I was once watching a video to get me in the mood to go "relieve some stress." I kept playing one part over 3 or 4 times. The final time, with all the action and noises, it was too much for me. During the peak moment of the scene, without ever touching myself, I was drawn over the edge, and within seconds I could feel the tingly feeling start to build up. Less than a second later, the feeling became more and more intense; before I could move another muscle, I started to ejaculate. It was unbelievable – I could feel everything from the modest beginning sensation all the way to the engulfing, body-warping sets of throbs going from my head down to my toes. I had the feeling that I was its slave and had no control over it. I enjoyed those few precious, rare moments I had with myself – one hand on the remote, the other to my side – no one part of my body touching the other. I have never had an orgasm so intensely detailed as that one.
- age 23, Connecticut
This Week's Wackiest Response:
Who has time for that? What with global warming and all, I only have time to masturbate for a few minutes before I have to go back to preparing for the big flood.
- age 16, Missouri
What a mind-blowing surprise – I was going to ask my roommate to join me for breakfast, and as I approached his bedroom, I heard a familiar noise. Quietly looking around the door, I saw my buddy having a very intense one-on-one session. I had dreamed about this image in the past and then was watching his every move from just a few feet away. I was instantly aroused, kept watching without disturbing him, and tried not to let him know I was watching so as not to disturb him and spoil the moment. In a few minutes, he reached his orgasm and at the same time, I lost my breath and felt a blast of pure energy erupt into the greatest orgasm I have ever had. I realized in shock that I just had an orgasm in my shorts at the same time without any hand or any other physical contact. I have never been able to reproduce such an incredible orgasm since without some kind of physical assistance. Some time afterward, I confessed my watching to him, and we have gone on to greater things and a stronger friendship.
- age 29, Florida
I can have an orgasm and ejaculation without using my hands any time I want. All I have to do is find a chin-up bar, grab it, bring my knees up to my chest, and hold the position. Basically, I am doing a lower abdominal exercise by doing this. The pressure created from my abdominal muscles in my pelvic region can make me go from soft to hard to orgasm in less than a minute. I can do this completely naked with nothing touching my penis, not even my legs.
- age 20, Texas
I *never* use my hands when I masturbate! I use either my bopper or my sex doll. Otherwise, I rub my penis against my bed sheets, and ejaculate onto the sheets (or into the sex toys I use). Orgasm feels much better when I don't use my hands!
- age 31, Wisconsin
Technically, I have never had such an erotic experience as to ejaculate without stimulating myself. But I have been able to ejaculate without my hands. I was just thrusting in and out of an old shoe. It was definitely more intense than normal, but cleanup was hell. The most intense orgasm I've ever had without touching myself happened, actually, a few nights ago. I was lying in bed and had my penis out as I had planned to masturbate, but was a little tired. I pulled the covers up, and my dog started nesting on top of my crotch. Needless to say, the stimulation was enough, and I left a mess under the sheets. Sadly, I didn't get to bed when I planned to.
- age 16, Florida
One time when I was at work (telephone operator for a mail order company), I had an orgasm from fantasy alone. It was significantly milder than usual, but I felt the tingle throughout my body. I could do it only that one time.
- age 33, California (female)
I work in a grocery store produce department. One day in the farthest cooler, I cut a hole in the top of a ripe cantaloupe. I then had "sex" with it until I had an orgasm – all inside the cantaloupe. It was great, but sticky.
- age 20, Minnesota
I masturbate until I'm near orgasm, then stand up and thrust into empty air, and then ejaculate. When I do this it is a more intense and uncontrolled orgasm. I don't visualize sexual images; rather, I feel the physical sensations more.
- age 29, Canada
I have attempted hands-off sessions, but they are just too frustrating and do not yield good results in my opinion. I guess I'm just impatient.
- age 16, Australia
My first and only experience like this was also the first time I had an orgasm – as well as the first time I ejaculated. When I was 12 1/2 years old, I would often haul my erection out of my briefs and Bermuda shorts. I had the whole upstairs of the house to myself in the summer, which meant my penis was often proudly displayed as I paraded in front of the mirrors in all the bedrooms. One day I noticed increasing tingling in my erect penis, but I did not touch it, since I had not learned what masturbation was, let alone how to masturbate. After about an hour of sitting around with my penis out and tingling, I felt a sudden urge to urinate. I made it to the bathroom just in time to ejaculate into the toilet. Unfortunately, I was terrified by what had just happened, since I had no knowledge of puberty. Looking back on the experience, however, I remember it as one of the most powerful orgasms I ever had, probably because it was completely spontaneous, unexpected, and – of course – my very first.
