I think I might be able to have one, but I was wondering if it might hurt the first time – if so, can I prevent this?
Erections don't hurt – quite the opposite. Don't let that hold you back. But you should know that it's quite unusual for someone your age never to have had an erection. If you're just a "late bloomer" and haven't started puberty yet, it's probably okay – give it some time. But if you already have some pubic and underarm hair, etc., you should be having erections (spontaneous or otherwise) by now. If you find you're unable to get an erection even when you think about something that arouses you, that's a cause for concern. There may be something physical or physiological (as opposed to psychological) going on. You probably don't have to see a doctor right away, but if it persists you'll need to have the problem addressed eventually, if you want to lead a normal sex life (which includes being able to masturbate normally).
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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