A past girlfriend and I masturbated together many times throughout our relationship. The first time was a little awkward, since it was also the first time either of us had masturbated in front of another person. We picked a quiet night at her apartment and took our time watching closely and sharing the intimate time together. It helped us to become more open with each other about our sexual preferences, and we came to be more in tune with what the other desired sexually.
- age 22, Ohio
I was with this guy once, and we were watching some cute chicks on TV. I told him I was getting an erection. Since I have a good-size penis (and I like to show it off), I took it out and started a little. He did, too. We did not go all the way with it, though.
- age 15, California
When I was in high school a friend of mine and I got talking about women, sex, and masturbation. I asked him if he had ever done it before. He was too scared to answer, so I proceeded to demonstrate the technique. But he must have gotten scared because he started spreading rumors around school the next day about me!
- age 34, North Carolina
I've never had anyone watch — but if anyone wants to, I'd love to do it for you!
- age 17, Ohio
I have always been aroused by female masturbation, and I once told my girlfriend this. During one of our sexual encounters, she masturbated for me, while I masturbated in front of her. It got me extremely horny to see her make herself moan.
- age 18, Connecticut
When I was 14, I was in the bathroom with the door ajar. My next-door neighbor was at my house. I was masturbating in front of the mirror and saw him looking through the mirror from down the hall. I kept going until I was done. He didn't ask, and I didn't tell!
- age 28, Michigan
I went to my room after taking a shower and thought my brother was downstairs watching TV. So I closed my bedroom door, took off my towel, and lay down on my bed naked. I started to masturbate when my brother came out of my closet, saying he had been watching me. Not to be outdone, I told him I knew he was there all the time and my masturbation show was all for him. I continued to do it while he watched me. I had never been more turned on knowing someone was watching me.
- age 15, Maine
My girlfriend watched me masturbate for a full hour. I was in her dorm room, and she was off taking a shower. I guess I was overly excited, because I started to masturbate. She walked in on me and I just kept going while she watched in amazement.
- age 18, Texas
When I was 14 I had a bunch of friends sleep over. As most conversations went, we talked about the girls in school who were hot. The conversation changed to who could satisfy them the most, which led to penis size, which led to comparing sizes. That led to a contest of who could ejaculate the most. In the end we all stood around masturbating together.
- age 20, Maine
I once let my boyfriend to watch me. He was amazed at all my vaginal juices and soon started masturbating himself. Then we both practiced mutual masturbation, and since then, every Wednesday, we play this mutual game.
- age 17, Argentina (female)
When I was 17, my best friend and I decided to go skinny-dipping together. It was the first time either of us had been naked with another person. It was a really beautiful night, and after we'd been swimming for a while, I got a raging boner. Without a lot of thought I just plunked down on the dock and started to masturbate. It was really thrilling to know he was watching me.
- age 22, Ontario, Canada
I've let just a few people watch me. The first was my college roommate. We'd been high-school friends, shared a dorm room our freshman year, and were about to get an off-campus apartment. We had watched porn videos together fairly frequently. One was particularly hot — especially the lesbian scene we kept rewinding. Soon we both had our pants at our knees with our hands in motion. It made for a much more laid-back roommate situation after that, as neither of us was shy about our masturbating habits, and we even gave each other a hand from time to time. Every girlfriend I've been sexually active with has seen me masturbate as well (and vice versa). Sometimes it would lead to incredible sex, and other times, one or both of us would just put on a show for the other.
- age 28, Texas
I let my girlfriend watch me masturbate. She was masturbating me but was hurting me, so I showed her how it's done. After all, I am an expert on the subject!
- age 17, Minnesota
During the summer of '97, I was watching 4 kids. One was 15 or 16. While we were alone, he asked me if I ever masturbated, when I started, etc. We also talked about ways we liked to do it best. He asked if I ever masturbated in front of another kid. I said no. We were both in our swimming trunks, so he pulled down his trunks and starting masturbating. I did the same. We both ejaculated in a minute or so. That was the last time I ever saw him.
