I am a married male in my 40s and have been masturbating regularly since I was about 10 years old. My first exposure to "the deed" was seeing my older cousin lying on his bed late one night as I walked past his slightly open door. As I had never even heard of masturbation it really didn't arouse much curiosity in me at the time. But a few months later while I was home alone one afternoon, I took off all my clothes in the bathroom to take a bath and suddenly got a raging erection. I immediately remembered what my cousin had been doing to his, and following his example I began stroking to what suddenly became the most earth-shattering, mind-blowing, full body sensation I had ever felt. I didn't know if I was going to urinate, defecate, or turn inside out! It certainly frightened me! Not so much so, however, that I didn't do it about 6 more times in my bed that night, even though my little sister was sleeping a few feet away. At that time I had no idea there could be any limits to this newfound pleasure. For months I walked around with fear of my parents (and a sore penis) before I developed some restraint.
Even though I had seen my cousin doing it, I was convinced I was the only boy in the world who was doing such a nasty thing. But the next summer another cousin of the same age was with me in the hayloft of our grandfather's barn, and as soon as we were alone, he asked me if I had ever done it. After that we did it together every time I went to visit him, right up to the time we were starting college. Then we both got married and that was the end of that.
I was only 11 when I had my first ejaculation. I knew it would happen someday, but I really "felt like a man" to already have that experience at that age. Since then I have always ejaculated a moment or two before I feel the sensations of orgasm. I have very intense orgasms affecting every muscle in my body, and I have a hard time being quiet. So I usually masturbate only when I am in the house alone, and even then I sometimes wonder if the neighbors hear me, even though the closest ones are almost a quarter of a mile away!
When I get the chance to take my time, I usually masturbate lying naked on our bed with the warm sea breeze coming in the big window next to me. I like using a good lube — more so as I get older. I also still occasionally do it in the shower, or sitting in the bathroom, and really enjoy going out into the woods on our property for a good session with Mother Nature. That always feels so natural. Whereas up until very recently I could still do it more than once in a day, I seem to be a little more limited now. But the decrease in quantity is made up for with the increase in intensity. It feels better all the time!
I don't know if it is because I am still trying to prove to myself that I'm not the only mature male masturbator or what, but I find it fascinating to think about whether my male friends masturbate, and I would get quite a thrill from doing it together with any one of them. A few years ago one of my same-age friends, whom I had always admired, went though a tough divorce, and he leaned on me a bit for support. After one especially great day together he asked me to lie in bed and masturbate with him. I'd had fantasies about doing that with him from our college days together, so it was quite a thrilling and intense one-time experience. The only other time this has happened to me as an adult was about 10 years ago, with my best friend (also married) in a private sauna together. I instigated that one because he was such a close buddy and an exceptionally good-looking athlete.
Other than those experiences my sex life is pretty much the standard husband-and-wife variety once or twice per week with one or two good solo sessions in between. I feel like I would want actual contact sex only with a female — but when it comes to masturbating I still think my ultimate experience would be to have another guy lying beside me doing it, too. Thanks to JackinWorld, perhaps someday it won't be such an awkward subject to approach with friends.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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A session with mother nature
Gender:
Male