Yet for a while now, it has become less and less sensitive. I don't quite know whether it's because of masturbation (I'm a 16-year-old circumcised virgin and I have to rub with a pretty tight – sometimes hurting – grip), or because of the constant friction of my boxers. Sexual stimulation is one of the most wonderful things in life, and I just can't live with the thought of my penis being numb. When I masturbate now, I barely get pleasure from the rubbing (only from ejaculation, and much less than before), and I get aroused much less often. I probably won't be having sex soon, as I am in kind of a depression, and I barely get out of my room. Maybe that contributes to my problem, but I'm sure it's just as much physical as psychological. I've been treating my penis with extreme care for some time now, but I've experienced no results for the better. I'm pretty desperate.
Sometimes a person's penis sensitivity changes over time; sometimes it goes away and comes back. Sometimes sensitivity loss is partly or totally imagined. In any case, it's a good idea not to abuse yourself with very rough technique anymore, since that could be contributing to the problem. I seriously doubt your underwear has anything to do with it. So my recommendations would be to not touch your penis more often than every few days, and when you do, use a lighter grip and enjoy and concentrate on the feelings you do get, as opposed to demanding more and more and gripping harder and harder as a result. That will defeat the purpose. With time and patience you can retrain yourself to masturbate in accordance with what your body is telling you, and hopefully sensitivity will return.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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