I'm of the opinion that we need taboos and apprehensions to heighten the experience. Why does it have to be so open and "dealt with"? It should be mischievous and naughty. The same goes for masturbation. Any thoughts?
For masturbation to seem mildly "naughty" is one thing – but for people to become very unhappy about it, to convince themselves they're homosexual because all of their friends tell them "only fags masturbate," or to be miserable because they think they're going to hell for enjoying their bodies...that's another matter. Masturbation should make you happy. It shouldn't make you feel miserable.