Does this mean the other person has to be in the room with you? My girlfriend helps me out by being on the phone with me. Sometimes she just listens and enjoys; other times she joins in (which leads to stronger orgasms for me). This is highly enjoyable for both of us. However, if she were in the room and couldn't touch me, I'd love to watch her do it with me — have her touch or kiss me, or just watch me. Having her watch and not be able to do a thing would probably be the biggest turn-on, because I'd know how much tension she was building up.
- age 22, Virginia
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Feed me a sandwich.
- age 16, Texas
I'd have someone play with my nipples — suck them gently, bite them, blow on them, rub them. That would do the trick!
- age 24, Pennsylvania
I would probably have them talk to me and "coach" me to orgasm. I once had someone online do this for me, and it was amazing. I would prefer if they could actually physically masturbate me, but with the restraint on touching, I figure "coaching" is the next best thing.
- age 15, Ohio
I would have my helper spread her legs and then play with herself while I watched. It would be a very short session, but what a way to go!
- age 50, Australia
I would get a chick to masturbate in front of me and play with herself. Having a girl touch herself is the next best thing to touching you.
- age 16, Michigan
If it were a woman helping me masturbate, I'd want her to kiss my breasts, neck, and earlobes. This would definitely enhance my session. If it were a man, he could rub his penis against my nipples, or lick my feet, if he was game. I know that sounds odd, but it turns me on.
- age 43, California (female)
I would want them to touch me in the area between my shoulders and my ear. That spot turns me on every time.
- age 16, Mississippi
I'm a romantic at heart. I'd love to have someone be there just to hold me in their arms.
- age 19, Utah
I have a major neck fetish. Having somebody nibble on my neck and ears while I'm busy would boost the experience nicely.
- age 30, Canada
I'd have my boyfriend massage my breasts. He and I are not sexually active at all, but I know he wants to touch them. He's always been good with his hands. He always massages my shoulders and neck after a rough day. Just the thought of him doing that to my breasts is a major turn-on.
- age 17, Iowa (female)
Play with my butt.
- age 37, New Jersey
I would want any grown man to help me just by showing me how. I have never seen another guy masturbate, and to watch a man masturbate who has been doing it for a long time would not only teach me a lot, but would probably turn me on.
- age 15, Illinois
With one hand, rub my nipples. With the other, hold a porn magazine up in front of my eyes. With the mouth, comment on it. That is exactly what a housekeeper of mine did every morning after she had brought my coffee and I masturbated under the covers. Direct sex with her was taboo — I never have it with anyone working for or under me, and we strictly stuck to that agreement. But I know that after my ejaculation, she always retired to her quarters and masturbated herself.
- age 73, Spain
I would have a female help me masturbate. She would strip either naked or down to her panties and bra. Then she would dance as erotically as possible while I masturbate and rub her breasts against me (without touching my pelvic area). With my free hand, I would grope her.
- age 15, New Jersey
I'd want someone to sit behind me and hold me in their arms while kissing my neck and shoulders. My neck and shoulders have always been my erogenous zones, so it would be great to have stimulation there while I was going at it.
- age 19, Colorado (female)
I'd definitely have some element of stripping involved. But I think vocal stimulation can be very helpful as well. Maybe I'd have her (I did mention it would be a "her," right?) masturbate a little. Depending on the girl, it might even make sense to use some of her own liquids as lube — that would really turn me on.
- age 15, Iowa
A lot of long, deep kisses — I used to do this with my ex-girlfriend, and it's the best. All that passion between the two of you, and the eroticism of a kiss combined with masturbation and orgasm — either self or mutual.
- age 31, United Kingdom
I would have another guy play with himself right in front of me. I'd have him strip naked, work up an erection, and masturbate slowly while I watched. I'd want him to masturbate exactly as he normally does — no fancy or gross stuff. I'd enjoy seeing how he does it. I'd try to time it so he had an orgasm just before I did. The look on his face and the sight of his semen, and how he holds his penis and tenses his whole body while ejaculating, would bring me over the edge. I bet I'd have an explosive orgasm.
- age 15, West Virginia
I'd have someone read erotica to me and masturbate so we could each watch the other. That would be a wonderful turn-on, especially if it's a female partner!
- age 46, California
Since I don't have a lock on my door, I'd probably have someone guard the door and warn me of approaching people. Just make sure the term "someone's coming" is not misinterpreted.
- age 16, New York
They could help most by leaving me alone.
- age 30, California (female)
I would have them get me a glass of warm water and spill it onto my body!
- age 15, Puerto Rico
I think most guys would say they'd have their girlfriend strip or dance — but for me, the greatest thing is just to have her lie next to me and nibble my ear. No, it's not the kinkiest thing in the world, but masturbating and having a girl whisper things to you does make it a lot more exciting.