- age 63, Michigan
Once I got a body massage machine. It felt so great that I decided to try it on my penis. It felt like heaven and soon I knew I was reaching orgasm. It was quite different from masturbating with my hands.
- age 19, Chile
During my early teens, I would sit in church, cross my legs, put a hymnbook in my lap, and swing my leg. That would give me the most exquisite pleasure imaginable. I had to be careful when I reached orgasm and not give away what I was enjoying, which tended to take away from the wild release. Now I much prefer to be in a private place so I can take my time and enjoy the buildup to the fullest, but back then any kind of release was a help in getting me through those years.
- age 69, Texas
I hadn't had a wank in a few days and got really horny. So, I was going to the toilet at my local shopping mall when suddenly I got an erection – plus, it didn't help that strangers could see my penis, and things like that turn me on! I was trying to pee so bad and I felt it – my balls tightened, and instead of urine, semen shot out. I hurried and put my erection away and ran out with a big wet patch in my trousers.
- age 14, United Kingdom
In my teens, before my body became too heavy for it, I almost always masturbated by lying prone in bed, with my penis sticking out of my pajamas, thrusting vigorously against my mattress. I believe that pelvic thrusting makes for better orgasms. I have also enjoyed getting off with running water – swooshing through the deep end of a swimming pool, standing in front of the pool's water jet, or lying on my back in a bathtub under the showerhead, as the tub slowly fills. Very rarely, I have managed to ejaculate by concentrating very hard on rhythmically contracting the muscles inside my pelvic area, while imagining what my penis would be feeling if I touched it. (The last time, I videotaped the feat, in case anyone doubts that it is possible.)
- age 70, California
Oh yes! Years ago I was watching a porn movie and the guy inserted a finger into a girl's anus. Being the adventurous type, I decided to try that myself. That's when I discovered the joys of anal pleasure. The first time I touched my prostate gland, quite by accident, the resulting orgasm was beyond any level of pleasure I thought possible. That time and many others, I have reached orgasm by massaging my prostate without touching my penis at all.
- age 34, Ohio
One time while home alone, I was very aroused and was masturbating in different rooms. I happened to run up the stairs with a large erection and since my penis was bouncing up and down I ejaculated as I ran up the stairs. It was great except for the cleanup.
- age 17, Connecticut
I recently discovered the power of a simple exercise wheel designed to work on the abs. If I really stretch, I've been able to reach orgasm without even touching my penis – except perhaps brushing it on the floor once or twice. This has been the most powerful orgasm I've ever experienced. It's like my penis is getting a workout rather than my hands and abs.
- age 38, Florida
Does stimulating yourself with other objects count? I've done that, and I find the orgasm is a lot stronger, but not necessarily better. I have never managed to ejaculate without any kind of stimulation at all, but I have managed to get pretty close.
- age 17, Canada
I started puberty when I was 10, but had been masturbating since age 8. One summer we got to swim as guests at a country club, and my brother and I would spend hours in their big pool. That was when I discovered the magic of water jets. I would arrange myself so that I was innocently resting my arms on the coping of the pool. Beneath the water's surface, I exposed my hard penis and held it right in the path of the pool inlet. As I look back on it, I suspect that my face might have given me away, but then, I thought it was so cool to have an orgasm in the middle of a bunch of people swimming. Although the orgasm was more intense than those accompanying my usual nightly ministrations, I can't tell whether it was due to the action of the water on my penis, or the fact that I was out in the open, with my penis somewhat exposed, and doing something that nobody was aware of. - age 62, New Jersey
My friend and I mess around sometimes when he sleeps over. Sometimes, we like to get naked in bed and totally rub up against each other. It feels so good that we both ejaculate. I think it feels so much better that wanking because its not just you pulling off, it's with someone that likes you a lot.
