For many, the phone rang when they were already masturbating, but they answered it anyway. As the conversation progressed, a soft moan or some ragged breathing might have blown their cover. In other situations, a phone conversation would become erotic and one partner would suggest having phone sex. In still other situations, one conversation partner would become bored and start to masturbate. Some people would reveal what they were doing, but others kept it secret, even to the point of lying about it if asked.]
When I was in eighth grade, it seemed everybody was just discovering this thing called sex and masturbation, or was just becoming comfortable talking about it. I was talking to this girl I knew (just a friend) on the phone quite late one night, when she said, "I am so horny right now!" I said jokingly, "Well, do you want to have phone sex?" She said, "Sure, why not?" I was somewhat taken aback, since we were never more than just friends. I took off my clothes (I think she did, too), and we started describing what we would do to each other if we were together. Our voices got very sensual. I was sweating extremely and breathing hard, and she was beginning to moan, and then *BAM!* my phone died! I was so freaking horny by then that I kept stroking to finish myself. I climaxed in only 30 seconds or so. I had never ejaculated that much in my life. It was also the biggest orgasm I had ever had – I still haven't had a bigger one! We talked the next day like nothing had happened. Were still friends, but we don't have phone sex anymore.
- age 15, California
This Week's Weirdest Response:
Once I was home from school ill. I was having a great masturbation session when my teacher phoned from school. She is 20 and really, really hot. So I wanked on while speaking to her and then climaxed while still on the phone. I moaned on purpose, and she kept asking me if I was all right. It was great!
- age 15, United Kingdom
I called up my friend one Sunday and asked him what he did over the weekend. He told me about what he had done with his girlfriend. It turns out they masturbated each other. They are both really attractive, and I often think about what they do together. Needless to say, this got me really aroused. So I took off my pants as he was telling me all the details, and I started masturbating. Suddenly, I made one of those masturbation noises – you know, a moan – and he said, "So, you're masturbating too?" I was a little embarrassed at first, but I just said, "Yeah, I am." We ended up ejaculating together over the phone. We've had other experiences since then.
- age 15, Oregon
I once masturbated while talking to an old girlfriend on the phone. It was wonderful. And no, she had no idea I was doing it. I just hit the mute button at the right moment.
- age 42, Texas
I am very attracted to a girl who used to live about a mile from my house. We would talk on the phone quite frequently before she moved. One time, a few months after we first met, we had been on the phone for about an hour when the discussion turned to sex. I was extremely horny, so I started masturbating slowly. She stopped mid-sentence and asked, "Are you masturbating?" I replied yes, and we continued talking. After that first incident, we both masturbated many times while talking on the phone. I really miss talking to her.
- age 17, Michigan
When I have masturbated while talking on the phone, the other person usually did know, but not the first time. A friend, male and close to my age, would call just to chat about technical work issues, friends and family, our current relationships and other common interests. One night he called while I was on my darkened balcony, lazily masturbating. So I kept stroking my penis slowly while we chatted. We talked for about an hour. After he hung up I had the biggest orgasm in recent years. The next time he called, I was in the same situation. After 15 minutes or so, he asked me point-blank if I was masturbating. I said yes and that if he wanted to ejaculate at the same time, he'd better get his pants off and get with the program. We would describe what we were doing and ask each other to try a specific stroke. We would usually climax near the same time. We kept up this routine for many months until his health failed. These make wonderful memories of a friend who is no longer with us.
- age 53, Florida
Masturbating while talking on the phone is the norm for one of my male friends and me. While we are on the phone together, we try to tell when the other person is having an orgasm.
- age 14, Massachusetts
Are you kidding? This was my own personal national pastime! My (now ex) boyfriend and I couldn't always be together, with me being at college and both of us having libidos the size of New England. Well, once I came very close to having my roommate walk in, but luckily my hand seems to have been blessed with the reflexes of a jungle cat. I highly recommend phone sex as long as you can be sure no annoying little sisters are listening in on the extension!
- age 18, Maine (female)
I was on the phone with my girlfriend, who was out of town, and we decided to have "phone sex." We both knew what the other was doing. We had done this once before, and before we knew it, we were talking dirty and getting into the swing of it. I reached orgasm before she did but still managed to stay on the line and help her until she climaxed. It was one of the most intense ejaculations I've ever had. I would do it again in an instant.
- age 24, Australia
I have masturbated while on the phone, but never to climax. I just sort of played with myself. They never know what's happening; they think it's static or something.
- age 15, New York
My hubby and I, as well as another male who sometimes joins us for threesome sex, masturbate over the phone occasionally. Usually the purpose of the phone call is for all of us to get off. It's fun and rewarding, especially if we cannot enjoy sex together because we're apart.
