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Yeah, mainly if i have as powerful orgasms as others
Age: 17 Location: Tacoma Sexuality: Straight
yes all the time when i get bored in class
Age: 14 Location: US Sexuality: Bi
Nope. I'm pretty awesome.
Age: 14 Location: The world Sexuality: Straight
The way some of my friends talk, I sound like a novice!
Age: 13 Location: Texas Sexuality: Bi
I think that I have been more imaginative than most..varying speed and mode, inventing devices to sroke, vibrate, vacuum my cock..and more ides. I prolong the sessin, make sure to get fully aroused and eager, almost to the point of being frantic, then allowing myself to cum...wonderful...so relaxing and refreshing..and feeling loved and satisfied.
Age: 88 Location: Omaha Sexuality: Bi
I'm the king when it comes to masturbating. I may only be 20 but I've got eons of experience
Age: 20 Location: ALABAMA Sexuality: Bi
Ever since I began masturbating, I wondered how others did it and whether or not I was doing it better than them. I became very curious and tried to catch my friends wanking whenever they stayed over or when I stayed at their house. I caught a few of my mates doing it and also watched a friend of mine wanking in the shower through the keyhole. For some reason I got an erection and after I saw him cum, I did feel a bit weird. Either way I spotted that most people wank the same as me and even wank into a sock like me to save on the mess. I still wank at least once a day and even if I'm sharing a room with a mate on business, I wank in the shower or sneak a sock into bed with me to catch my cum. On a summer camp a few years ago I was caught watching my friend and he suggested I join in, we had a go at wanking each other off, which was weird at first, but felt ok. He did some things with his hands that I had never done before which felt really good and apparently I did the same. We did this for a couple of nights exchanging tips until the last night of camp he asked me if I'd ever put a finger inside myself. I said no and he asked me if I would mind him showing me - I did start to feel uncomfortable but as we had been exploring all week I allowed him to do it. I had the most amazing orgasm I have ever had, pre cum came out of my penis as soon as he put it in there and I'd never seen so much cum come out of my penis. That was 8 years ago. I've never done anything with another man since and me and my friend are happily married. Strangly we never spoke of those nights since, although when my wife is away, I still have a wank whilst fingering my prostate - it is unbeliveable and I will always mentally thank my mate for that!
Age: 28 Location: United Kingdom Sexuality: Straight
have alot of masterbation experience with my age but my biggest problem during masterbation is i get get to fantasizing about a nice clean shaven pussy and kissing and licking her but in a way i guess it,s o.k. because it causes
me to really delay my shooting of cum
Age: 77 Location: southern wisconsin Sexuality: Bi
Not really. It's kind of hard to mess up at masturbating.
Age: 11 Location: USA Sexuality: Unsure
No. It doesn't matter to me if others are better at masturbating. As long as I'm able to satisfy myself, I'm good enough. And that's the only thing that really matters.
Age: 35 Location: Finland Sexuality: Straight
At times I will! More Interested in just seeing something.
Age: 14 Location: North Carolina, USA Sexuality: Unsure
I wonder I my friends masturbate at all but one day il find out before I graduate this year..... When we are all alone for a good hour.....I will get them to jerk off like theirs no tomorrow.... Possibly well even fuck
Age: 14 Location: Chicago Sexuality: Bi
No. Masturbation can be a solo or shared experience.
I've been in some competitive games (how soon, how far, how many times, etc). Seems to me that every guy has his favorite place, time, technique and style.
My take on it is: If the session(s) complete to his/her/your satisfaction (fun, excitement, completion, variety, mutuality, etc) then you're as good as it gets.
Age: 24 Location: California Sexuality: Bi
Nah I'm the best. My friends and I have a group of 10 called the jerk squad (lol) and all we do is masturbate. We masturbate eachother, ourselves, oral, anal, etc. Basically we have a big circle jerk. Every time one of us has a birthday we all pleasure that guy at the same time. I had 7 orgasms my last birthday and I took my girlfriends virginity. She's kool with the whole thing and I don't mind sharing. 3 of the guys are gay, which isn't too much of a problem, but they tend to put more emotion in the sex, which can be weird sometimes... Anyway they all agree I give the best handjob as I can make all of them orgasm in less than 45 seconds (my longest was 42...just the other day it was stan's birthday and I did my first deep throat...needless to say it didnt take him long...
Age: 15 Location: Louisiana Sexuality: Straight
Well, if the others, all of them, would show me, then I could answer the question. As it stands, I am therefor, the best.
Age: 23 Location: Montreal Sexuality: Gay
I'm fantastic at masturbating, I've had many years of hands on experience. I love cumming on my partners face and in her mouth!
Age: 50 Location: AZ Sexuality: Straight
Not really. We are all unique and have techniques that some of us like, and some don't. Depends really on the individual. But i would very much like to masturbate with someone else, maybe to see how they do it :)
Age: 18 Location: United States Sexuality: Gay
Age: 17 Location: Florida Sexuality: Straight
being the most familiar with my own anatomy i love to edge for at least half an hour before letting it go and love it when the tension just keeps building until my member is just vibrating at the least little touch
Age: 67 Location: carolina Sexuality: Straight
I don't think it's a matter of whether they are better or not, but rather the amount and effectiveness of the techniques they use. One technique might not work as well for some as others. My technique (found here on Jackinworld) works fine for me.
To answer the question though, I'm sure there are much "better" people out there. I doubt anyone I know is "better", but I don't think they're oblivious to what "feels good", I you know what I'm saying. ;)
Then again, it would be nice I someone "better" were to teach me ;) (I'm a hands-on learner, by the way)
Age: 13 Location: Florida Sexuality: Gay
I think that nobody is better at it than anyone else.People are different and take their own pace.But it would be the same outcome so it doesn't matter.
Age: 16 Location: florida Sexuality: Unsure
all the time and a lot im inscure about mi size
Age: 18 Location: new york Sexuality: Bi
I think that I am just as good at masturbating as others, if not better. I try a variety of techniques then suit my favourites to how I feel at a particular time. I
Age: 14 Location: UK Sexuality: Unsure
Yes I do!!! When I masterbate I get turned on thinking about other guys jacking off to!! and I am a straight male!!
Age: 19 Location: Las Vegas Sexuality: Straight
Age: 14 Location: USA Sexuality: Gay
i think i am pretty good. i do masturbate a lot,
about once a day or so, so i practice a lot. i chat on aol a lot and often share ways to jerk off. i vary it up slow and fast and hard and soft. sometimes i will just rub my balls slowly or keep it hard, but i always get off,sometimes more than once, so i am good.
Age: 50 Location: usa Sexuality: Straight
Age: 14 Location: greece Sexuality: Straight
I should be I've had most of my adult life to perfect my technique! I do worry a bit though, as I'm a bi man and so I've wanked plenty of other men and I do find circumsized cocks pretty difficult to deal with. This is because I don't really know what feels good for those lads. I often find that in a mutual masturbation situation I'll orgasm far quicker than the other male(s) that I'm with, or maybe they won't cum at all until they take over.
Age: 33 Location: England Sexuality: Bi
No, I do not. There is no way to be "good" at masturbating, everyone does it differently. Saying you can be good at masturbating is like saying you can be good at eating; some like to eat fast, some like to eat slowly. Some like to masturbate fast, some like to masturbate slowly. Some prefer to make/get a fake pussy somehow and masturbate using that, others prefer the hand. Therefore, I do not worry about this.
Age: 17 Location: Norway Sexuality: Straight
Sometimes. I mean.. I think I'm pretty good.
I actually wonder how you could be bad at masturbating (yourself especially).
Age: 17 Location: MA Sexuality: Gay
no i like mymelf and know what i need to have the best
Age: 41 Location: usa Sexuality: Unsure
Age: 77 Location: texas Sexuality: Straight
Age: 17 Location: CA Sexuality: Straight
all boys want to feel their penis some start young like your son and others may start older, just tell him not to do it outside his room, he will be doing it more when he gets older and starts to squirt.
Age: 18 Location: usa Sexuality: Bi
I dont wonder...I KNOW.One of the most important things about the "activity" is knowing how to listen. that is if its mutual. and if your on this site then you know that variety and trying new things is key. once you have that everything else is all good. happy handing!
Age: 28 Location: Ohio Sexuality: Bi
I think I probably am. I have been doing since I was 13 and have no intention of stopping! I often as a teenager asked friends who masturbated as much as I did, if they had suggestions and techniques. They told me some interesting hand techniques and I think I still use some of the methods suggested to me.
Age: 21 Location: London Sexuality: Straight
no not really, but then yeah
Age: 15 Location: CA Sexuality: Straight
I'm pretty sure I'm better at it than my friends, as I've looked up techniques and try to 'spice it up' a little; whereas my friends only ever mention having 'quickies'
Age: 18 Location: UK Sexuality: Straight
I wish i cud masturbate like women, subtley if i cud do it without hardly bein noticed id be unstoppable
Age: 15 Location: IRE Sexuality: Unsure
Yes, I get plenty of pleasure and I use regular suave hand moisturizer as a lube. And pleasure is all that matters mainly. I have a circumcised penis so I have little foreskin to work with and that's why I use lube. I think I masturbate juuust fine. My penis is about 5 and a half inches flaccid
Age: 13 Location: Pennsylvania Sexuality: Bi
Yes I believe that I am almost better because I have a rather large penis and I masturbate alot
Age: 16 Location: Usa Sexuality: Straight
well I wack my meet like a whorse and im fuckin gr8; roflmao lol :)
Age: 16 Location: Kenya Sexuality: Unsure
Not as much. Before I found this site it was more wondering if they did it.. But that was many years ago.
