I usually take 15 or 20 minutes to finish, and then I usually wait 5 more minutes for my erection to go away. My problem is that my parents think I am really going to the bathroom and that I am not feeling well, since it takes so long. I'm afraid they may bring it up at a doctor appointment. How can I can speed up the process and make my erection go away sooner?
I don't think trying to finish the deed faster is the best approach. Is there something keeping you from masturbating in bed at night? That's where a lot of guys do it. If you can't, maybe there's some way you could get your own room, or get your parents to let you close the door. It sounds like your parents don't have a clue about a young man's natural desire to masturbate (which is odd, since your dad was your age once, too). If you have a very conservative family they might know you're masturbating, in which case they could be harassing you by confronting you about your lengthy bathroom visits without ever addressing the true "problem." Then again, it's possible you're imagining the whole thing – unless they've come right out and said something about you possibly being sick, that's a definite possibility.
One final suggestion is to let them take you to the doctor. Then, privately, you can tell the doctor about your situation and let him take care of it (which he'll probably be willing to do). If your parents start telling the doctor about how much time you spend in the bathroom, I have a feeling he'll know exactly what the "problem" is and do his best to solve it.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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