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Do you masturbate to make yourself feel good, or to try and imitate sex?
Imitate sex
16%
Feel good
84%
Total votes: 127657
This one holds a life-long special place for me!
Like most folks, this method was discovered quite by accident! My parents walk in tiled shower was quite roomy. I loved to sit to the side and turn the hot water all the way up and fill the place with steam (about 1975 before we worried much about ‘conservation’). I always enjoyed water flowing on my penis, swimming pool returns, showers through my bathing suit (direct spray too intense) etc.
However, I was 13 and had just recently (and accidentally of course) discovered those initial exquisite yet VERY sensitive, even tender ‘dry orgasms’. One afternoon while sitting in the steam, I wrapped my washcloth around the shower head to control the hot water splash, to my surprise it was ‘clingy’ enough to stay. As I consumed the whole tank of hot water the shower began to become lukewarm. As I prepared to stand up a perfect gentle flow (I have been unable to repeat that stream exactly for some 35 years) just happened to contact my thigh and penis; I had a tight erection in about 4 seconds.
As I sat there, I tried to ‘resist’ the rather new steadily ‘rising’ and tingling sensation that originated in the area between my anus and the back of my scrotum at the base of my penis by concentration on relaxing and resisting the reflexive ‘pinching-off’ muscle contractions (like stopping urine flow). Initially successful, the result was a similar ‘building sensation’ deeper in my abdomen.
I lasted or held off about 25 or 30 seconds until what will call ‘the WAVE’ washed over me. I remember the rhythmic orgasmic contractions while dry lasted for 4 or 5 minutes and my penis exquisitely tender almost impossible to dry it with a towel. To this day masturbation like this results in several minutes of contractions.
I have built custom showers with several upper shower heads and including a bidet type head (the bidet nicely tickles ones anus and perineum). Furthermore, during that experimental newlywed period (we have been married 25 years; 6 kids ;-), I turned my wife onto the ‘tension relieving’ benefits of such an arrangement!
A variation to this is to just take the shower head off and let the stream fall directly on the underside of your penis. GREAT sensation
I have just discovered your site today, and was dumb-founded to find my first method of masturbating as the "Technique Of The Day", with one slight variation! I had no idea other guys were enjoying this, and I've never talked about or explained this method to anyone else in my life. I, too, wrap a washcloth or small towel around the showerhead to create a single, solid "stream" of water, and I try to aim it out as far into the middle of the shower or tub as possible. I then lie down on my back, put my legs up resting on the sides of the shower, and let the warm water fall steadily on the under-side of my penis, especially on that "sweet spot" that everyone is referring to. Relaxing and closing my eyes is best, and just "letting it happen" can then create the most intense, mind-blowing orgasms in the world! Even though it can sometimes take as long as 20 minutes to get there, it is time well-spent. And I have also been doing this for ages, since I was about six years old! It really is amazing, and I feel such a camaraderie now knowing that others are doing this as well...Everyone should try this!!
I tried this wash clothed shower head thing today and I can't believe how great the water felt as it poured and pulsated over my penis. In the end I had the most intense orgasms that I had given my self by masturbating in a long time. And there was no clean up on of the reasons I like to masturbate in the shower often. 29 form Pennsylvania
believe it or not, i have been masturbating since i was around three. in bed every night i would rub my penis by rubbing my legs back and forth, putting some friction on the head. i always had an orgasm just not as intense as they are now. my dad even caught me when i was four and he was running a bath for me, runniong my penis under the water, masturbating. well anyway, the washcloth technique is very good. try to wrap the whole cloth aorund the had and tie it so you can lay on your back in the tub and have it hit the sweet spot on your penis. be careful it doesnt hit your testicles though because we all know how that feels.
i used this trick and it's very messy but fun...... it shot right up my nose and i think it touched my brain or something