Age: 18 Location: Houston Sexuality: Straight
I think I am. I love to do it all the time. It's some thing fun to do. I just some times wish a girl would to it for me all the time.
Age: 18 Location: Chicago Sexuality: Straight
No I do not.
Age: 19 Location: Planet Earth Sexuality: Straight
I sometimes wonder about how skilled I am at masturbation. I grew up with a circle of friends who all masturbated, and we only did it once in the same room (it was dark, and I think I was the only heartbroken one that nobody turned the lights on), and I know that I was the last one to reach orgasm, so I was definitely given pause to wonder about my skill in that department. I think I'm pretty good at masturbating, though, and get a lot of pleasure out of it...even if I might not have been all that good when I started out (my technique has definitely improved), having thirteen years of practice does really help quite a lot. I'll be honest, though: I would still love to go back in time and watch all those friends of mine bring themselves to orgasm in that room.
Age: 23 Location: Indiana Sexuality: Straight
I think I am old enough now that I have tried everything. I know what is the best for me. That is what all of us want to do.
Age: 49 Location: WI Sexuality: Straight
Not usually, but I finally masturbated with my friend last week when I slept over his house. It was awesome and I was able to show him a few tricks from Jackinworld. We both ended up jacking off for the rest of the night. Before that I used to wonder how good he was
Age: 14 Location: NJ Sexuality: Straight
No! I might wonder if I proved a better love maker than the next guy because a partner is involved and I think people, especially men, continually wonder if they measure up. That has a lot to do with ego - either the lack of or the possession of too much.
Nonetheless, it being that sex overall involves and needs mental stimulus as much as bodily response may physical manipulation, keeping in mind that solo masturbation is such a very personal thing in both ways, who can know your body or yourself better than you?
Age: 61 Location: NYC Sexuality: Gay
Of course. I use basic techniques, which do the trick, but I often wonder how good others do.
Age: 18 Location: canada Sexuality: Bi
well after bein on this sight awhile i think i can last alittle longer than most people going nonstop (20 min.) but i still wander
Age: 15 Location: does that matter? Sexuality: Straight
For me, I enjoy to masterbate. But, I am new so as i have no expierience
Age: 15 Location: Iowa Sexuality: Unsure
I wonder about that a lot. I really wish I had someone to masturbate with to see how they do it, and if I might like their techniques better. But I'm an only child so that's not happening. Ah well, I bang away anyway.
Age: 15 Location: Indiana Sexuality: Gay
Now I am. Hadn't actually thought about before. Thanks a lot, hehe.
Age: 15 Location: Washington, United States Sexuality: Unsure
Why on earth would it matter? The only person who needs to impressed is me, and yea, I am very very impressed.
Age: 25 Location: USA Sexuality: Bi
I am probably the only one in my class who can masturbate
Age: 10 Location: rockville Sexuality: Straight
sometimes i find it gets a bit sameish.does anyone have a good technique to share
Age: 46 Location: england Sexuality: Straight
I believe that im a very good masturbater, i always make myself moan and have an intense orgasm. I use various techniques, and i have recently started using bananas just like a fleshlight, so i am very experienced and would consider myself a very highly skilled masturbater!
Age: 17 Location: England Sexuality: Straight
i believe i am quite good at it im not too sure about other people though...
Age: 15 Location: monroe, washington Sexuality: Bi
Yeah. I'm sure my friends experience more pleasure than I do when I masturbate
Age: 16 Location: Los Angeles Sexuality: Straight
I don't really think about that...
Age: 16 Location: Hollywood Sexuality: Straight
I think it depends on how you are comparing. If your measuring time, amount, distance, etc. I personally think I stand a great chance at time and amount, but I don't get a whole lot of distance when I get off.
Age: 18 Location: United States Sexuality: Unsure
No, because i am sure i am as good as every else is, i know through mutual masturbation how another masturbate.
Age: 50 Location: netherlands Sexuality: Gay
No. I actually worry that I'm too good at it because I have less sexual experience with others than most people my age.
Age: 21 Location: USA Sexuality: Gay
Not really, my friend didn't seem to mind it when I gave him a handjob...
Age: 15 Location: Scotland Sexuality: Bi
yes, i think about that all the time. i always wonder if there is something that someone else is doing that i could do. My orgasms are good, but they could be better i guess
Age: 13 Location: new jersey Sexuality: Straight
i know i am.
well the guys i have masturbated with have told me i am. my 13 year old brother doesn't masturbate himself at all. he just asks me to do it when he feels like one, sometimes its like 3 times a day.
and my mates from school, say i do it well, ive blown a few in the toilets before.
Age: 16 Location: Australia Sexuality: Straight
no not really
Age: 18 Location: usa Sexuality: Straight
No, why should I?
Age: 14 Location: NY, USA Sexuality: Unsure
it depends if you like say practice with yourself them chances are you will be better than others.but still dont know it dosent mater if you are better than others or not.
Age: 12 Location: los angeles Sexuality: Unsure
no not at all
Age: 15 Location: ohio Sexuality: Straight
i'm pretty happy with how i masturbate. i just want to last longer without having to stop and start.
Age: 17 Location: NC Sexuality: Bi
Sometimes i wonder, but i do it the way that i do it.
Age: 13 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
I think i am like everybody else
Age: 15 Location: usa Sexuality: Straight
I know I suck at masterbating slowly. I cum anywhere from 40 seconds to 2 min. I can not do the stop and go method.
Age: 15 Location: Usa Sexuality: Unsure
Not really. I think I am pretty good because I have been practicing different masturbation and sex techniques since I was 12.
Age: 17 Location: IL Sexuality: Straight
Not really, it's not a competition. To be honest I can do any technique and last as long as I want with my thick Canadian log so i`m too good to care. Also really whats on my mind if sexy chick fucking me not other guys masturbating.
Age: 14 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
Everyone knows how they like it or may like it different. I dont see how anyone could be better after having experience with theirselfs.
Age: 29 Location: TN Sexuality: Straight
yes especially since i only use 2 fingers when most say they use their whole hand
Age: 13 Location: right bhind u Sexuality: Straight
I'm pretty sure I am better than most.Hopefully this site will prove me wrong.
Age: 47 Location: us Sexuality: Straight
yes sometimes i do
Age: 15 Location: indianapolis Sexuality: Straight
I don't think about it. When I'm horny I just need to get off as quickly as possible. I guess you would only know if you're good at it if you compare against someone. I've only ever wanked with someome else once and that was my cousin last summer on holiday when we shared a room. He had some porno mags stashed so we looked through them one night, got horny and decided to wank. We both wanked the same way and spunked up almost at the same time. So I suppose it was a draw!
Age: 13 Location: UK Sexuality: Straight
Definitely. It's really hard to go on in life knowing that you're little friend isn't being treated as badly as others.
Age: 12 Location: United Kingdom Sexuality: Straight
Jah but im not eddictade in it,is just that after doing it i feel something coming out from me, and that something is the Glory of God.So being a musterbuter you are sining against God.Because God said ye shall not commite udultrey,n through musterbuting you commiting udultrey.
Age: 17 Location: Nelspruit Sexuality:
How exactly does one define being "good" at masturbating? How much pleasure you get out of it? How long you last? How frequently you can do it?
I'm good enough at masturbating to enjoy it and keep my sexual tension to bearable levels. I've never masturbated with anyone (though I'd like to), so it's hard to say if others have "better" or "worse" experiences than mine.
Age: 24 Location: Texas Sexuality: Unsure
No, not at all. Only way 'others' is a remote part of a j/o session is the feeling of a sort of male cameraderie knowing i'm doing what every other guy does. Not that I want to j/o with another guy. That was a fantasy from my younger days, but now it would feel weird. I think teens and young adults prob experiment with group wackin, but str8 adult males normally don't...unless I'm the last one to know something lol.
Age: 31 Location: PA Sexuality: Straight
Age: 14 Location: austraila Sexuality: Gay
Yea I always think I have a great technique but wonder what others do.
Age: 37 Location: Chicago Sexuality: Straight
No, that's a question that's never crossed my mind. But now you've asked it, I'd say that one of the many advantages of wanking is that it's a completely personal pleasure, free of the stresses of competition that intrude on so many other parts of life. It's a relief, physical and mental; precisely an antidote to wondering if I'm as good at something else as others are. Therefore, every wank I've ever had has, by definition, been exactly as a good as it needed to be.
Age: 45 Location: United Kingom Sexuality: Straight
I've been jacking for 15 years( early bloomer ) so I am very good.
Age: 22 Location: Dallas, TX Sexuality: Bi
no not at all
Age: 12 Location: reno Sexuality: Straight
I don't know if I'm better then anyone else. But I know that I'm good too myself. And thats what matters to me.