- age 52, Hawaii (female)
I've masturbated while talking on the phone before. The girl didn't know what I was doing until I started breathing hard. Then she asked. I told her that her voice made me so hot I couldn't help it. She then told me that she had also been playing with herself the whole time. So we masturbated to orgasm together. The next time we met, we masturbated each other. Now we meet at least once a week to masturbate together. And yes, we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
- age 15, Wisconsin
My best friend and I used to masturbate and talk about our penises over the phone. We were 12 and 13 at the time.
- age 26, Iowa
I masturbate while on the phone all the time. Usually the other person doesn't know what I'm doing. I do it because I find that a sexy voice can be very stimulating, especially if the conversation has anything at all to do with sex. If it's my mom or dad, though, I'll always stop!
- age 18, Massachusetts
I was on the phone with a female friend once, and I just felt like doing it. My wanting to masturbate had nothing to do with what we were taking about then – I just got the urge. She never noticed. Eventually, I told her I had to go (I wanted to masturbate some more). Another time I was talking on the phone with a guy who has a crush on me, and I just thought it would be neat to do it. I was thinking, geez, what do you think this guy would do if he knew he was talking on the phone with the chick he likes and she's masturbating?
- age 15, New Jersey (female)
Last week for the first time I masturbated while talking on the phone. I had been chatting on the Internet with my boyfriend that evening. (Yes, I am gay.) We wondered if phone sex would be good. Half an hour later we gave it a try. It was very exciting to hear him approaching his orgasm. I could hear from his breathing that he could not hold it too long. You can get quite turned on when you are having phone sex. It's very good!
- age 21, Netherlands
It happened only once. I was on the phone with my girlfriend, and I was really turned on because she was talking about a sexy dream she had just had. It was about her and another girl. At the time, she had no idea I was masturbating – but when I told her the next day, she just laughed. We had a really cool relationship and talked openly about masturbation.
- age 19, United Kingdom
When I was in junior high school, I had two girl friends and we would have three-way phone sex. I don't remember how it got started, but we never talked about sex unless we were on the phone. We would all get each other worked up, the whole time masturbating ourselves until we would start to climax. As I recall, the goal of the game was for us all to have an orgasm at the same time.
- age 30, Missouri
Once I was in the middle of one of my best sessions ever when a friend rang. He started talking to me normally at first – then he realized what I was up to and decided to help me along, so he encouraged me! Ever since then we've masturbated at least once a week together.
- age 15, United Kingdom
Once I was watching a porn video and masturbating when a buddy of mine called. I have always been very attracted to him, but he is straight. Anyway, I was quite horny and continued to masturbate quietly all the way to orgasm while he and I were on the phone together. I have made it a weekly thing now to talk on the phone with this guy while I have a secret masturbation session.
- age 25, New York
My mate and I have a videophone. So we often masturbate while watching each other on the screen. It's great fun!
- age 18, United Kingdom
When my husband was out of town on a business trip, he called me and we had phone sex. I know that others have masturbated while talking to me on the phone. One was a boyfriend over 10 years ago. He told me later he had been masturbating the last time we talked on the phone, and I hadn't noticed. I was kind of annoyed with him. I felt he should have made some noise so I could have enjoyed it. More recently, I have read sex stories to friends on the phone while they masturbated to orgasm. It's such a turn-on to hear others having an orgasm.
- age 29, California (female)
I've never done that. It just doesn't sound as if it would be as much fun as watching a porno video or being with a friend.
- age 17, Ohio
I have been home alone on several occasions, masturbating, and someone would call on the phone. I would usually continue to stroke as I talked to them, always keeping the conversations brief so as not to lose my erection. Lately, I have had phone masturbation sessions with other guys I met in chat rooms. These have been very fulfilling experiences. We both just masturbate and tell the other what we are feeling and experiencing. I am mostly straight, and so are the guys I phone with. It is the ultimate male-bonding experience.
- age 30, Pennsylvania
Yeah, I masturbated while talking on the phone. A female friend was telling me about sexual experiences she was having with her boyfriend. Her telling me what she did to him got me pretty excited, so I went at it and let out a little short "uh huh" every so often. It was very intense. She didn't know – I think.
- age 17, Washington
When my husband is on long business trips we talk on the phone in the evening. These conversations often become erotic, and I tell him in great detail what I'm doing to myself. He loves to hear me tell him I'm licking my breasts, masturbating with my dildo, or that I have my fingers in my vagina. This is all it takes for him to start masturbating himself. It's really hot when we climax together.
- age 40, California (female)
I masturbated while talking to my best friend (male) on the phone. I was just into it when he called. I soon lost interest, though – I couldn't sustain an erection.
- age 14, Texas
On more than one occasion, a male friend and I would call each other on the phone when we were younger and no one else was home. We would start out talking about sex, whether we were getting any from male or female friends, then move on to how horny we were. The talk would start with what we would do to each other, then move to descriptions of what we were doing to ourselves, such as how we were masturbating, until both of us had climaxed at least once, or if we had enough time, twice. Those were our younger days. We have done it a few more times since we both married, just to stay in practice. This friend and I have had only a few experiences where we did it together in the same room. Most of the time it was by phone. We had seen each other naked, so we knew what the other was describing, which made it that much more enjoyable.
