I think I have a masturbation fetish – I love to watch men touch themselves. Every aspect of male masturbation is sexy to me: the speed and rhythm of the movements, the muscle tension, the way he arches his back, closes his eyes, flexes his legs, and throws his head back... And I love the sounds men make – the groans of agonized pleasure and the ecstatically nonsensical mumblings. I love the intense facial expressions. Playing with each other is always fun, but I very much prefer to watch a man bring himself to orgasm. Most of my fantasies involve men masturbating, whether it's memories of old boyfriends or descriptions I've read from JackinWorld. I offer my sincere gratitude for all the wonderful fantasy material I've read here over the years. Guys, keep those responses coming (ha-ha)!
- age 22, Tennessee (female)
This Week's Wackiest Response:
The Mona Lisa with blonde hair would turn me on!
- age 14, Iowa
Quite simple – a group of men and women would be enjoying a shower together in a large shower room with no stalls and showerheads on every wall. People could sit on stools and be scrubbed or bathed by another person in full view of all. I think this is a very "clean" post!
- age 62, Oregon
I'd like to see all the JackinWorld readers naked in the same room and masturbating!
- age 24, Massachusetts
Though I do not consider myself gay, watching other men masturbate is a big turn-on. Seeing other guys doing what they love and feeling good excites me.
- age 15, Florida
A woman's nipples! My heart starts to race whenever I see nipples, especially when a woman wearing an open shirt and a loose-fitting bra – or none at all – bends over in my direction. It's especially nice to observe the erect ones protruding through any kind of clothing, such as wet shirts or thin bras. They don't even have to be real; those in erotic art are quite nice, too.
- age 32, New Jersey
If I saw lesbians doing what they do best with each other, right in front of me, and including me in it every now and then, that would be a huge turn-on for me – along with seeing everyone naked all the time.
- age 15, Maine
Seeing a woman have an orgasm...
- age 38, Wisconsin
I would have to say hentai of any shape. For those who don't know what it is, hentai is anime "porn." Yeah!
- age 13, North Carolina
There is no question in my mind what an extreme turn-on would be for me: I once asked a female friend of mine if she would masturbate for me. She did – getting to the brink of an orgasm and keeping herself there for what I believe was five minutes. When she climaxed, she arched her back and let out a scream of ecstasy. Her entire body shook. At the same time, with just a few strokes, I exploded with one of the best orgasms that I had ever had. To this day, I still get turned on and masturbate thinking about it. That was over 30 years ago.
- age 58, Ohio
I have never had the joy of mutual masturbation with any of my male friends. Every one of them is obsessed with the idea that it's "gay," but I think it's just something that all men should experience. That would be a big turn-on for me – to masturbate with a good friend.
- age 18, California
Two extreme visual images prompt and intensify my masturbatory sessions: (1) viewing vaginal intercourse in the missionary, man-on-top position, or from a rear-entry position (and from a variety of angles); (2) viewing fellatio performed by a woman, with a clear view of her mouth and his penis.
- age 59, Pennsylvania
Inflatable things really turn me on. I don't know exactly why. Seeing things expand quickly seems so very similar to getting an erection, which just so happens to happen to me next!
- age 15, Missouri
Watching a locker room full of college-age baseball players undress and shower after a game would probably do it for me. There would have to be lots of trash talking, horseplay, naked shenanigans, and towel snapping involved.
- age 21, Texas
Extreme? I would love to see the cheer squad at my high school (four girls and three guys) do their entire routine naked. I used to have a mild crush on one of the guys after seeing him naked in the locker room following a basketball game (he's gay and I'm bi). One of the girls used to be my girlfriend and I've seen her naked a few times. Seeing girls doing naked splits and the guys lifting them up would be hella kewl!
- age 17, Tennessee
When I first encountered online pornography, most of the photos held no interest for me. Later, I discovered photos of men and women masturbating – usually alone. I was particularly intrigued by the different ways men would handle themselves, so those photographs became somewhat of a turn-on. Now, however, I have a real-life masturbation pal. Watching how he pleasures himself by changing hands and stroking techniques is both educational and highly arousing. I enjoy watching his facial expressions and muscular tension just before and during his orgasm. Seeing his pearly semen boil from his turgid penis is particularly arousing. I am seated comfortably in front of him and stroking my swollen penis, so he provided the perfect stimulation for my own satisfying orgasm and massive ejaculation.
