But the urge for me to do this is greater and greater as time goes on. I love the idea of having people see me masturbate in a public place, and better yet, achieving orgasm. Do you think I need help because I feel this way? Are these feelings common? I often feel guilty, too.
These feelings are indeed common, and they don't necessarily mean you need "help" unless they're so consuming they significantly alter the ways in which you can or cannot enjoy sexuality. But while the feelings are common, what's different about the way people deal with these feelings is the extent to which they act them out. Bear in mind in our society it's considered very unacceptable to masturbate in public places where strangers can see you. So what you need to do is work on either enjoying the fantasy without acting it out, or find a way where you can explore the fantasy in a safe, legal manner – perhaps through role-playing with a partner, or in some kind of private sex club. I definitely do not recommend exposing yourself to someone who doesn't want you to – not only is it illegal, it cost President Clinton close to a million dollars!
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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