- age 14, California
A few times I have masturbated using only thought. They were the best orgasms I have ever had, but it takes a long time, and you need to be in a place where you know you won't be disturbed. If it's in your usual spot where you masturbate – home, the dorm, etc. – it won't work, as you will be concentrating more on not getting walked in on (if you care about that), and you need your whole mind focused on the masturbation session. It is really worth it, though.
- age 42, Australia
I was sitting in class and had my cell phone in my pocket on vibrate. I used my friend's cell phone to call my phone and kept doing this. The vibration from my phone was amazing. I then had to ask for the restroom pass so I could clean my boxers.
- age 16, Washington
Yes, I did when I was young. I guess I was in 5th grade, and my best friend and I read in one of his dad's adult books about many different ways to masturbate. To make a very long story short, we agreed to try it with a melon and *never* tell anyone (so I guess I'm doing that now, 15 years later). We cut two holes into it and humped it at different times while watching an adult movie. It took longer than doing it by hand, the orgasm was the same, and although the article said it felt like having sex with a vagina, it really did not. Afterwards, I was ashamed and felt quite stupid.
- age 30, Maryland
We women normally love hands, but I work in an office and sit behind a desk a lot. I see a lot of nice guys and get turned on. I got this thing from the Web that I put in my panties and goes into my vagina. As I move my legs it does something so nice that I can climax with it. At first it was hard to do, but with training, it is so much fun that I seldom use my fingers. I even go to the movies and just move my legs to a great orgasm. I go fingerless most of the time now.
- age 23, Florida (female)
Sometimes when I get tired of the regular fist technique, I do either the Pillow Pumper technique or the Baggie & the Mattress. I just put my penis either into the bag or between the pillows (wrapping my penis with boxer shorts), and then pump away. I find the resulting orgasm to be stronger and overall more exciting, but sometimes just my hands are satisfying enough.
- age 16, California
Once I applied ultrasonic frequencies to my erect penis by means of some sound equipment. It was intensely euphoric – like pleasure bursting from every nerve ending of my entire penis. There was so much more stimulation than masturbating normally with my hands. I thought it would have made me ejaculate quickly, but instead, it was a nice, long drawn-out session with increasing intensity and two different stages of ejaculation. In the first stage, my semen oozed out slowly, but in the second stage, it shot out with such force I thought I'd shot through the roof! My eyes rolled back in my head and I moaned like an animal in the night. I'll never forget it!
- age 27, Ontario, Canada
The only way that I have done it is the standard "hump the bed" technique. The curvature of my penis makes it point down toward my feet when I lie on my front. I thrust into my bed and get very nice stimulation on the head of my penis. When I climax, I have a great orgasm, better than with my hands. That might have something to do with the pressure my penis has when I'm lying face down. It feels awesome, but I can only do it when my girlfriend and I have phone sex. Otherwise, I stick with my hand.
- age 16, Oregon
I am a gymnast, so that makes me very flexible. One night I was experimenting with my stretching and I discovered I could use my feet to finger my vagina. The orgasm was 10 times as intense!
- age 18, Tennessee (female)
I was able to achieve this once. On a return bus ride from a cross-country music trip during high school, I was really turned on. I had had crushes on the girls sitting close to me off and on. The bus ride was nice and relaxing. I think a combination of hormones, relaxation, and age led to the ultimate end in this situation. It was great, but very unexpected. I honestly could not believe that I had just ejaculated into my underwear while on a bus with 80 other people! But then again, how many guys out there have sexual thoughts, get erections, and entertain their fantasies if given ample privacy to hide the evidence in their pants? I think perhaps many more should. Besides, who knows? It might end up with a very pleasurable end!
- age 24, Indiana
My nipples are *very* sensitive; usually I can watch an erotic video and just rub my nipples, and that gives me good amount of pleasure. I usually prefer to wear a cotton T-shirt and rub my nipples through that – nothing fancy, just with my fingers on the nipples. Usually lots of semen oozes out, but I have yet to achieve an orgasm with this type of stimulation. The sensation that I get while rubbing my nipples is great. Also at times, it seems that I am about to have an orgasm, but have yet to climax with this technique. It seems that I have very small orgasms with this type of stimulation, but not a really full one.
- age 20, Texas
I once watched my girlfriend have sexual relations with another guy. Just from watching, I reached an orgasm. It took much longer, but when it finally happened, it was one of the best orgasms of my life. I didn't ejaculate as much, but it felt much better.