Age: 31 Location: USA Sexuality: Gay
never really thought about it, but i know how to work my penis and make me orgasm multiple times with lots of cum.
Age: 17 Location: england Sexuality: Straight
Yes... I often wonder if other guys have better techniques or simply just do it better.
Age: 35 Location: South Africa Sexuality: Bi
Sometimes, though I think it is all up to the person doing it. What works for some might not work for others.
Age: 16 Location: Australia Sexuality: Straight
It doesn't really bother me because I'm good enough for me and I'm the best at masturbating me.... my girlfriends not really that good at it :(
Age: 15 Location: The Steel City! Sexuality: Straight
I would say that I am as proficient as any other male on the planet. I am old enough that I can claim a lot of experience. Additionally, I have always enjoyed pleasuring myself. I know the speed/pressure/attitude that creates the most enjoyable experience for me. I enjoy life and also participate in frequent sexual intercourse but when I masturbate I am very able to know what I need to have a pleasurable ejaculation experience.
When My Sons were still living at home prior to their departure into adult hood I often discussed the need for them to masturbate versus get a "girl in trouble."
I think that they also appreciated my attitude.
One should always be able to enjoy their body and I know that I certainly enjoy mine.
Age: 70 Location: Georgia U.S.A. Sexuality:
I've never really thought about this? But how can anyone really be "better" at masturbating? It's really about pleasuring your own body so what is good to one person could be totally different to someone else.
Age: 16 Location: Michigan Sexuality: Straight
Interesting question. Define good. If being good at masturbating means providing oneself pleasure, then the answer should be easy. If being good means every masturbation session ends in a rip-roaring, heart-pounding, cum-spewing, orgasm to end all orgasms, well, then that's a pretty tall order. On the other hand (ha, ha, ha) a 13-year-old boy might define good as not getting caught. But do I wonder? Nope. I just try my best to make myself feel as good as possible as often as possible.
Age: 49 Location: MIchigan Sexuality: Straight
Sometimes I wonder if I last as long as other people
Age: 17 Location: WI Sexuality: Straight
No. I get myself off. That's all that matters.
Age: 32 Location: Arlington, VA Sexuality: Straight
I think as long as you enjoy it and cum at the end, then you are good. What does it matter how good someone else is as long as you enjoy it?
Age: 25 Location: Ireland Sexuality: Gay
not at all
Age: 16 Location: australia Sexuality: Straight
I personally think it's a lot easier to jack yourself off because you know the right amount of pressure it takes to make yourself cum. I know I give myself wonderful orgasms, but definitely have never cum from a handjob alone.
Age: 22 Location: New Jersey Sexuality: Gay
Yes I do wonder about that sometimes. Sometimes I wonder if some guys last longer than me. Sometimes I wonder if they have better ejaculations than me too.
Age: 20 Location: Missouri Sexuality: Straight
I'm not sure how relevant this question is. If you can get yourself off, isn't that all that matters?
Age: 31 Location: USA Sexuality: Straight
Nope, because I love doing it and always cum alot and I get awesome orgasm and I sometimes do it with a friend and he says he total loves the way I do it to him so that must mean I am doing it pretty good. When he asks me to jack him and milk his dick then that says I am doing it just the way I am supposed to.
Age: 15 Location: Saratoga ny Sexuality: Straight
I am curious sometimes. I have been talking more freely to my guy friends and have even set up a circle jerk to see what it's like.
Age: 32 Location: Alabama Sexuality: Unsure
I never really think about how good I am at masturbating. I figure I enjoy it a lot and do it a lot so I can't be terrible at it, but I think I finish quicker than most people... so either I don't have a lot of stamina (probably) or I'm better than I think I am.
Age: 18 Location: Connecticut Sexuality: Bi
Yes, but I am just happy to masterbate, its not a competition!
Age: 13 Location: New York Sexuality: Unsure
No, not really. I don't see it as a matter of skill, just if you can have an orgasm or not. And anyways, I feel like I would be on top of the heap, given my stamina and ability to suck my self.
Age: 14 Location: CA Sexuality: Bi
The only reason you should be bad at masturbating is if you don't know how. The techniques that people use are completely different from person to person. I prefer three-finger (two fingers and thumb), and someone else might prefer a whole fist. Who am I to say that's good or bad, so long as it feels goo?
Age: 17 Location: Jefferson City Sexuality: Bi
I do sometimes wonder if I'm as good because I have seen solo male masturbation scenes and when they climax, it seems so intense. When I jerk off, I don't make that kind of O-face.
Age: 29 Location: New Jersey Sexuality: Bi
Age: 25 Location: California Sexuality: Gay
no I have been jacked by lots of guys and have jacked a lot and they feel just as good on me as I do. I still do it at least 3 times per week.
Age: 66 Location: usa Sexuality: Bi
Age: 13 Location: US Sexuality: Straight
Age: 39 Location: minnesota Sexuality: Straight
To be honest i dont know :/
Age: 16 Location: uk Sexuality: Gay
I think that the best masturbators are probably people whose parents accept masturbation as a normal part of life and explained that to them,who have a lot of privacy, are healthy, and are comfortable with their bodies. As for me i think im an ok masturbator i kind of want to try a cock ring in my masturbation, i think that might be more fun i heard it makes u last longer but i'm too shy to go to a store and actualy buy one.
Age: 20 Location: hawaii Sexuality: Straight
I do think so, but I have been trying to talk to other guys about this topic, but they refuse. It sucks. but I think I am actually good at jerking off. At least I achieve good orgasms!
Age: 14 Location: united states Sexuality: Straight
I think I'm the best. I have been jackin off since I was 8 years old. Long before I could shoot cum, but I loved ever good feeling minute. From 8 to 25 I would masterbate 4 to 5 times a day every day but Sunday. Sunday was my day of rest. At age 25 to 35 I slowed down to 3 times a day. I have tried every possible way of jackin off that there is. Any way is a good way that produces that wonderful feeling when that creamy cum starts shooting out the end of your cock and you start panting and grunting and groaning and yelling, I'M CUMMING, I'M CUMMING.
Forget if you are the best and start shooting.
Age: 55 Location: LA Sexuality: Unsure
I never have until now, but after exploring the question I believe now that my skills probably aren't as good as everyone else in the game. However, I know I am the best at masturbating myself than any other person. So, in a way this turns into a win win for my ego.
Age: 16 Location: California Sexuality: Gay
sometimes. ive jacked off with other guys and noticed they do it better and when they jack me off it feels so much better than when i do it myself
Age: 16 Location: arkansas Sexuality: Gay
I believe that my techniques are wonderful as masturbating is my greatest sexual outlet. I love to massage my prostate when I can, pinch my nipples and eat my semen as a special treat for a job well done (and of course this makes clean up easier) :-)
Age: 41 Location: Houston, Sexuality:
No, not really. I try different ways everyday and always shoot lots of cum. I saw my friends jerk off and I do it the "best"!! I play with my balls, ass and jerk off at the same time! It's Awesome!!
Age: 16 Location: Utah Sexuality: Bi
Well, I only masturbate once a day and I know my friends do it more than that so they must be getting a better feeling from the way they masturbate. My one friend I masturbate with is really good too.
Age: 19 Location: Chicago, IL Sexuality: Straight
Hmmmm...I never really thaught about it but I would have to say that NO I dont wonder if I'm as good as masturbating as others
Age: 13 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
I think yes
Age: 17 Location: Mexico Sexuality: Straight
It depends how long you have done it for
Age: 14 Location: Camden Sexuality: Straight
I Always think that and u know i am sooo awesome at it i compare teqhnigues all the time lol and mine are the best thanks to this website
Age: 13 Location: AMERICA Sexuality: Straight
No, sometimes i masturbate my best friend and he says im pretty good.
Age: 17 Location: uk Sexuality: Gay
Yes. I thnk that is a natural response. Most guys wonder that and that is probably what leads to a majority of talk and exploration with the sam,e sex sometimes is that curiosity. I Like Dumbledores( Michaeal Gambon) explaination in Harry Potter. "Curiosity is not a sin ..but you must exercise caution."
Age: 39 Location: The South Sexuality: Straight
I think it really depends on what feels good to the individual. Somebody else's technique might be too fast or slow compared to our own, so it's probably hard to say that somebody can be better at masturbating.
Age: 17 Location: NY Sexuality: Gay
Yes i wonder alot
Age: 13 Location: California Sexuality: Unsure
The only person I need to satisfy is myself and if I am happy then how others do it doesn't matter. I can always experiment, but my pleasure is not a competition.
Age: 72 Location: USA Sexuality: Straight
I think others may or may not be as good as me but with the help of jackinworld we can all be some what good
Age: 13 Location: Colorado Sexuality: Straight
I believe that I get more in tune with myself than others might.
Age: 18 Location: USA Sexuality: Unsure
I try not to worry about it, just do my own thing.
As long I'm happy with the.. Job I'm doing.. It's fine with me. But I wouldn't know how to measure that anyway
Age: 16 Location: Texas, US Sexuality: Straight
I don't think I am. It takes me at least five minutes of stimulation to reach an orgasm. Those are an awesome five minutes, mind you, but I think most people can do it more quickly. I like to look on the bright side, though, because I think it will make me last longer in bed.