- age 62, Michigan
I'd like to see a girl dressed up in a black tank top and jeans let down her hair and get comfy on the couch, as she waits for me to get in next to her.
- age 17, Pennsylvania
It would be a real turn-on to see two men who are in love with each other have sex and explore their bodies to the fullest extent, without being just raunchy. Seeing them really care about pleasing each other romantically would be really hot – especially if they were men with nice bodies and dark hair – Latino men such as Enrique Iglesias.
- age 21, Indiana
An extreme visual turn-on for me would be nice shaved legs and nice breasts. When my girlfriend lets me caress her legs and breasts, I get extremely turned on (and she *does* have nice legs and breasts, mind you). What can I say? It's a fetish and I love it!
- age 15, Illinois
I love to watch other people play around sexually and have sex. This includes watching others masturbate alone or with a partner or group. These all could be in a movie, photos, or live. I guess the next turn-on for me, besides visual, would be audio. I love to hear the moaning and climaxing sounds along with the visual stimulation.
- age 51, Colorado
I'd love to see the look on a male friend's face as he approaches orgasm while stroking away furiously, his actual ejaculation, and then his calming down from the intensity of the orgasm. I have videotaped myself masturbating since I was 14, and the looks on my face get me every time.
- age 17, Kentucky
For me, it would be to have two or more men masturbating each other over me and covering me with their semen. They would have to be men I know, not strangers; and I would have to find them physically attractive.
- age 56, United Kingdom (female)
Once I watched my best friend's penis as he in turn watched me take all my clothes off. When I took off my underpants, his penis suddenly went from a very shriveled state of only an inch or so in length, to a spectacular, fully erect state of five inches or more. All of this happened in only a few seconds, and it was an extreme turn-on for me to know that just the sight of my genitals and pubic hair caused his penis to become erect. Naturally, I also got an erection, and although we were both desperately trying to hold back, both of us started ejaculating in front of each other without even touching our penises. This experience has led to a very special relationship between the two of us.
- age 16, Spain
Female feet are the biggest visual turn-on for me, especially in some specific kinds of footwear, such as flip-flops. In the past, I hardly ever saw them. But this year, these shoes are more in style. Thus, whenever I go downtown, shopping, or somewhere else among people, I see my most extreme turn-on all the time, in countless examples. I always return with the urgent need to relieve myself. My masturbation frequency has increased considerably.
- age 32, Germany
I'd like to see a female ninja leaning naked against an electric guitar. She has to have a mask on and nothing else – but then, that's just me. (The color of the guitar doesn't matter.)
- age 14, California
It's not "would be," but "was" in my case – I watched my partner and me on videotape. It happened several years ago when my roommate had gone out of town for a long weekend, and my guy and I borrowed a camcorder. I don't know which was more enjoyable and exciting – doing everything and knowing that it was being recorded, or watching ourselves later. Maybe it didn't matter, because the entire experience excited both of us incredibly. Of course, we recorded over the tape when the weekend was over. Interestingly, even though my current guy has a graduate degree in TV, has bunches of equipment, and could do a much better job of recording our sexual activity, we have never discussed doing it.
- age 26, Florida (female)
A full-body female nude – it can't be just zoomed in on the genitals; it needs context.
- age 16, Colorado
When I watch porn, if a miracle could make the action suddenly come true – a little like in Woody Allen's "Purple Rose of Cairo," where it is possible to enter into the film – that would be an extreme turn-on.
- age 39, Belgium
Seeing my best friend masturbate.
- age 17, Illinois
Watching a woman masturbate, live and in person.
- age 41, Ohio
A nudist beach.
- age 18, Mexico
I am most turned on by watching my boyfriend masturbate and play with his nipples while kneeling in front of me as I do the same.
