Well, as most people, I discovered masturbation when I was 10 or 11. However, I guess I discovered the actual process of masturbation in a slightly different fashion than those I've read about previously here.
In the year or so before I discovered masturbation, I had gotten into the habit of forcing my erect penis against my bedclothes, almost like I knew there was something I was meant to do with it, but wasn't sure what that thing was. Anyway, soon I became intent on trying to suck my own penis. For some reason the idea excited me, but I had little success! One night I was lying in my bed trying yet again to put my penis in my mouth.. My penis was erect at the time, of course. All of a sudden, I felt it tense up to an intensity I had not experienced before. I wasn't quite sure what was happening, but I knew it felt quite good, in an unknown kind of way. I ejaculated (or rather dribbled) a small amount of semen. Instantly I was horrified at the smell and spent the next 10 minutes trying to get rid of this new smell, for fear of my parents smelling it.
For the next few weeks I would often recreate that evening by propping myself up against something and trying to get my penis into my mouth. Every time, I would ejaculate. Maybe it was a sign that there was a better way of pleasuring myself. I did eventually manage to bring myself to orgasm through self-fellatio, and to this day I still suffer from back pains, which I'm sure is a side-effect of my curious youth. So I sought out different sensations to experience with my penis. I soon found it fun to spray my dad's shaving foam over my penis and rub it to orgasm. So I guess that's when I truly discovered masturbation.
Needless to say I became just as addicted as any other guy and regularly enjoyed masturbation sessions when the house was empty and while on family holidays. (I always wonder if my parents thought I had a toilet problem or something, as I kept running off to the toilet for a quick session. Even at school I would have to sit and masturbate myself while sitting at a table. I often did this when an attractive female was sitting next to me. I wonder how many of them (if any) realized the fun I had when my hand was in my pocket!
As I grew up I discovered that I had a circumcised penis (done for medical reasons) and was horrified at the thought, being one of only two guys in the showers to be cut. However, I soon accepted it and found it fun to not have any foreskin (as I do have vague memories of having it). Indeed, a few females have commented that they prefer circumcised penises. Whether this is because here in the U.K. it is less common is anyone's guess.
With Internet access at home, I soon found myself indulging in masturbation-type chats with online people, both male and female. This would usually provoke a sexual reaction of some sort. It was also a learning experience in that I learned a lot more about the way in which people masturbated, opinions on the whole process, and special techniques to try. I even ended up meeting with a lovely girl (whom I had masturbated with over the phone previously) and we masturbated each other on a few occasions. I would exercise caution in this practice; your personal safety is far more important than a bit of sexual pleasure.
When I have been single I have found it necessary to vary my masturbation routines to keep things exciting. I have masturbated using techniques listed here on JackinWorld (although I can never get that bag to stay in once piece). I've also enjoyed numerous outdoor instances, including masturbating in a park at the dead of night after a night on the town, masturbating while driving...I'm always looking to try something new, but I would never "step over the line" into anything vulgar in nature.
My family never explained the idea of masturbation to me, and being an only child I didn't have an older brother or sister to explain it. This leaves me in a bit of dilemma as to what I will do, come the day I have my own son at that age. Should I tell him about this totally innocent and natural process? Or leave it and hope that he discovers it in a fashion similar to the way I did? I wonder what other JackInsider members' opinions are on this subject.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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