Age: 14 Location: Toronto Sexuality: Bi
Age: 13 Location: Chicago Sexuality: Straight
yes, I do wonder how other people do it and if they have more powerful orgasims then I do.
Age: 15 Location: USA Sexuality: Straight
Well i have never thought of it to be honest. i have some pervy friends who masterbate alot. i genraly think i am satisfied the way i am.
Age: 14 3/4 Location: UK 3/4 Sexuality: Unsure
Not sure how to answer this one. I think I'm good at it because I love doing it and it feels good. My friends also seem to enjoy it so I'm not sure how you compare. I've been in a few situations where I have seen , caught, or walked in on a friend or relative masturbating and have found that even though we all masturbate the same general way, it looks very different from person to person. I use see my roomate in college masurbate all the time and he would stop rubbing his penis when he started to cum. I could never understand that. I also knew a guy who masturbated very hard and fast. It always looked like he was hurting himself.
Age: 29 Location: Chattanooga, TN Sexuality: Straight
yes I would like that ... and I like to see sexy guy boys all time only 12to16 year olds .
Age: 15 Location: jordan Sexuality: Unsure
I feel that you are as good as you'd like to be. You are the only one masturbating, thus you should know what you like and know how to get it!! Just have fun with it as long as you get that pleasure and enjoy it you are as good as the next guy!
Age: 15 Location: Virginia Sexuality: Gay
Ya I wonder if I am as good as my freinds
Age: 16 Location: CA Sexuality: Unsure
yes i do, i dont know if im doing it right.
Age: 14 Location: chicago Sexuality: Straight
Age: 21 Location: usa Sexuality: Straight
Yes.......I get off immensely when masturbating. I am not sure I get off any more than anybody else. I have not masturbated with another male.
Age: 50 Location: Houston Sexuality: Straight
No, not really. I've jacked off with my friends and brothers before and it looks all the same.
Age: 17 Location: Calgary Sexuality: Straight
Age: 14 Location: aussie Sexuality: Straight
I have never thought of that maybe people are better...
Age: 17 Location: Australia Sexuality: Gay
I don't really worry that I'm worse than anyone else, but I certainly wouldn't claim to be better than anyone else. I will admit to being intensely curious about how other guys masturbate, what strokes they use, what secondary materials they use - but I'll probably never ask any of my friends for details, so I'll just stick to being satisfied with the way I do things.
Age: 23 Location: North Carolina Sexuality: Straight
Age: 13 Location: Us Sexuality: Unsure
I think I'm better then most of people, especially when you read online about so many girls that can't orgasm, or don't masturbate at all because they don't enjoy or don't see a point. I don't get it.
I started really early and anjoy it a lot.
I don't use many techniques but I was never bored (another thing I don't get, getting bored with amsturbation). I do it 1 a day on average, last year or two little bit less (I have a BF now and sometimes I don't want to masturbate when I want to wait for sex). Also, I'm quite busy, on faculty and working so sometimes I'm too tired to even think about masturbation.
That didn't happen before!
Anyway, I sometimes still have many many rounds of masturbation 3-4 or even 10 or more sometimes, when I'm really horny.
My partner knows I masturbate (maybe doesn't know about that 10 or more LOL) and he likes it very much. I think masturbaton helped me with orgasming during sex too. I know what I like and what I want.
I think all people should masturbate.
Age: 25 Location: EU Sexuality: Unsure
yes, i think i am the best masturbator, who tries all new techniques
Age: 30 Location: india Sexuality: Straight
Not really, because it only matters to me.
Age: 16 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
I don't know. I am 13 and have only been doing this for two years. We have circle jerks all the time and i seem to do as good as anyone else. But i have never tried it with an older guy and i assume he would be better?
Age: 13 Location: Ct, USA Sexuality: Unsure
Often times i do find myself wondering if i am as 'good' as others at masturbating, but the question doesnt really apply very well because everyone has their own standards of what they consider good. As long as im pleasing myself i know that i am doing it well, and whether or not someone else could do me or themselves better is irrelevant in the heat of a session
Age: 21 Location: Arkansas Sexuality: Unsure
Everyones technique is different. I mean like, I use my own little type of the fist method. I dont fully grab my entire penis, what I do is I make sure the space on my fingers thats between the knuckles on my fist and on my fingers are really focusing on the back of my penis. I'm not sure why, I just get the most out of massaging/stroking the back of my penis more. But yeah, everyones different. So I dont really know how to answer that, but atleast I tried
Age: 14 Location: CA Sexuality: Bi
I know I'm good...
Age: 18 Location: U.S. Sexuality: Unsure
No, but when I thought about it in order to answer this question I figured out that others are better than me in masturbating.
In the very few times I spoke with my friends about masturbation, I discovered that most of them use lube, and masturbating in many positions. I personally don't use lube(it's too messy for me, just doesn't worth it) and I masturbate so that the clean up would be as fast and easy as possible. Therefore, when my friends say that they masturbate with lube and cumming on their stomach(again, messy), I think that they are maybe having more fun or are "better" than me, but then I realize that it doesn't really matter, since it is the pleasure with your body and sexuality is the important thing and that everyone has his/her own way to masturbate, and I enjoy mine.
Age: 17 Location: Jerusalem, Israel Sexuality:
It was never an issue with me when I was a kid or a young man because I had never gotten the impression that some guys were "better" at masturbation than others. I had sexual fun with others and got a chance to watch other guys "do it" and simply never felt that one was any better than another at it. So I never worried about it when I was a teen, or later.
Age: 73 Location: MA Sexuality: Bi
Not really. I know I am not that great at masturbation, but I get the job done.
Age: 11 Location: Canada Sexuality: Unsure
I SHOULD BE. I DOUBT MANY HAVE HAD AS MUCH PRACTICE!
Age: 54 Location: TX Sexuality: Straight
I did but then I have but some of my friends and I started to do that with the other's and I know one of my friends is way better than I am at it. He and I have been meeting up at my house for months now. He told me he was gay and liked me I am not gay but I am do like what has happen so I will be his boyfriend if he asks why not I am only 14.
Age: 14 Location: San Antonio Sexuality: Unsure
Not really. I'm really good at masturbating.
Age: 15 Location: Phil Sexuality: Straight
I'm an expert at jacking off. Been doing it since I was 11 and I'm 40 now. No better way to de-stress and enjoy my penis.
Age: 40 Location: Tyler, Texas Sexuality: Gay
No, as long as I can do it and it feels good, I'm a happy camper
Age: 14 Location: VA Sexuality: Bi
yes but i masturbate with a friend and we share tips
Age: 15 Location: nd Sexuality: Straight
I'll just say this "Anyone reading this should envy me!" ;)
Age: 16 Location: Canada Sexuality: Unsure
not at all
Age: 24 Location: Philippines Sexuality: Straight
Not really. It's not like I'm trying to do the best I can. I just enjoy myself. Besides, is there even a standard in jacking off?
Age: 19 Location: ca Sexuality: Straight
I know I am. I can get myself and my boyfriend off in a matter of minutes (sometimes less). Of course, we don't always go for such short periods of times, only when time is of the essence.
Age: 25 Location: USA Sexuality: Gay
Nope. Why bother? You're only competition is yourself.
Age: 20 Location: PA Sexuality: Straight
I think jacking off is jacking off. People do it what's best for them. The out come is the same. It feels "good".
Most times it's good, Other times it's better.
it's done for a reason. I love it!!!
Age: 59 Location: colo Sexuality: Unsure
No im happy how uh good I am at it
Age: 14 Location: Vancouver Sexuality:
Age: 16 Location: Ca Sexuality: Bi
Yes, because only I know what feels good for me, so I know that I am masturbating the best I can.
Age: 17 Location: CT Sexuality: Straight
Probably about the same...how do you really compare?
Age: 15 Location: Canada Sexuality: Gay
I think I am good at jacking off than other are. I have came up with so many technequies now My friends even use them but sometimes they dont do it tight and I gotta show them how its done.
Age: 16 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
Nope I do it how it feels good to me
Age: 14 Location: Us Sexuality: Straight
yes anyone wanna help me out at getting better?
No I do it to myself fine and have a great orgasm every time
Age: 13 Location: United states Sexuality: Straight
I've always wondered if girls actually do experience better orgasms than men. After watching girls masturbating i want to know if they are faking and even if they are, are their orgasms better? I have been masturbating for about 5 years now daily and i have never felt the need to moan and make over noises when doing it. Obviously I would like to have an orgasm that good so if anyone has any methods that i can do alone without it taking an hour to acomplish let me know. :)
Age: 16 Location: UK Sexuality: Bi
Honestly, no. When i masturbate its a personal time i can think and do anything i want and it feels great! I do not think i could do it any other way better because its just how I feel. It's just meant to make you feel good and masturbating relieves the dirty and horny feelings I have, which is why its great!
Age: 17 Location: Chicago Sexuality: Straight
I often bemoan how I am probably on the left side of the bell curve when it comes to all things sexual. For one, I'm one of the many who suffer from the dreaded PE syndrome, and I invariably feel guilty for not having the self-control to last longer. Also, I'm dry as a bone. Either I don't have a Cowper's gland or it doesn't work, because I have never produced so much as a drop of quote unqoute 'pre-cum'. So, yeah, I often think I'm bad at masturbation. I know that it's all personal, and I'm only as bad as I let myself believe, but I still think so.