- age 46, Texas
I've done it several times with my boyfriend, and we still do it. The first time I masturbated with him on the phone, he didn't know. He was helping his little brother and mom with something, so it wasn't really turning me on. I popped in a porno movie and tried to be as quiet as possible. He had no clue, but when I told him later, he said he wished I had told him. A few days later, we were talking on the phone again and he said he was masturbating. I was so turned on that I had to masturbate, too. Masturbating while listening to your lover is a major turn-on! Now my boyfriend and I do it whenever we get the chance.
- age 15, California (female)
Yes, with a guy I had been chatting with on the Internet minutes before. He told me to call him, which I did. He said he was willing to masturbate while talking to someone on the phone, a fantasy I had never fulfilled before. The idea turned me on, and as it was late at night and I was alone at my workplace, I pulled down my pants and went for it. We told each other in detail what we were feeling while masturbating. It was exciting, maybe because the whole situation was quite unexpected.
- age 32, Argentina
My girlfriend and I have a really open relationship. We've had numerous conversations about masturbation and similar topics, and quite often we masturbate on the phone. We both find it a great outlet for our sexual feelings without actual, mutual stimulation of each other. We feel that we aren't ready for that yet. It makes masturbation so much better having contact with someone you love and are attracted to.
- age 14, Australia
Phone sex is overrated. For it to be good, both participants have to be creative, using words instead of body parts. I think I was always the more creative partner in my experiences. I have had about 10 phone sex partners, multiple sessions with each, and I reached orgasm only once. I would hang up and then finish on my own. I think I kept doing it because I did learn a lot about the male sexual response without having to become physically or emotionally involved. I never tried to masturbate without the other person knowing – my breathing becomes too ragged, and eventually I gasp and moan. It wouldn't stay a secret for long.
- age 22, Indiana (female)
Although I have never masturbated while talking on the phone, I have done so while on the Internet using Instant Messenger. My cousin and I were racing, and he won by a few seconds.
- age 12, Massachusetts
I did have "phone sex" once, as both of us masturbated, but it was not successful from my point of view. I think he did climax, but I found it difficult to reach orgasm under the circumstances – even to maintain my erection. We each knew the other was masturbating. I pretended to go all the way, but the whole experience was such a washout that I've never tried to do it again.
- age 43, Tennessee
I was once looking at a porno video and masturbating when my friend called. I continued while we were talking. He asked me once or twice why I wasn't talking much and what I was doing. Then he said jokingly, "What are you doing, wanking over there?" So I said yes. He thought it was sick at first, and then I told him I was in the middle of it when he called, and he said, "Oh." I later found out he did it once while talking to me on the phone.
- age 17, Connecticut
I've masturbated while talking on the phone many times when I was in high school and college – always with one or another male friend. Sometimes we would talk about girls, but most of the time we would talk about what we were doing to reach a climax. Calls would usually end shortly after both confessed climaxing. Once in a while we would stop and then one of us would go to the other's place and we would masturbate each other. This would often lead to a second or third climax before quitting.
- age 55, Virginia
I was on vacation with some cousins in New York last spring. We were separated into girl and boy rooms, and one night I gave my girlfriend a call. After just a bit into the conversation, my cousins went out to get donuts or something, and my talk with my girlfriend got a bit more erotic. We started talking and getting hot, and when her speaking got a bit ragged, I teasingly asked, "Where is your hand?" I didn't really expect her to tell me it was *down there* – but she did, and she convinced me to do the same. We talked to each other until we both had an orgasm. It was the first time we'd done anything like that, and so far, the last time as well. Afterwards, it was a bit awkward saying goodbye to her. When my cousins returned, one of them asked me why I looked flushed, but I didn't tell.
- age 18, Colorado (female)
In my room at night, quietly, I've masturbated while talking to 3 other people on the phone. Two of them were aware and one of them continued willingly to masturbate with me after realizing I was doing it. We did this quite a number of times, and we both enjoyed telling each other erotic fantasies involving ourselves in order to climax. All three friends were female.
- age 17, Pennsylvania
I have masturbated while talking on the phone many times! Every time, the other person knew. Usually, the other person was masturbating to orgasm also. It has proven to be a pleasurable experience for me whether the other person was male or female. I have done it over the years with girlfriends, with my wife, and with a friend from childhood. He and I learned how to masturbate together, and although we are both happily married with children, we still do it together, in person and on the phone.
- age 33, California
I had just given some phone sex to this friend who had moved to California. It did the job for her, so she figured she could return the favor. However, nothing she was saying or how she was saying it was doing much for me. So I put down the phone so I could hear that she was still talking but not hear what she was saying, and I took care of myself. She was none the wiser that it wasn't because of her.
- age 32, Washington