I've never thought of actually buying one until recently. But I have mixed feelings about it. I've never had a girlfriend (not that I worry about that, it'll come eventually), but do you think buying one of those things is a bad thing? My clear mind says, "Don't be ridiculous – get a life!" But when I feel like it, I think, "Why not? It isn't going to hurt anyone or anything." Should I put it out of my mind? Am I losing it sexually?
Not at all! You're merely experiencing curiosity, which is perfectly healthy, and at times when you're not interested in sexual things you're...well, not interested in sexual things. Don't be afraid of things you're curious in. As I always tell people, though, be careful about getting too dependent on sexual toys or other erotic inanimate things. Make sure you use them occasionally, and make sure you're perfectly able to function sexually without them. If you think you're getting a little too dependent on them, it's time to put them away for a while.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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When I masturbate I sometimes fantasize I'm using a sex toy, like a female "love doll" or a "vibrating vagina."