Age: 16 Location: Virginia Sexuality: Unsure
no.. I get th job done fine
Age: 17 Location: kent Sexuality: Straight
Sometimes I wonder if i last as long as most people do masturbating, on average i last 15-45 mins. I also wonder if people with more privacy have better sessions.
Age: 20 Location: hawaii Sexuality: Straight
I ussaly don't think of that. Never really thought you could be good at it.
Age: 16 Location: ME Sexuality: Unsure
No, I have everything I need to make sure that it is great. No one can Masturbate or get me off better than I can.
Age: 40 Location: Milwaukee Sexuality: Straight
I've never really thought about it. My sexual experience is limited but I know that I give myself really strong orgasms. It feels better than it did when I was younger and I always seem to have much more powerful ejaculations than guys in porn films. Whether that means anything I'm not sure, but I doubt I could masturbate any better than I do now.
Age: 24 Location: United Kingdom Sexuality: Straight
No, I to provide enough pleasure for myself. As long as you're enjoying yourself, then you're good at whacking it, because that's what it's all about.
Age: 14 Location: Carcer City Sexuality: Straight
I'm definitely better than I used to be, so likely I'm not as good only as many, but surely better, at least as far as technic is concerned. On the other hand, from the point of view of the capacity of having several orgasms a day, I was better at it in the past, so it's easy to understand that many are better from this point of view.
Age: 47 Location: Belgium Sexuality: Unsure
No , I don´t think of that , if it feels good to you why wonder if others doe better ?!
Age: 15 Location: Belgium Sexuality: Straight
I'm pretty good at it.
Age: 39 Location: idaho Sexuality: Straight
i never really thought about it until this poll....but i suppose that im better than most people...
Age: 16 Location: USA Sexuality: Straight
That depends upon what "good" at masturbating means. Do my masturbation sessions produce as much pleasure as everyone else's? I don't know, but yes, I do wonder. Do I bring myself to orgasm as fast as others? I think so. Overall though, I do sometimes wonder if I masturbate like everyone else does, but I think I am as good at it as others.
Age: 16 Location: San Francisco, CA Sexuality: Straight
No. What matters is my own pleasure.
Age: 49 Location: US Sexuality: Straight
How does one define "good"? As you get older, the opinions of others matter less and less.
Age: 53 Location: Left Coast Sexuality: Straight
The idea has crossed my mind. But the idea of "good" is relative. I'm sure there are people that are better at pleasuring themselves than me, but it is all speculative. I truly dont care if someone else is "better" than me because I know what works for myself.
Age: 16 Location: Colorado Sexuality: Straight
No I don't. I've chatted with enough guys online, as well as occasionally wanking online (and on web cam), to know that I am still a Master Bator who often becomes an online mentor. Just recently, I had back-to-back orgasms with extremely copious output on camera with a 20-something; he had never seen such a thing, let alone had a multiple-orgasm of his own. When he asked for my secret, I told him "Practice, Practice, Practice"—including prolonged edging, deep breathing, focus, and healthy living.
Age: 70 Location: 3rd rock from sun Sexuality:
I know that I'm good at masturbating myself, and I haven't had any bad reviews from guys I've masturbated with. I would like to last longer more often, so maybe I'm too good at masturbating myself?
Age: 21 Location: Canada Sexuality: Gay
idk but it sure is awesome
Age: 13 Location: colorado Sexuality: Straight
It doesn't really matter to me because I'm good enough for myself and hell that's all that matters, doesn't it... hopefully? :-)
Age: 14 Location: Atlanta Sexuality: Straight
Yes although I am afraid it would be gay to have friends give me a hand job to find out.
Age: 13 Location: Nebraska Sexuality: Straight
I suppose everyone does they're own thing. whatever works for them. i suppose its pretty cool to do it with others and pick up some tips though
Age: 19 Location: uk Sexuality: Straight
Never, I assumed it was the same for everyone.
Age: 16 Location: UK Sexuality: Straight
I never compare my masturbating performance with my friends... It's really, really extremely hard to bring that kind of discussion up. You know, in my place it's kind of taboo topic. But comparing to my knowledge of masturbating, I think I'm better than my friends. Other reason is because I'm not addicted to porn (in fact, I never watch porn and strictly no porn at all, that's against my Bible) and masturbation; I can hold back my masturbation/sexual urge like, months, or a year (I'm holding it now! you know why :D and am going to for a few months or a year), so my sessions can be stronger =]. But I've never tried masturbating with my friends (other male), you know why :D I'd like to, for experiment :D
Age: 17 Location: Jakarta, Indonesia Sexuality: Straight
Age: 14 Location: Mn Sexuality: Unsure
yeah I think so
Age: 16 Location: Baltimore Sexuality: Straight
No, as masturbation is different for anybody i don't wonder wether others are better at masturbating than me.
Age: 19 Location: Germany Sexuality: Straight
I think I am. I masturbate alot with friends and older cousins and I've seen them bring themselves to fantastic orgasms with lots of semen being ejaculated. When I masturbate with them, I always have great orgasms and ejaculate alot like them too.
Age: 14 Location: somewhere Sexuality: Bi
Yea becuz cuz I'm always curious of what age did some people start at...
Age: 14 Location: Minnesota, USA Sexuality: Straight
I'm not sure there's any way to be better or worse at it. I'm good at doing it for myself and seem to play well with others, but I'm not sure how else it could be.
Age: 18 Location: Ohio Sexuality: Bi
Im pretty happy with my penis, and of masturbation i know im extra good taking in consideration other ones, cousins, couple of friends and others.
Way better then most.
Age: 26 Location: US Sexuality: Unsure
Kinda a stupid question. Masturbation is self pleasure, so you do what feels good for you.
Age: 18 Location: ohio Sexuality: Straight
i dont think it really matters, lol whatever it takes for you to get you off - go packers! haha
Age: 18 Location: detroit Sexuality:
I have never really thought about it...
Age: 18 Location: Usa Sexuality:
I wonder. I try and talk to people, but I have to be careful. Ultimately I want to try and jack off with someone else, and sneak a peek, but its a slow process.
Age: 13 Location: USA Sexuality: Unsure
I think I am.
But I think my cousin does it better. But maybe because I haven't hit puberty.
Age: 14 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
no. not until i read this question
Age: 13 Location: mississauga Sexuality: Unsure
Totally! - I actually wonder what other guys fantasise about, or where they masturbate or where they cum on...
Age: 29 Location: Argentina Sexuality: Unsure
Actually, I do. I've always compared techniques with my friends (most of whom are circumsied) and sometimes I wonder how my orgasm compares to theirs. What I mean by this is that while I get a feeling of release with orgasm, I rarely experience the feeling of euphoria that seems to be assumed to accompany orgasm. During sex I tend to fake that feeling, and it is very rare that it actually occurs. I've never really opened up about this before, so...thanks for asking this question.
Age: 23 Location: Chicago, IL Sexuality: Straight
Yes. Always do. I want to know if I'm doing it the best way.
Age: 12 Location: Oh Sexuality: Unsure
Yea I do. But I can see how I compare to my friends when we all get together for a good circle jerk.
Age: 16 Location: florida Sexuality: Straight
I guess that's something that everyone wonders about. But I think it's silly to compare yourself in that aspect; masturbation is personal (generally).
That said, of course.
Age: 18 Location: Oregon Sexuality: Straight
Not really, masturbation is not a match with winners and losers. I don't think there is a 'better' way to masturbate.
Age: 45 Location: NL Sexuality: Straight
not really. it depends on how you define good. if it means self control, then i suck. if it i enjoyment, then probably just as good.technique, then i am below average.
Age: 16 Location: maine Sexuality: Straight
Yes.I think every visitor of this site does.
Age: 23 Location: Europe Sexuality: Straight
Not really. There isnt much to masturbation. Well not for me anyway. Experience may help.
Age: 16 Location: France Sexuality: Straight
Im gud enuf for me and that'll have to do ;)
Age: 15 Location: UK Sexuality: Straight
I don't think it's possible to be bad at masturbation since it is about what each person likes. Therefore, it's not really possible for someone to be "better" at masturbating than someone else.
Age: 51 Location: Virginia Sexuality: Straight
I'm sure that my technique is far inferior to that of other males my age--the ones who aren't too preoccupied with mates to remember their good ol' hands, anyway. Still living with my mother, who dislikes masturbation, and unable to get out to stores myself, i don't use lube or anything else, and I rarely vary my style. I'd like to spices things up, but I don't really have any way to do so.
Age: 18 Location: United States (Illinois) Sexuality: Bi
Not so much but now that I've read this question, I do wonder.
Age: 14 Location: South Dakota Sexuality: Straight
Yeah I do all the time.
Age: 14 Location: Cicero ny Sexuality: Bi
I think everyone has some "method" they prefer or technique they get the best sensation. However, I do think I'm nearing perfection.
Age: 25 Location: Queens Sexuality: Straight
Yes. Just cuz I do it once a day and I can get off in 2-5 min without porn. I've had a girl do it to me before and I didn't get off at all.
