I had my first masturbation session when I was at the start of my teen years, age 13. Nope, I didn't discover it by accident — it was because I got curious about what my classmates were telling me about the good experiences they had while masturbating, which then I would discover as the art of orgasm.
I was exposed to my first porn film during the same year, when some other classmates invited me to join them and watch it at a friend's house because his parents were on a trip abroad. As curious as ever, I came along with them after school. When we arrived at my classmate's house, he said to me and another friend that we should wait while he set up the VCR. We waited patiently, and while waiting, I asked my friend if he had ever tried masturbating. He answered that he tried it once, after swimming class at school. He said it was really good, like something's heating up inside your body, and it would discharge like a bullet from a gun. The classmate who invited us over then came down the stairs and asked us to come up his room. The videotape was all ready to go! My classmate then said, "Make yourselves more comfortable." He took off his clothes slowly (while my other classmate and I were in a state of shock), and he said in Filipino, "Sige na, wala nang hiyaan, lalaki naman tayong lahat dito hindi ba," which translates as, "Don't be shy. We're all guys here, anyway." Since I thought it wasn't such a bad idea, I started to take off my clothes, too, and so did my other classmate. We started watching the film, and my two classmates started stroking. I asked them if it was all right if I did it too, and they said, "Get it on" in Tagalog. So I started masturbating, trying to emulate what the others were doing. The other classmate said, "You're doing it wrong," and he stroked my penis to show me how to do it.
I guess I can say that my first masturbation experience was a mutual one, but I didn't think that it was a gay activity or such, because I think we were just experimenting with our bodies back then. I personally think it was a healthy experience for my sexuality.
My masturbation sessions with the same group of guys didn't stop there. We tried doing it during our class "night out" and after swimming practice, too. I come from an all-boys school, by the way.
Since I felt good about masturbating, I decided to try it myself — to actually feel what it's like pleasuring yourself with more privacy. I got to borrow a porn video from a video rental store where a neighbor of mine works. He told me that I was still too young to borrow one, but he was really nice, and he actually lent me the video — I didn't have to pay for the rental at all. I tried to find a good time to watch the video, since my family members would almost always come home at an early time. So I decided not to return the video, so that I could get to watch it on a Friday, when my family goes to church and I could get to stay here at home.
The day came, and I inserted the videocassette into the player and locked the door in the living room, where the television is. I closed the windows, put down the curtains, and started undressing. I remember that I was still wearing briefs back then; I hadn't been introduced to the wonderful world of boxers at that time. My penis was really erect, although I won't say that it's big because Asians have quite smaller packages than you American guys do. I don't care that much about it, anyway, because it all comes down to its performance.
Back to watching the movie: I started masturbating while watching the first scene. It took me about 10 minutes to get an orgasm, and it was really good — and it was just one of the few moments when the "white sticky fluid" came out from my penis. I cleaned up right away, afraid that my parents would "catch" me.
Masturbation sessions became better after that, since at age 15, I found JackinWorld. Upon reading, I learned a lot of techniques — my favorite being the "Stop & Go," because it prolongs and increases my orgasm level. I also learned that in the other countries, a lot of other guys also experience mutual masturbation with other guys, and with that I finally understood that it's completely normal as long as, I think, you're true to your sexuality. I think I'm perfectly straight, yet curious about doing such things.
My classmates and I parted when I was 14 because I had to transfer to another school. We haven't had contact since then. I really want to try mutual masturbation again, because it was such a good experience, and I think I've needed to let go of those tensions for some time now. I've been really actively masturbating these last few years, having 4 or 5 sessions during weekdays and more than a whopping 8 on Saturdays when my family's out. I don't have any guilt doing it, because I'm not that religious. I just think it's a normal phase everyone has to go through.
The last time I really had a good orgasm was during our class retreat last November, at a province here in the Philippines. We all had our own rooms because we had to stay two nights. The air was really good, and I thought it was a good time to let off some steam. After lights out, I took off my clothes except for my boxers and tried a "backhand" grip. I was almost screaming because of the good feelings, but I decided to keep it down because the night ushers might drop by and visit. It took me an hour or so to finish. My hands were red and rosy, and I was really tired!
I still have a lot of things to experience. I want to try mutual masturbation again, with both males and females. I think it's a good preparation for the more rewarding adult life, and I think it'd be good for my character. I'd like to thank JackinWorld for such good techniques and articles — they've really helped me to make the most out of masturbation. Later, everyone!
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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