- age 20, Ohio
I was masturbating in my bedroom when my younger brother walked in. He said, "Yuck, that's disgusting, put it away!" But he stayed in there and watched me. My brother is 11.
- age 16, Australia
People have watched me masturbate many times, but the first time was the most exciting. My boyfriend walked in on me while I was masturbating. I was too far into it to stop. Besides, I found that having him watch me was a real turn-on. As he watched, he took out his penis and began to masturbate, too. We both had incredibly intense orgasms. From that day on, we included masturbation in our love-making. He's my husband now, and we still enjoy watching each other masturbate!
- age 36, California (female)
No, I would never let anyone see me.
- age 15, Finland
Just a couple of weeks ago my girlfriend agreed to mutual masturbation with me. We both wanted to watch each other. Everything was fantastic, and then she just reached out and grabbed my penis. Since she was getting me off, I started to do the same for her. It led to the greatest sex I have ever had.
- age 17, Maryland
There are five things in life I would never do, and this is one of them. The only way I would let someone watch me is if it was my girlfriend, or if I get married, my wife.
- age 19, Minnesota
I was in the bedroom when my girlfriend came in. She was wearing a little skirt and a belly shirt. I was in bed and we were talking, and she told me she wanted to see my penis. So I pulled off my shorts, and then she said she wanted to see me masturbate. When I started masturbating she pulled off her pants and shirt and started fingering herself.
- age 15, Kentucky
I didn't exactly "let" my friend watch me — I provided him with a lifesaving experience! He was afraid to masturbate because his parents had programmed him to believe it was totally wrong. He even refused to talk about it. So one day, out of the blue, I unzipped and started playing with myself. I went all out, and I must have been pretty convincing — because his pants were around his ankles before you could say "penis"!
- age 18, Iowa
Not yet — I haven't been in an important relationship long enough to have that happen. But in the future it's certainly something I'd think about. I mean, what a turn-on!
- age 15, Maine (female)
When I was in college, my girlfriend walked in while I was masturbating. I had neglected to lock the door. She was so fascinated that she asked me to show her how I "did it." So I showed her. It was one of the most arousing experiences of my life. It was also educational, because she later returned the favor by showing me how she masturbated.
- age 35, Ohio
I was with a friend at a hot spring, and we were the only ones there. We were fooling around in the pool and were hard. When we were getting dressed I was horny, so I masturbated, and he said he wanted to watch me ejaculate. I let him, but I didn't ejaculate much.
- age 15, Montana
In college I stayed up late one night with my roommate. We were talking about sex, which led to talking about masturbation. We talked about how often we did it. I was surprised to learn he had never done it. I told him I masturbated about 5 times a week. After a while, I started masturbating while we were talking. I was on the bottom bunk and he was on the top. He said he could feel the bed shaking. He never looked down at me, but he knew I was masturbating. When I finally ejaculated, I just changed the subject and we went to sleep. He never admitted to masturbating and I never masturbated with him in the room again. What a bore he turned out to be.
- age 38, Texas
I was sleeping over with 3 friends, and we were all bragging about penis size. I said if anyone had a bigger penis than mine, I'd give them all oral sex. Nobody did, and after we compared them I lubed up and masturbated pretty slowly to climax with everyone watching. Two hours later I did it again.
- age 15, Maryland
My best friend and I sleep over at each other's houses quite often. I guess that's kind of weird for 30-something guys. The best thing that has come of my experience is that I have a completely open relationship with him. I used to be so terrified of doing anything that would seem gay. Now I think it's okay to feel affection for another man. In any relationship based on mutual affection, sexuality will surface. Deal with it.
- age 36, Utah
I masturbated with my girlfriend. We were at a big co-ed sleep-over, and we opened one sleeping bag, put it on the floor, and then opened the other one and put it over us. She already knew I masturbated, so it was no big deal when she asked me if I would do it for her. The best part was the fact that she did it, too.