Age: 21 Location: FL Sexuality: Straight
Yeah, since I have never wanked off with any other guys I often wonder if I'm a good masturbater.
Age: 18 Location: England Sexuality: Straight
Age: 14 Location: california Sexuality: Straight
I never thought about my masterbation methods in comparison to someone else's methods. Probably like everyone else, when I was younger I masturbated a lot and was always trying different things to see what felt good. After awhile, I sort of settled into a routine for quick, slow, privacy, not so much privacy, etc.
Could someone else give me some ideas that would be more pleasurable? I'm sure they could. I never masturbated with friends but it would have been fun to share methods. In fact, it would be fun now.
Age: 18 Location: Colorado Sexuality: Unsure
yes. Because sometimes I feel like I can't shoot far enough unless I really get worked up.
Age: 15 Location: CA Sexuality: Straight
Age: 17 Location: sd Sexuality:
I have found myself wondering if I am as good at masturbating as others. Usually I do pretty good. I do wonder though, because I can't jack off very easily without some sort of lube, so I always use my own saliva. If you ever watch a jack off video just to see how the stars do it, they usually don't use lube. Other than this, I do a pretty good job. I always manage to blow my load. :)
Age: 18 Location: Florida Sexuality: Straight
I know my best mate is as good at masturbating as me!
You are only as good at masturbating as the time and effort you put into it and considering how much time I spend masturbating I'm sure I'm as good as anyone else. My orgasms from wanking are mind blowing!
A friend also once said to me that he found masturbation boring and if thats the case then he can't be any good at it and needs to improve his technique!
Age: 40 Location: UK Sexuality: Straight
No, as long as it feels good to me.
Age: 15 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
sometimes yeh. when me and my friends do it together we see who does it the best. we jerk eachother off and we judge who is the best
Age: 16 Location: canada Sexuality: Straight
yes because, i have tried all of these techniques and enjoyed them and still do them. I have even found my own techniques. I do as much as i can each night before bed.
Age: 15 Location: Alberta Sexuality: Straight
I do wonder a lot. I wish I was able to do it with friends since I have never had the experience of doing that. If I did that then I wouldnt wonder anymore since I would personally know!
Age: 16 Location: Brockville, Ontario, canada Sexuality: Straight
I am the absolute best person in the world at masturbating myself. I know what I am feeling, and I know what I like. I don't use lube even though I am cut because it reduces the pleasure for me. I know of a few people that would challenge this, probably because they don't fully understand that everyone is different.
Age: 18 Location: Vermont, US Sexuality: Bi
Yeah, I guess I do
Age: 15 Location: NY Sexuality: Unsure
I sometimes wonder where I can be taught to get better.
Age: 19 Location: USA Sexuality:
I feel I'm just as good as anyone else out there because of the fact of different styles, grips, and just how we do it. Either way its still fun, and enjoyable :D
Age: 16 Location: Co.Springs, CO Sexuality: Gay
I know that i'm not as good as my girlfriend when it comes to masturbating me:)
Age: 16 Location: Moon Sexuality: Straight
Well I don't care if I'm as good as others. As long as I can make myself cum and feel good then I'm as good as I should be.
Age: 18 Location: California Sexuality: Straight
Yeah, especially when im watching porn and I see those guys with the HUGE dicks and think damn they must really be able to masturbate good and get intense orgasms.. It's probably not true but it does seem like it!
Age: 15 Location: Florida Sexuality: Bi
I don't think of if others are "better" at masturbating then me but more about how they masturbate, like what do they do that feels good that doesn't feel good to me?
Age: 15 Location: Washington Sexuality: Unsure
Me and my friends often compare how long we masturbate for, so sometimes I try to time myself as I masturbate to at least last longer than my friends.
Age: 15 Location: Virginia Sexuality:
only in terms of how long i can last. i read things on this site about people jacking off for 3 hours, and i just can't imagine that. 5 minutes (just stroking) is a long time for me, or 20 without continuous stimulation. on the other hand, i do a lot of stuff like pulling on my balls and putting a finger in my anus that a lot of people probably don't, so maybe it evens out.
Age: 16 Location: md Sexuality: Straight
I don't wonder if I am as good at masturbating as others are since I have never jerked off with any one else and therefore have nothing to base my own experience on. Instead, I wonder more about whether I masturbate as much as other people do. If I had to judge my own ability, though, I would say I am decent in that there are some sessions where, if I'm not having a quickie, I can get really into it. It's during these times that I'll end up using a lot of lube and multiple techniques. I also tend to make more noise and have a much more powerful orgasm. Unless this is the way most people always masturbate, I would say I am above average in comparison.
Age: 16 Location: RI Sexuality: Straight
During my school days I wondered more about doing it too much than whether or not I was good at it. With the exception of a few ill considered experiments (even in small amounts muscle rub is not a good thing to use on a penis) I had no trouble making it "good" whether I was spread-eagle on my bed, hanging by my knees from a tree limb, or squatting in the creek with water massaging between my legs. I did plenty in more ways and places than there's room for and but for a few instances it was ALL good. About the worst for me was sometimes getting semen in my hair when I whacked in bed so I could get to sleep. Otherwise there was no problem.
I may have been fortunate at age 16 or 17 to come across one book saying more-or-less "all boys do it and shouldn't worry about it." In my era adolescent sex and information was largely negative or missing. The Scout Handbook put it under "conservation" or some such regarding bodily energy and manly strength. Finding one book that said I was normal was all I needed to fill out my own formula for freedom. My church called it sin, but my body needed it so I really made peace with it. My sex drive called three times a day. I could get by on less, but it was not easy because I'd be so tense as a result. Three was a good number for me. On occasion I'd hold a marathon where I'd go at it through the course of a day. My dick would feel sore and it wouldn't erect rock hard, but I pushed for and had orgasm every time. My record started a late Friday afternoon when my parents left me overnight while they went to a funeral. There was no funeral on my part. The next 24 hours were spent enjoying the freedom going naked anywhere in the house and jacking off according to a pre set plan of one orgasm per hour. I stayed awake all night on caffeine pills. By dawn I was tired and starting to feel quite sore, but I wouldn't give up. The last six or so orgasms were really difficult. I'd barely get hard and only a dab of goo resulted. It wasn't pleasure so much as it was a desire to push myself to the limit. The experiment was over and I was dressed a few hours before my parents returned. I slept that night and within 36 hours was back on my old schedule no worse for wear.
Stupid as that episode might have been, it did teach me a few things about my body. Having pushed it to the limit, I no longer saw need to worry about my sex life and had solo sex as need and opportunity allowed. Jacking off was a lot more available than any other "outlet" and it was safer plus avoiding the moral guilt I felt getting too personal with girls. I'd felt for years more excetiment with my own sex. In my mid teens there was a girl who would sometimes take care of my "problem." I let her, but felt false becasue I was sure she saw it as a stop-gap until we could get married. Sex under that condition was no way as fun or satisfying as the fooling around I'd done earlier (at and around puberty with both sexes but primarily with my own) when there was no expectation of anything other than discovery and feeling good.
My theory of masturbation was that doing it kept me in a safe place where I wasn't getting in trouble with either sex but was able to calm my drive as needed. I really did all I could to make it better with lubes, vibrators, and etc which included things from episodes of exhibitionism (wearing tennis shorts without underwear and sitting where I could show off) to mild bondage (difficult to do alone). Very tight clothing, minimal wear, pants torn or ripped to be revealing, and etc were all enjoyed in private. The main error in my masturbation liberation scheme was it stayed a mostly solitary affair. I still participated in Scouts and knew the younger guys were doing as I once had, but my main participation as an older Scout with them was looking the other way and occasionally getting on their cases for being too loud, brazen, or for sexually hazing new kids. I didn't try to stop the normal sex activity going on and didn't try to pretend I was morally pure. If no one was being abused I let them do their thing while I did mine, which I believed I was good at and enjoyed the best I could.
Sorry this got long. I didn't think it would until I realized I had once thought of myself as a masturbation pro.
Age: 66 Location: Northern Minnesota Sexuality: Gay
No, I hope everyone is have as good a time as I am.
Age: 45 Location: Wisconsin Sexuality: Straight
Yes. Sometimes I think of how some people are better than me. Like my uncle, for instance. Abs, hairy chest, the works. I always wonder how he does it. I'm thirteen and been masturbating since I was eight. I think I have my own taste in masturbating.
Age: 133 Location: California Sexuality: Straight
When I was younger I used to wonder that quite a bit, but now at 26 years old, I've found the style that I like and realize that I'm quite good at it, and it's very effective. I can make it last for as long or as short as I want to. Now it's more about the sensation I give myself as opposed to wondering what other guys might be doing with their hands.
Age: 26 Location: South Carolina Sexuality: Gay
Not really. There isn't really a definite good
Age: 16 Location: USA Sexuality: Straight
I often wonder this...but think i am probably better than some, but there are also some better than I. Luckily, I have an amazing best friend who tells me everything he knows, and all his techniques...i'd say i'm catching up to him.
Age: 14 Location: Wisconsin Sexuality: Straight
Yea I think so because I started during the summer of 5th Grade and now I am in the 8th so I feel like I have a little experience when it comes to masturbating and I love the feel of the hot semen after it so I feel confident that I am just as good as others
Age: 13 Location: Georgia Sexuality: Bi
Age: 15 Location: nyc Sexuality: Unsure
Nope. I think I am pretty good at it. Even though I'm straight, I'm sad I've never gotten to see another dude get off. I'd like to see how other dudes do it.