- age 25, Florida
Masturbation began for me when I was in 6th grade. I woke up in the middle of the night with an erection, started grinding into my bed, and had my first orgasm. I eventually started using my hand to stroke my erection for my masturbation sessions, but the bed-grinding technique has never completely gone away. One thing that I always felt was more intense with the bed grinding was the rubbing that my scrotum gets while grinding into the bed. It made me realize how much rubbing my scrotum added to my enjoyment. So if I am using my hand to masturbate, I make sure to rub and/or hold my scrotum with my other hand.
- age 33, Virginia
I've "mentally masturbated" only once in my life. It took quite a long time, but just having erotic images displayed in my head and having the fantasies stimulate me without my hands to an orgasm was more pleasurable than I've ever experienced – even with a man
- age 21, California (female)
I have a thing for masturbating against hard surfaces through my clothes. Often I hump a doorframe, and sometimes I even rub against a hardwood floor. I've also done it on my desk and one very memorable time against the side of my uncle's swimming pool, when I was alone. I've tried using my hands, but I like this better: It takes longer, but produces harder orgasms. The only touch comes from your penis rubbing against your clothes on the inside, so it becomes very sensitive and quite stiff. Also, when you're humping a hard surface your penis sometimes slips around unexpectedly in your underwear, which produces incredible feelings – especially as you approach orgasm. There's also something great about being able to thrust against something hard as semen squirts out.
- age 15, Virginia
When I was around 14, I discovered I could achieve orgasm with no physical stimulation. Now I start out lying flat on my bed with my legs hanging off, feet on the floor. Then I do a partial "stomach crunch" and hold it at a certain level (my penis knows when I am at the right level). In a minute or two (when I was younger it was seconds), I feel stimulation building, and eventually I have an orgasm. I can still do it; it gets great reactions from my girlfriends. The orgasms I have this way are more intense because I can delay orgasm much easier by just relaxing my legs, getting to the edge, then backing off. After delaying 10 or so times, the eventual climax is stupefying.
- age 26, Texas
I masturbate in the shower. The sensation is more pleasurable because you can concentrate more fully on the sensation in your penis without any other distractions in the form of body movements, and because you can stimulate your penis much more rapidly and completely than with your hands. My orgasm is usually shorter than when I masturbate with my hands, but the feeling is much more intense. I usually ejaculate the same amount.
- age 14, Oregon
Occasionally I masturbate by rubbing my genitals on pillows. The resulting orgasm can be more intense, as my hands are free to fully stimulate other erogenous areas of my body, such as my breasts or inner thighs.
- age 46, California (female)
I find that the ejaculation is not as intense because of the lack of control on my ejaculation (related to a premature ejaculation problem). In my dreams, I ejaculated just by seeing a naked woman. In reality, I ejaculated when my penis rubbed again my thighs.
- age 30, Connecticut
I've actually fully climaxed without touching myself in any way – just by concentrating and using my imagination. I guess it resembled meditation; I just concentrated on the image of my girlfriend and me in all sorts of different positions until I actually felt it. It was quite intense; the only drawback is that it took me a long time to come to a level of concentration where I could feel what I was imagining. So, if you've got a private, quiet area to strip down and meditate, it's wonderful. All I know is the second time I tried it, my girlfriend came home rather unexpectedly, and the complete loss of concentration was a feeling I'd like not to repeat.
- age 19, Georgia
I have done this several times before; obviously, you need to get an erection. Then keep tensing the muscle that connects to the penis. Keep tensing and relaxing. It can be hard work, but the resulting orgasm is amazing. No hands are needed – definitely worth it.
- age 22, United Kingdom
I never did, but I know someone who could. I found this in Samuel Pepys's diary. Sometimes he uses a mix of coded words and French to disguise his meaning. My translation is in square brackets: 16 December 1665. After seeing and admiring a girl called Betty Lane at Westminster Hall, London, Pepys got into a boat (a river taxi) on the River Thames, and wrote, "Lying down close in my boat, and without use of my hand, had great pleasure, and the first time I did make trial of my strength of fancy of that kind without my hand, and had it complete avec la fille [with the girl] I did see au-jour-dhuy [today] in Westminster Hall." Pepys was 32 when this happened. Unfortunately he didn't say how the orgasm differed from the usual kind!
