I asked him a hundred times.
- age 41, Michigan
When I was 16 my friend and I were changing into our swim suits in my bedroom, and she was admiring my breasts and asked if she could touch them. One thing led to another, and soon we were trading masturbation techniques in my bed. We both had very intense and very wet orgasms. I'm surprised that my mother didn't hear me moaning. An hour later we finally made it down to the hot tub.
- age 19, California (female)
Yes, and it was great. My friend and I took a shower together, and he dared me to masturbate him. I said I would as long as he masturbated me, too. Well, everything just went from there. I had the best ejaculation ever!
- age 13, Nevada
In my junior year of high school I went to a seminar. During a conversation with some friends I met there, a girl asked if it is true that guys masturbate every day. (I am sure she asked it for pure shock value.) Some guys said yeah (these open admissions surprised me), but my roommate for the seminar said no, that he never masturbated. I didn't believe this, so when we were back in our room that night I brought up the topic. He said that he never masturbated because he didn't know how, and he asked if I could show him, so I did. It was strange masturbating in front of another guy, but exciting, too. He masturbated as well but stopped a couple times because it felt funny, but he ejaculated after about the second try. After seeing him masturbate I am sure that he hadn't ever done it before. To this day I don't know why he didn't figure it out until that time.
- age 19, Wisconsin
About two years ago on a hot summer night, my brother and I were watching a movie. Afterwards he got up and went to the bathroom, and I went to my room. He came out of the bathroom into my room. I was sitting on my bed, and he came over and just kind of hit me on the shoulder, so I hit him back. We then began to wrestle with just our boxers on. I had him in a headlock, and he reached down and grabbed me, so I abandoned the headlock and grabbed him back. We both got erections right in each other's hands, and he said, if you masturbate me, I'll masturbate you. I said okay. I began to stroke him and he began to stroke me. It ended within 30 minutes and we went to sleep. After that, we stayed up late to watch movies a lot!
- age 18, New York
This brings back a bad memory of losing my best friend, and I'd advise anyone considering asking a good friend to masturbate with them to think carefully. I was a typical horny 16-year-old, and my best friend was spending the night for some reason I forget. We were lying on my bed in our underwear, when I pulled out a Penthouse magazine that I stole from my father's closet. We were paging through it and both had very obvious erections. I decided to take a chance and pulled down my underwear, revealing my erection to my friend. I then convinced him to let me see his — so now we were both naked, still paging through the magazine. Without asking first or even giving it any thought, I reached down and started to masturbate him. He let me do it but seemed very nervous. I asked if he would masturbate me — he initially refused, but then I talked him into it. We both achieved orgasm within seconds of each other, and both were obviously very intense, judging from the distance and volume. He immediately jumped out of bed, got dressed, and ran two miles back to his house. I called the next morning and his mother said that he didn't want to talk to me or see me anymore. She said she didn't know what I did to him, but that he was very upset and in tears all night long. He avoided me like the plague after that.
- age 36, Virginia
Many times, especially when I was in high school and college. The first time happened when I was 14. I was soaking in the Jacuzzi with a girlfriend. She told me that her older sister showed her how to orgasm just by positioning her genitals over the Jacuzzi. We both decided to try it and had incredible orgasms!
- age 43, California (female)
I masturbated with a friend once when I was in 7th grade. We were up in my room looking at a Playboy magazine I had, and he said, "Let's [masturbate]." So we took off our clothes and sat down on the floor next to each other, leaning against my bed, and started to masturbate. We masturbated ourselves first, then each took turns stroking the other for a few minutes, but we returned to masturbating ourselves before we orgasmed. I remember how differently we each ejaculated. When I was close to my orgasm, I slowed down and tried to make it last as long as I could and lay almost still and kept quiet while I was ejaculating, but my friend started stroking like crazy, and then he grunted and started moaning and squirmed around and bucked his hips up and down as he ejaculated. That was quite the sight!
- age 30, Massachusetts
I have done it on 3 different occasions. When I was a high-school freshman, two friends and I watched a porn, and out of nowhere, one started masturbating. I got worked up over this, so we all masturbated. The next time was a year later, with another friend at my house, under the same circumstances. We masturbated each other and semen got all over us. The last time, I masturbated watching a porno while another friend watched. Although I am straight, all 3 of these were hot situations.
- age 21, California
A friend and I were out in the woods, stick-fighting and such. We do that a lot, every time he comes over my house. Well, this one time, while we were stick-fighting, he hit me in the no-no zone by accident. Out of breath, I sat down on a log to rest for a moment. He came up to me apologizing and everything, and then he suggested he kiss it and make it better. I laughed, and a moment of awkward silence ensued. Then all I said was, "You wanna?" And we unzipped our pants and masturbated each other.
- age 15, New Jersey
I never imagined masturbating with another person ever, but I did it with my brother. It all began when I 20 and he was 18. It was the summer and we stayed in the same room. One night I woke up and heard some heavy breathing, so I opened my eyes, and sure enough, he was going at it. Just to see him play with himself got me excited, and I began to pleasure myself as well. Eventually we both noticed each other and that we were getting more excited seeing each other at our "best." Out of nowhere I got the courage to go to where he was, and I began stroking him, and he returned the favor. I must say, I've had some amazing orgasms by myself, but being stroked by my own brother was the one best orgasms I've ever had. We have stroked each other for about 4 years now, whenever we get the chance. I've enjoyed it (and so has he) because it's been a real brother-bonding experience.
- age 24, Florida