Age: 13 Location: Detroit Sexuality: Straight
I've never really wondered about it untill I read this question... I never thought about comparing how good I am at it VS how good someone else is at it, but now I'm curious. Based on any conversations I've ever had with others, I would think I'm no better nor worse... Just about the same as anyone else. I guess it's all about how you interpret it yourself... Whatever is "good" for you! I know I sometimes exceed my own expecations of myself!
Age: 23 Location: NJ Sexuality: Straight
I think I'm better than most. I recently wacked off with my friend and he used the basic one hand grip, while I varied my methods to get the best out of my session.
Age: 16 Location: GA Sexuality: Straight
no... but now i do!!! lol.
Age: 17 Location: Iowa Sexuality: Bi
I don't think that masturbating is based on good or bad, if others experience a stronger orgasm, i guess they would be masturbating better then me, but the technique i use to masturbate is good in my opinion, but it can sometimes be somewhat boring, since I am so used to it
Age: 16 Location: California Sexuality: Unsure
No, I go to a boarding school, and we don't have separate boys and girls showers, so all the guys and girls masturbate together in the showers. Everyone does the same thing, and it usually always takes everyone about five minutes to cum.
Age: 15 Location: Australia Sexuality: Bi
No because i know im good at it because i have a huge orgasm every time i jerk off.
Age: 17 Location: USA Sexuality: Straight
Age: 1 Location: adsf Sexuality:
oh yes ofcourse! From what I've seen they must be better because they seem to enjoy it alot more. and they seem to wank alot longer and ejaculate a fair bit more and shoot much farther, how they masturbate always look alot cooler than my own, only thing is, I think it's only in my mind, we probably all equally good because in the end we all cum... Right?
Age: 21 Location: South Africa Sexuality: Bi
Yes,it's completely normal to Ask yourself this question. I have thought about this loads and think the best way is to become very close to a friend, so much so you can freely discuss it with him. And if you may wish masturbate together to settle the arguement of who is better
Age: 16 Location: Halifax Sexuality: Unsure
Not really. I'm not sure you can be good or bad at it. When I'm cranking it, I'm only thinking of my ability to pump my nuts.
Age: 18 Location: U.S. Sexuality: Straight
Well, sometimes I tell myself that I should take more time, that I could do things better. So yes, sometimes, I wonder if I'm as good as others. I also wonder if my orgasms are as good as other people's orgasms...
Age: 20 Location: France Sexuality: Bi
Yes and I wonder if my friends masturbate too or how often they masturbate.
Age: 15 Location: Connecticut Sexuality: Straight
I do not honestly think that it matters aslong as the orgasm is brilliant
Age: 16 Location: Wales Sexuality: Unsure
I feel I'm pretty good at what I do, but have no actual comparable standard.
Age: 18 Location: Illinois Sexuality: Straight
Actually I do wonder; being a southpaw I've got to wonder what it's like with the left-hand being a foreign object (most guys I've talked to use their dominate hand). I've also heard of the whacky objects and lubes they use - some not too different from those recommended on this site whereas I'm a straight-up Vaseline kind of guy, and usually use the typical fist technique.
I also have to wonder if guys who learned to masturbate by humping a pillow in bed have a different outlook on the matter. It seems they probably learned the most difficult (and close to real intercourse) means of self-stimulation; meanwhile I, like many others, just has to layback and give themselves a hand for finding the most lazy way to fap.
Age: 16 Location: Atlantic Canada Sexuality: Straight
yes i do
Age: 22 Location: Wisconsin Sexuality: Straight
No. I don't think there are that much differences between everyone, although I've heard being uncut makes it a lot easier. I've asked some of my friends who are circumcised and they say its just as easy for them.
Age: 17 Location: Australia Sexuality: Straight
I think it's more a matter of perspective. I know that when it comes to masturbating myself I am a master, but if I were to be jacking someone else off they would believe they could do themselves better. Even though I am sure they would find my "handy" work more than adequate.
Age: 24 Location: Warwick, RI Sexuality: Gay
Frankly speaking thats the last thing i wonder about, i do it the way i want and get the result that i want the way i want it so whether or not i'm masturbating better than the next guy is another subject for another day
Age: 27 Location: Los Angeles Sexuality:
No Way am I better than others. I barely started so i don't really know what to do.
Age: 14 Location: The United States Sexuality: Straight
I think I am. I'm pretty sure if I gave someone a handjob, not like I would anyways, but if I did, he'd be cumming everwhere. Lol
Age: 24 Location: Nashville Sexuality: Straight
Age: 13 Location: not tellin u Sexuality: Straight
I don't no how anyone else goes abou the deed.
I don't watch other blokes wank all day.
Age: 15 Location: Perth Sexuality: Straight
I never really worry about how other people masturbate. I just enjoy it when I masturbate. I always know someone will be the same or as good when I masturbate.
Age: 31 Location: Canada Sexuality:
Sometimes yes. You can't help but wonder how others do it and how you compare to them.
Age: 20 Location: La Taste, Grenada Sexuality: Unsure
I guess, because I know many styles and techniques which other might not know.
Age: 20 Location: Philippines Sexuality: Bi
Sometimes I wish I could last as long as I imagine some guys do. I wish I could prevent myself from cumming and have multiple orgasms as some guys do and as recommended by the Chinese philosophy that says that each time you cum, you loose essential essence that cannot really be replaced. So it is good not to cum, according to them. Don't know how much I believe that, though. I sometimes wonder if there are guys that have more fun doing it than me. All in all though, it seems self-defeating to compare yourself with other's guys' masturbation; it's all supposed to be about fun, right?
Age: 46 Location: New Jersey Sexuality: Gay
To be honest, I'm pretty damn good, and I have no problem saying that. It's all in the build-up. The longer it takes the better the orgasm. Also, you have to play with your hole. I know a lot of guys won't do it (and maybe that's why I know I'm better at jerking), but the more anal stimulation, or the bigger the thing you've got shoved up there, the better the orgasm, and the more cum you shoot.
Age: 17 Location: Canada Sexuality: Bi
Well, having masturbated with another guy before, I still have some uncertainty, but I am definitely pleased with my style and the intensity of my orgasms. He definitely went extremely fast and came soon, while I was going low and slow and I seemed to enjoy it more.
Age: 20 Location: Wisconsin Sexuality: Gay
No as long as my hand does me justice and gets my juices flowing i'm ok.
Age: 23 Location: Scotland Sexuality: Straight
Age: 14 Location: USA Sexuality: Straight
I never really thought about it, but Im sure guys masturbate as good as the next guy.
Age: 37 Location: Steamboat Springs, CO Sexuality: Bi
I know i am one, cuz i last as long as 1 hour
Age: 16 Location: canada Sexuality: Straight
Sometimes, but i am pretty confident that i am good, I mean how could I not be I practice so much ;)
Age: 18 Location: MN Sexuality: Straight
Yes sometimes I feel women and other guys are getting stronger more pleasurable orgasms. I want to know if this is true and if so if there are ways to improve my orgasms.
Age: 16 Location: NY Sexuality: Straight
Age: 18 Location: nj Sexuality: Straight
All the time. I wonder what techniques others are using and how they feel when they do. I've frequently compared with my friends too.
Age: 17 Location: New Zealand Sexuality: Bi
I found out about a year ago, so I'm not that experienced, and I only recently found the site. I'm not really that amazing I'll admit.
Age: 14 Location: Denmark Sexuality:
I didn't... NOW I DO...
Age: 23 Location: Scotland Sexuality: Bi
not really. i think I am better 'cauze I can ejaculate for just a minute...
Age: 16 Location: Manila Sexuality: Straight
yes all the time and some people ask me and im like i was just thinking the same thing
Age: 15 Location: nc Sexuality: Straight
Although I think everyone is about as good, I think some people are better at holding back that impulse to orgasm, and hence have longer, more intense sessions.
Age: 16 Location: Seattle Sexuality: Straight
I still love to masturbate, just not as often and certainly not with the same result. However, the rush or climax is just as great, even if the result if often disappointing. I am trying a prostate massager to see if that will help as advertised.
Age: 60 Location: NY Sexuality: Gay
I recently got hard in the shower with my best mate (accidently) and just decided to pull myself. He did the same but used soap and rubbed slowly and had a huge orgasm and it looked to be great. I just pull my skin back and forward but I have started doing things his way and want to ask him about it but too nervous to. Maybe over a drink some time we can 'compare notes???' and do it again - it was more like close mateship than a gay thing.
Age: 19 Location: Melbourne Sexuality: Straight
Age: 15 Location: San Francisco Sexuality: Straight
No my masturbation pleases me so why should I need to worry.
Age: 13 Location: Ga Sexuality: Straight
I believe im a little better than most people.. With the few boys that i've experimented with, ive always been able to please them in ways they never found imaginable. They are always asking me "how did you do that" or "wow, that felt amazing, where did you learn that". I always reffer them to jackinworld of course. I always just do what would feel good on me. Like the "rosy fist" as i call it, a mix between stroking with the fist, and rubbing your head with your palm on the up strokes. It feels amazing!