- age 38, United Kingdom
One time as I was masturbating my girlfriend, I was getting into her moans and twitches and was breathing along with her (I was behind her). I worked myself to a hands-free orgasm as she was climaxing. The result was a much higher concentrated orgasm that left me feeling very good afterwards. My girlfriend liked it, too.
- age 19, California
At first, I managed to get an orgasm just by fingering and playing with my nipples. After some time, it was possible to climax (after having some stimulation from erotic pictures and playing with the nipples) completely hands-free. I cannot imagine a more intensive orgasm. It is longer lasting, the semen flows more than it squirts, and after that, there is some special feeling. I wondered whether I am the only one who can get a completely hands-free orgasm. I find getting orgasms with manual stimulation quite boring, at least they are a different experience.
- age 46, Germany
I managed to achieve an orgasm without stimulation from my hands or any other object just by getting *very* turned on. It took a lot of practice and many failed attempts, but eventually, I pulled it off (so to speak!). The feeling was incredible – similar to the feeling during a wet dream. Without the distracting sensation of something touching my penis it was 100% pleasure. The first time I managed to do it, it was a feeling on a par with masturbating to orgasm for the first time – definitely worth the effort and highly recommended!
- age 21, United Kingdom
This happened when I was 14. I was out walking and started feeling aroused for some reason (it didn't take much back then). Pretty soon, I had a full erection, which was pretty uncomfortable at first. I tried to position my penis more comfortably, and figured out that I could place it so that the walking motion would move my foreskin up and down over the head. This seemed a good idea, and after about 15 minutes of walking, the friction and feeling of doing it outdoors gave me a great orgasm. It was a great experience, even though walking home with my undies "filled" (so it seemed at the time) with semen wasn't very comfortable.
- age 18, Finland
Until I was about 35 years old, I was able to have an orgasm without touching myself. I would look at pictures of women being sexual and I would start getting hard and was soon so hard I would start throbbing. Each throb was like a stroke of my hand and in a few minutes, I'd climax. The orgasm probably wasn't any better than by regular masturbation, but it was such a rush just knowing I could think myself off! The last one of those was over 30 years ago and I really wish I could still do that today.
- age 69, California
I used to do a "waterfall technique" and run a bath while placing my clitoris under the running water. This is how I first discovered masturbation when I was little, totally by accident. I kept doing it that way for a while and still do it occasionally, but I've come to prefer doing it manually. With the waterfall technique, I find that the stimulation is too intense and the orgasm is actually too powerful to be enjoyable. It also takes a very short amount of time, which is sometimes preferable, but mostly, I like to really feel the buildup. Another thing is that it's all clitoral stimulation, and I don't really get much sensation inside my vagina like with manual, where I use both clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
- age 15, Florida (female)
I had my first orgasm when I was about 8 years old. I was climbing a street-sign pole when suddenly I had the most wonderful feeling in the pit of my stomach. Over the next few years I tended to climb lots of poles – so I could experience the same feeling – but I never connected the sensation with pressure against my penis and scrotum. I learned to masturbate in the normal fashion just before my 13th birthday. As a teenager, I loved to climb the poles holding the swings in the park – the higher the better. I would *always* have an orgasm as I pulled myself up, my legs wrapped tightly around the pole, and my groin pressed against the metal. To this day, I cannot climb a pole without climaxing. The orgasm is very different from the "standard" kind – it is not centered on my penis; instead, it's like a wave starting in my groin and moving up through my stomach to my chest.
- age 32, Canada
Many times I have climaxed without using my hands. My latest method is to place my penis on the edge of the washbasin and simulate sex using the edge of the basin against the underside of my penis. I have a long foreskin, so I can rub the underside of my foreskin against the basin, which then pulls the skin back and forth as I slide. When I ejaculate, my semen conveniently shoots into the basin (unless it is particularly strong, where it shoots over the edge of the sink!). The sensation is so different from confined sex such as that when my wife and I make love – it is an incredible feeling, especially when I see the semen fly.
- age 46, United Kingdom
Under the shower, I turn the water onto high pressure and lie down on my back, moving my hips so that my penis goes in and out of the water stream. It takes much longer to climax, and the wonderful period just before ejaculation lasts much longer and gets very intense. The orgasm is different such that the ejaculation tends to be more flowing than shooting.
- age 37, Norway