If you're doing it right, the act of rubbing your penis naturally makes you more and more excited, like a runaway train speeding down a hill. As you think a particularly sexy thought, you will begin to get a hot feeling inside your pelvis, which will increase in intensity. It may feel like you're about to urinate – but don't worry, that's just the feeling of semen beginning to enter your urethra (the tube that runs through your penis). If you're still in your early teens there is a slight chance you'll end up urinating a little, if your body hasn't developed the ability to open and shut all the right valves at this critical moment – but this isn't very common, and you'll never know what orgasm feels like if you don't just surrender and go for it. Do not stop! Keep squeezing and stroking, and just savor the feelings. Once the ejaculation begins, stopping at the wrong point can actually be somewhat uncomfortable. If the pleasure starts to get a little too intense, slow down or weaken your grip rather than stop completely. (Later on, you'll get used to this intense pleasure and will probably want to maximize it by going faster and tighter.) Just remember that as long as you continue to rub well past ejaculation, you'll be fine – in fact, you'll be great!
When you reach the point just before ejaculation, it might feel a little like you're going over the top of the hill at the beginning of a roller coaster. The muscles in your body will start to stiffen up, you'll probably make some funny faces, and then a series of muscle-contraction waves will take over inside your pelvis. At the same time, it might feel like a lightning bolt is going through your brain, as every nerve in your body tingles, alive with energy. You may even cry out or moan involuntarily (something to consider if there are other people in the house). A teaspoon or two of semen – a fluid that looks a little like salad dressing and often smells a little like bleach or cleanser – may come out of your penis. It might just dribble out, but if you're a little older (like 14 or 15 or more), it may shoot out with some force, perhaps flying a foot or two through the air. A series of these squirts will occur quickly, but you won't care – you'll be feeling better than you've ever felt before! After about 10 seconds (it often seems like much longer), the semen will stop coming out, and you'll return to earth. Your penis will probably get very sensitive, so you won't want to rub anymore, and you might suddenly become very un-horny. You'll lie there breathing heavily for a minute or two, your heart pounding.
Congratulations – you just masturbated for the first time!
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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