Age: 20 Location: PA, Sask, Canada Sexuality: Bi
I don't feel like I have as strong of orgasiums as other people do.
Age: 17 Location: IN Sexuality: Straight
Nope. However, I hope I'm good at it. If not, practice makes perfect. Oh, how I love to practice.
Age: 35 Location: USA Sexuality: Straight
Yes, every time I see another guy masturbating. From the first time I masturbated with another guy (my brother, who is uncut like me) till today, I have the feeling they enjoy a lot more - and I am a 27 yo gay male, so I've seen a lot of guys masturbating. It seems to me they enjoy more the physical aspects of masturbating, but I know I go very deep into my fantasies, so probably at the end we all enjoy the same
Age: 27 Location: ny Sexuality: Gay
No not at all there must be pepole a thousand times better at it than me also thank you jackinworld
Age: 11 Location: My home America Sexuality: Straight
i dont know ive never thought about it. it feels good they way i do it. tried the bag and lube between the mattress that didnt work well
Age: 15 Location: omaha Sexuality: Straight
I think that no one is better at masterbating than another, because everyone has a different feeling they like. I think it's impossible to masturbate better than someone else.
Age: 12 Location: Peoria,IL Sexuality: Straight
Yea, at times I feel I'm an expert but at other times I think it'd be nice to learn some new tricks. I'd really like to masturbate with a friend but am afraid to ask. I came close once but chickened out. me and my friend were going to go swimming at the pool in our neighborhood. We were at my house and I was about to change into my swim suit so I told him to wait outside the room while I changed but he sat down and faced away instead. I went ahead and changed with him there. I was really horny being naked with him just feet away then he turned around and noticed my erection but didn't say anything. I wish I had offered to masturbate together I think he would have done it. I wouldn't want to touch each other just want to watch how another guy does it. I often think about that day when I masturbate wishing I had asked.
Age: 13 Location: Texas Sexuality: Straight
Its more the definition of what a good masturbation session is. Am I quick enough or last long enough? Should I try edging or get to the payoff as soon as possible? And other variations. I now do it how I feel at the time and just enjoy it.
Age: 24 Location: TX Sexuality: Bi
Age: 18 Location: Denver, CO Sexuality: Straight
I am very good at yankin my chain cause I can do it for hours or cum in just 3 minutes. I know how to use my tool.
Age: 43 Location: Ohio Sexuality: Gay
Yea. I also wonder if I'm as creative as others. I've tried humping various things, lots of types of lube. I've also done it in some odd places. But that just makes it more exciting.
Age: 19 Location: Wisconsin Sexuality: Bi
I swear, it is something that improves with age!!! Things have sure changed since I was 12. I've always wondered how the average married guy masturbated, if they have better techniques than I do - not to be weird about it but it would be interesting to be able to share some of this with a close friend. Maybe as a kid it would have happened - then we could have done it together, somethind I wish I had a chance to do. Restoring really works, too!
Age: 50 Location: NY Sexuality: Straight
I don't really care as long as it feels good!
Age: 14 Location: New Zealand, Otago Sexuality:
Age: 14 Location: alabama Sexuality: Straight
I believe I am, I have masturbated with my friends when I was younger, and we all were good at it.
Age: 45 Location: canada Sexuality: Gay
Does it really matter if you're good? You're doing it to yourself, so what does it matter how others do it?
Age: 18 Location: United States Sexuality: Straight
i often wonder about this.. but i really dont care. i just focus on making my orgasm as good as it can be. who cares what others are doing?
Age: 19 Location: NYC Sexuality: Straight
Yes. Never masterbated with another bloke or seen them masterbate so don't know how my sessions compaire.
Age: 30 Location: Scotland Sexuality: Straight
No, i am the best in my opinion. I've watched and masterbated many of my friends and i know i do it better than them.
Age: 13 Location: Sunderland Sexuality: Bi
No. I continue, after decades of practice, to work on my method, frequency, and intensity. All these years and it continues to be wonderful. Having participated in many sessions with others, I have learned new approaches and continue my quest for perfection...
Age: 66 Location: US Sexuality: Bi
As long as it feels good while you're doing it and it gets you to the desired end result, who is to say one mastubates better or worse than another person.
Age: 50 Location: NJ Sexuality: Gay
no. I enjoy myself so do not need to consider others techniques as mines satifys me
Age: 18 Location: Scotland Sexuality: Unsure
I think I'm great but other people are probably better than me... someone will always be better.
Age: 12 Location: Raleigh, NC Sexuality: Straight
Though I am sure probably every guy thinks this, I believe I am quite a good masturbater and better than others.
Age: 17 Location: New Jersey Sexuality: Straight
No. I think masturbating is one thing that I'm actually very good at.
Age: 25 Location: Australia Sexuality: Straight
I probably am not as good as others are --- though I "practice" every day. I love doing it because it feels so good. I generally use the same technique which sometimes can be boring, and it generally takes me close to an hour to reach orgasm (unless I significantly increase the speed of my pumping). I've tried other techniques, but they don't give me as much pleasure as my tried and true method.
Age: 55 Location: New York Sexuality: Straight
how can you be better at masturbating?
Age: 15 Location: Maryland Sexuality: Straight
I don't think so... I have amazing orgasms, so I think I'm doing a fine job :p
Age: 15 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
I think after all the years I've been masturbating, I'm a pro at it by now. I don't know if I'm any better at it than any other guy my age, and I don't think you can really say that one person is better at masturbation than another. As long as you find it enjoyable and can get off, it doesn't really matter how another person does it.
Maybe I can compare how I masturbated as a kid to how I masturbate now. I definitely masturbate better now than I did when I was 13 or 14. When I was a kid, I would masturbate quickly and quietly, scared that I might get caught and worrying about how I was going to clean up. It was more a case of taking care of an urge than enjoying the pleasure of the experience. These days, I love devoting an hour or two to masturbating with a slow build up to a really big, pleasurable orgasm at the end. I've learned how different grips and different stroking techniques enhance the pleasure of masturbation, where my sensitive parts are, and how much better it is to jerk off when I have total freedom of time and privacy to spend as long as I want and make as much noise as I want. I love letting myself go over the edge into a really powerful orgasm and then just basking in the afterglow without worrying about someone walking in on me.
Age: 30 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
Nope. Masturbation is a personal thing. As long as I satisfy myself, then I'm good with that.
Age: 26 Location: Manila Sexuality: Straight
Yei feel I'm not as good as the others guys on this website who have comments on the technique like stop and go who say they went for 2 hours and shot on the wall behind them. I wish I could last forthat long
That orgasm would feel amazing!
Masturbation feels so good
Age: 15 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
never really thought about that. i think everyone gets off the same when they feel like it i guess
Age: 18 Location: nj Sexuality: Straight
I don't think of it often, but when I've discussed masturbation with friends, we've talked of how we do it, and I've wondered if they've gotten more out of it than I have.
Age: 16 Location: SF Bay Area Sexuality: Straight
no i dont really care, i mean its not a skill like a sport that gets you into college and makes you millions
Age: 16 Location: new york Sexuality: Unsure
No because I know everyone does it and there's no "skill" to masturbating.
Everyone uses their own techniques. You may do it differently but the outcome is the same. So, no I do not wonder if I'm as good as a masturbator as everyone.
Age: 13 Location: MD Sexuality: Straight
I think I am close to perfect, after practice makes perfect!
Age: 16 Location: Wilmington, DE Sexuality: Straight
no I think masturbation is much the same for everyone except that I am circumcised and therefore lack the extra benefit of the foreskin
Age: 75 Location: UK Sexuality: Unsure
No! I feel that at age 37 I have this down so well and it keeps getting better!
Age: 37 Location: Illinois Sexuality: Unsure
No, because each person has their own style of masturbating and what feels good to one person may not feel good to another. Only you can be the judge of how well you masturbate.
Age: 16 Location: Canada Sexuality: Straight
yes i have wondered if it they are, this is why i would like to have a mutual session with someone to find out.
Age: 16 Location: Michigan Sexuality: Bi
Can you *be* bad at masturbating??!
Age: 38 Location: canada Sexuality: Bi
yes. I have a disability and I sometimes wonder if I am having as great of an orgasm
Age: 17 Location: Rochester MI Sexuality: Straight
don't care. As long as I ejoy what I'm doing, it doesn't matter how I compare to others.
Age: 39 Location: illinois Sexuality: Straight
always, which is why i bring up masturbation at times with my friends
Age: 16 Location: usa Sexuality: Straight
Im not sure, i think that everyone does it better than me, my friends do it soo much diffrent im not sure if i do it right
Age: 13 Location: Orlando Fl Sexuality: Unsure
I really am insure I guess the only way is to get somebody to join you but you cannot tell.
Age: 16 Location: UK Sexuality: Straight
I have always wandered if there is something wrong with me as i can only masturbate when sitting down or lying down but whenever i try standing i have no luck :(
Age: 16 Location: US Sexuality: Unsure
I never really think about it, coz ive never seen another guy masturbate, but im happy with how i do it... i ain't gonna change lol.
Age: 13 Location: Standish Sexuality: Straight