- age 20, Connecticut
If it were a girl, I'd have her kiss my face or rub my chest smoothly and slowly. If it were a guy, I'd have him read me a sexual story — graphically and in an arousing tone.
- age 14, Florida
I would want two people — one girl and one guy. The girl and I could make out while the guy massages my body. It would be hot!
- age 18, Colorado
Oh, it would probably be my back — someone rubbing my back with nice warm hands, or even better, oil. A nice back massage while I masturbate would be perfect.
- age 14, California
I would have the person snuggle close to me, possibly massage my chest with one hand (the other behind my head), while that person's head is resting on my shoulder. Generally, I hope for a warm and loving experience. Currently, that is actually only a fantasy. I still don't think I could masturbate alongside anyone else.
- age 18, New York
I wouldn't mind someone not having any contact with my pelvic region at all; I'm the specialist on that area. Personally, I'd love someone to give my neck and ears a lot of attention. A little bit of nibbling goes a long way for me.
- age 15, Oregon (female)
I love a soft, sensual touch. I'd want to have my back gently rubbed with one finger all the way down until I flinched in pleasure — a kind of erotic tickle that makes you arch your back and spasm, hoping for more of the same feeling. Then at the same time, I'd want the girl to lightly blow on my neck and whisper something sexy in my ear. A tease is so hot and so desirable.
- age 17, California
I'd have someone lick my knees; I have a fetish for knees. It would also have to be a guy; I don't think a woman could ever do it properly. It would be really hot to have a guy licking my knees while I masturbated.
- age 14, Scotland
I'd have someone touch and kiss my breasts. That excites me highly. Also, I would have my husband masturbate with me. That's something we've never done together. That also would be very exciting.
- age 40, New York (female)
I would have the person continuously show me pornography videos and pictures off the Internet. That would make the session *much* better.
- age 15, Canada
I would have them watch me in silence and disgust, then batter me with terrible insults about what a pig I am to commit such a horrid act in front of them. It might also be nice to get a backrub, or squeeze their hand hard once my pace became frantic.
- age 18, New York
First, I would get the person to undress me — slowly — until I'm totally naked. Then he or she would undress slowly, so I would get an erection. Next, they would get massage oil and rub it all over me. Then I would have them give me a massage all over and just an occasional lick here or there. It would be totally sensual. They would caress my backside and inner thighs, then my chest. I would start masturbating slowly while I was still being massaged, and then I'd get faster and faster until orgasm. After the orgasm, I would get a final rubdown and massage.
- age 15, Australia
Even though I am a straight male, I would like to have a male put his erect penis against my ears and have a female put her chest in my face while I masturbate. For some reason, I like to think of a giant penis when I masturbate. Something about it just turns me on.
- age 17, Texas
Just having someone else in the room to watch me would make the session more intense. As for what I'd have them do, I'd have them massage my head — nice and relaxing.
- age 20, United Kingdom
I'm a lesbian, so it would have to be another girl, and she would have to be my age...maybe a girlfriend. I would give her oral sex, only I would be on my back and she would straddle me with her pelvic region above my mouth — that would do the trick!
- age 14, Virginia (female)
It would be a girl with me, and she would kiss me passionately. I would climax quickly, as I get *extremely* turned on by heavy petting.
- age 21, United Kingdom
I would have someone suck on my tongue. That turns me on so much!
- age 14, Massachusetts (female)
I'd have the person just talk to me tell me how nice I look.
- age 39, Ohio
If it were a girl, I would have her give me a passionate French kiss, and dart her tongue in and out of my ear.
- age 17, Wisconsin
I find deep kissing highly erotic. I have masturbated a few times while kissing a girl — a very good female friend of mine who also masturbates while I do. It's fantastic.
- age 19, United Kingdom
I would have my "partner" tickle my feet. Though it sounds funny, I find that when my feet are involved while I masturbate, the sensation is 10 times greater and more pleasurable.
- age 15, New Hampshire
I'm not sure what sex I would have help me, but I do know it would be extremely erotic to have someone spread my legs apart and blow on my penis — especially the head. It would also be great if they would get completely naked and masturbate in front of me. It would be even better if it were a guy. I'm not gay or bi; I just think it would be a huge turn-on.
- age 18, Kentucky
I would definitely have someone masturbate with me. Both of us masturbating at the same time would be so hot, I wouldn't last very long. But of course, it would be worth it!
- age 16, Tennessee
I've never had a back massage while masturbating, but it seems like it could be quite relaxing.
- age 21, New York
Having someone rub my breasts would be nice — but I have always loved getting a backrub while I touch myself. It may sound weird, but lying on my stomach, with a vibrator positioned under me hitting my clitoris, and having my boyfriend rub my back, butt, and thighs has given me a couple of really incredible orgasms.
- age 14, Colorado (female)
I'd have someone drive the car for me!
- age 16, Maine