- age 16, Ohio
My girlfriend often lets me watch her masturbate, and she finally talked me into doing it in front of her. She was giving me oral sex, and right before I ejaculated I finished by masturbating in front of her. Now I watch her show off and masturbate to her.
- age 22, Pennsylvania
When I was 13 I fell in love with the girl who lived across the street. She was my first love, and all I could think about was what it would be like to "do it" with her. She was unusually frank, and one evening when we had been kissing and touching one another through our clothing, we talked about what it might be like to have sex together one day. We were both way too scared to try it for fear of pregnancy, but she asked me what it was like for a boy to have an orgasm. I suggested that she give me one, but she claimed to be too timid and not know how to do it. So I offered to show her. She agreed, and I masturbated in her living room as she watched me. She then masturbated in front of me.
- age 43, Wisconsin
Well, I really would never led anyone to see me when I'm masturbating myself, because of what the person may think of me. My reputation could suffer.
- age 14, Panama
I was masturbating in bed in my dorm room one day and there was a knock on the door. I started to pull my pants back up and go to answer the door, but before I could, it opened. My roommate had opened the door with his key, and there I was standing right in front of him, pants down, penis erect. I was really embarrassed and worried he might tell someone, but he was really cool about it. He popped a video into the VCR, sat on his bed (next to mine), and started masturbating, too.
- age 18, New York
My last girlfriend mentioned that watching me was a fantasy of hers. One evening we were making love, and just as she was about to climax, I pulled out, turned on the light and masturbated while straddling her chest. We climaxed at the same time — fantastic.
- age 39, Colorado
When I was 10 and 11 I used to masturbate with several different guys at camp — never as a group, always one at a time. Later I learned that my friends had also done it with each other, and now I wish we had done it as a group. Usually it started because we were looking at Playboys or talking about sex. Now, I only masturbate in front of my beautiful wife, and she loves it!
- age 28, California
Yeah — my cat, but she wasn't very interested.
- age 15, Massachusetts (female)
My best friend's little sister came over to my house after school looking for her brother. I was the only one home. I had been looking at my big brother's sex magazines — "Penthouse," ""Hustler," etc., and as usual I ended up masturbating. When my friend's sister came in, she saw me. So I had to let her watch in order to keep her from telling. I told her if she promised not to tell anyone, I would explain what I was doing. Then I told her how my penis gets stiff when I look at the pictures, and I have to masturbate. She seemed fascinated by my erection and kept staring at it until I ejaculated. Then I got her out of there fast.
- age 13, Colorado
I can't imagine ever wanting someone else to watch me masturbate. It's a pretty private thing!
- age 36, Tennessee
I never have and never will let someone see me in this most natural and lovely form of myself. I think it is very private and should be kept that way.
- age 13, Michigan
My girlfriend and I had just finished a great dinner at her place. We decided to watch a movie. It was quite erotic and we started fooling around, duplicating the scene that was on. She was pleasuring me all the way to the brink, but she stopped and said, "You finish." So I stood her up and returned the pleasure while at the same time finishing myself off. She found it very stimulating — not only to have me licking her but also to see me ejaculate while I did. I had one of the best orgasms of my life that night.
- age 18, Pennsylvania
I've never had anyone watch me masturbate, although I've often watched my boyfriend masturbate. The subject of me masturbating in front of him has just never come up. He usually masturbates me. I find that I have *much* better orgasms when he's masturbating me, anyway!
- age 20, Canada (female)
The guy who lives upstairs from me in my dorm offered to give me oral sex anytime I wanted, so one night we were just hanging out, talking, and watching a porno. He asked me if I would masturbate for him, because he'd never watched a girl masturbate. I said I would if he would join in, so we both started masturbating and kept talking as if nothing unusual was going on. It was quite fun. We never did get around to the oral sex, though.