- age 24, Alabama (female)
Two older people making love in an exotic position. I have no idea why, but older people doing anything sexual turns me on.
- age 16, Minnesota
Experiencing another man masturbate, without him knowing I am watching, has to be the most extreme sexual turn-on I could imagine. A friend of mine once told me he saw a guy masturbating in his room in a frat house near campus. This was an unbelievable turn-on for me. However, I never got the opportunity to see this myself.
- age 41, Ohio
Just being with my guy friends swimming naked in broad daylight is enough to get me going. That provides me with even greater thoughts, and I always like to see how I compare to them. To me, nothing is better than seeing your friends naked, you can think of all the things you could do with them – if you weren't so shy.
- age 16, Texas
I'd love to see my boyfriend as he goes down on me so I can see just what he does that drives me crazy.
- age 18, Michigan (female)
My favorite visual turn-on is what I consider to be the most beautiful scene available: seeing another man's erect penis and ejaculation. Although heterosexual (I think), I am highly attracted to men's wondrous genitals. I think most men enjoy seeing other men's privates. Another extreme visual turn-on would be to help another man reach orgasm using my own hands or body.
- age 47, Arizona
Seeing myself masturbate for the first time when I was 11.
- age 19, Canada
The extreme visual turn-on for me would be to see a muscle-ripped guy, smoking a cigar, having sex with two girls. The girls take turns giving him oral sex. The background is a shower room with steam everywhere.
- age 15, Alabama
A man masturbating or engaging in any other type of self-pleasure (such as before sex, touching himself during foreplay) is over-the-top sexy to me. My fantasies about it include whatever cute guy I happen to be around leaning on pillows against a headboard, slightly sweaty, masturbating himself – head back with eyes closed. It's such an extreme visual turn-on for me that if a guy is too intimidated to touch himself in front of me, I find him sexually boring.
- age 28, Arizona (female)
Women's shaved underarms have always turned me on. Don't ask why; they just get me aroused. I love them freshly shaven, or even with a day or two of stubble. So, I guess the sight of a lovely lady with her arms over her head exposing those spectacular shaved pits would turn me on extremely!
- age 36, Connecticut
A big turn-on would be to watch someone masturbate while they are watching me masturbate, while I'm watching them masturbate.
- age 15, Virginia (female)
The gym is a feast for the eyes. Watching another guy use his last ounce of energy to finish a tough bench press or bicep curl really turns me on. However, the most extreme has to be in the steam room. It's a huge turn-on to go into a steam room and catch another guy off-guard and stroking himself – or even just to sit in there and look over at another guy, watching the steam and sweat pool in droplets on his chest and abdomen.
- age 33, New Zealand
Watching other guys masturbate in porno flicks has always turned me on and watching a masturbation bud perform live is truly inspiring. Still, I would like to see a guy perform oral sex on himself. It turns me on to think about doing that because, like most of us, I can't. To watch a guy bring himself to orgasm in his own mouth would be the ultimate to me.
- age 57, Ohio
A girl in a light summer dress, walking barefoot across a park, with the wind blowing it around her thighs.
- age 18, Canada
My penis is an average size, but I have always been fascinated with very large penises. So for me, an extreme visual turn-on would be to observe a woman as she unzips a man's pants and takes out his huge penis. I'd love to see the reaction on her face, hear what she says about it, and see how it looks in her hand and in her mouth.
- age 38, Oregon
Watching my man's face when I get myself off in front of him...
- age 24, Wisconsin (female)
Watching from the back as a woman walks down the street in a light-colored nylon type of dress – in high heels and no panties – so that you can see as she moves exactly where her crack is, with each cheek rising and falling.
- age 62, Kansas
This may sound a bit odd or simplistic, but I find kissing extremely erotic – whether it is a boy and a girl, two girls, or two boys – a passionate kiss drives me wild!
- age 17, Canada
Strange, but true – voluptuous women turn me on! Not grossly obese, mind you, but full-figured and well-endowed artistic nudes and soft-core porn really get me horny and are my favorite images for masturbating.
- age 26, Vermont