- age 19, Massachusetts (female)
Nope, I'm not *that* uninhibited! However, I do masturbate at least twice a week.
- age 17, California
I have a female friend, and we speak regularly about masturbation. This summer the talks heated up, and I wanted her to watch me. She did and occasionally she would masturbate me. The last time we did this, she bet I couldn't stop masturbating for a week. I accomplished this difficult task, and then we drove in my car to a park. In the car I got naked, and she watched me masturbate. She masturbated me as well. That was a night full of fun.
- age 18, Illinois
I never have, although I have been in the same room with other people (male and female) while masturbating. I don't know if they watched me, but I think I would feel a little uncomfortable about it.
- age 15, New York
I have masturbated with my best friend since we were both 15. We still do it in front of each other at least once a week, sometimes more. The first time, we had come back from the beach and had sand all over us, so we showered together. I got an erection, and so did he. When we went back into his bedroom, we sat on his bed. I wanted to masturbate really bad, so I said, "Do you care if I masturbate?" He was looking at my penis and said, "I don't mind — I'll even do it with you." So we did. He is the only person I would do that with until a girl asks me!
- age 18, California
I was over at my girlfriend's house, and we were making out pretty heavily. Then I convinced her to watch me masturbate. So I lay down in her bathroom with her at the door to watch for parents. What was strange was I couldn't get a full erection, so we kissed until my erection finally came up. I masturbated for about 2 1/2 minutes before I ejaculated. A little advice for all of you who want to try it: It's not all that it's cracked up to be.
- age 15, Tennessee
I've never masturbated in front of anybody, but if I had the chance, I would. I think females have a harder time admitting they masturbate and don't want to appear foolish by asking a friend to masturbate for them. But I definitely would if I had the chance.
- age 16, Wisconsin (female)
My wife enjoys watching me masturbate, and I enjoy having her do so. Usually by the time I'm ready to ejaculate she's rubbing her clitoris, has her eyes closed, and doesn't realize I've ejaculated until she feels it hitting her! That generally sends her over the edge, and she has a very powerful orgasm of her own. I have also masturbated in live peep shows, where the girl does whatever you pay her to do behind glass. Since it's just a window, they can see me masturbating and encourage me to reach orgasm (on to the next customer, you know) by talking to me about what I'm doing, while continuing to expose themselves to me. There is something to be said for masturbating in front of a stranger, even if you have paid for the privilege.
- age 50, Minnesota
Once my brother watched me. He asked, and I showed him how. I thought it was a good way to get him started and to know it is not bad.
- age 14, Pennsylvania
One night my girl and I were talking, and she asked, "Is it true that most men masturbate?" I said yes. Then she asked if I would show her how it's done. She has never had sex or even masturbated before, so I showed her. She helped me reach my climax even faster. She enjoyed it as much as I did.
- age 18, Illinois
Whenever I feel like masturbating, I always go over to the local porno shop, where I go into one of the "buddy" booths with windows between, to watch and be watched while the video is playing. Or I'll go to the group theater room, where almost everyone in the audience is stroking. It's more fun to stroke with another person or group.
- age 54, New Jersey
Never. But then, no one has asked.
- age 17, Alabama
Not yet — I think a guy or gal would just hate you after seeing you do that.
- age 18, Philippines
Kind of...my friend and I got into the subject about masturbating and we actually started to. We were being losers and didn't want to show each other our stuff. So we masturbated under the blanket. We both climaxed, wiped ourselves off, and went to bed.
- age 14, Washington
I sure did. My girlfriend and I had been very comfortable with the topic, and one day she asked if she could watch, so I let her. I just did it like normal, and she helped me clean up afterwards.
- age 17, Texas
It was so long ago I hardly remember, but a boy about 4 years older than I started chasing me around inside the house until he caught me and started pinching my penis. Then it all happened, and I have been masturbating ever since. My wife is gone, and masturbation is now my biggest source of comfort. I still get a big thrill out of it, and I'll never quit.
- age 83, Texas