A lot of readers didn't answer this Question properly, writing about their favorite made-up fantasy as opposed to an event that actually happened to them.]
I guess it would have to be the first time I saw a woman naked. My friend and I were peering in on a girl we knew – she was 17 at the time (we were 12 then). Her brother had told us she was taking a shower. So we got excited and climbed over their fence. We looked in the kitchen window to see her and BAM! There she was walking around naked. We saw everything, and it really turned me on. The only bad thing is her sister saw us and got really angry. She threatened to call the police. Luckily she didn't, so I guess we got very lucky.
- age 15, California
A few years ago I went to a legitimate massage parlor for a massage and a bath. When we finished, I was still completely naked and started to get an erection as she was toweling me dry. She told me that for a few extra bucks she could help me with that if I would like. I readily agreed, so she squirted baby oil onto my penis and proceeded to give me the best session I have ever had. It lasted at least 30 minutes. I was able to fondle her in all the right places. It was a mind-blowing orgasm. Even after all this time I still fantasize about being on that table.
- age 36, Texas
Last year during PE I walked into the locker room during the middle of class because I had to use the rest room. I saw one of my good friends sprawled out on a bench masturbating like crazy. I just said, "Oh God – sorry dude!" and walked out. When I realized what I had seen, I just smiled and went to a different bathroom and took care of a little business myself. I always wonder what it would have been like if I had "offered to help" and he had said yes. We always look at each other funny in the locker room now.
- age 15, Oregon
I think it would be the first time I ever masturbated for a girl. We were both 16. I was so turned on lying on the bed next to her. Eventually we were both naked and she let me ejaculate onto her breasts. It was very stimulating. Since then, I have loved to be watched while I masturbate.
- age 28, Connecticut
When I was 6 or 7 years old I had a girlfriend. She and I used to *try* to have intercourse, though we didn't know what we were doing then. She would masturbate me, I would masturbate her, and we would kiss. That is the single most arousing thing I ever think of when masturbating
- age 14, Florida
When I was 13 I had a friend who hit on me a lot. I didn't realize it then, but he was definitely attracted to me. He used every opportunity to be nude with me and often had erections. I was a bit naive and was sure I was the only gay boy around, so I missed every clue. One of the last times I spent the night at his house before he moved away, we ended up wrestling in our underwear, and I realized two weeks later he was trying to get me to respond to him. He probably figured I was straight after that, and I really wish he could have been my first time.
- age 28, Oregon
In the marching band was the most beautiful girl I'd ever seen. Of course, I didn't think I had any chance with her whatsoever, because one of her close friends was my current girlfriend. It turned out they had a fight, and to get back at my girlfriend, she gave me the best oral sex I'd ever had. Even now, it's the best I have ever had. I often masturbate thinking of this event.
- age 15, Texas
Watching someone I didn't know masturbate at a porno shop in the booth next to me. The anonymity was such a turn-on. I really enjoy masturbating in a semi-public place.
- age 25, Oklahoma
It was at a college camp 3 years ago – I went into the wrong showers and walked in on a girl. She was soaping herself everywhere, and I was watching. Ever since then, I just visualize the rubbing she was doing.
- age 17, Ohio
I often think about the night in 1979 when my best friend spent the night at my house. We began playing "truth or dare" and eventually we worked up to taking our clothes off. He taught me how to masturbate. Besides learning a new skill that night, I felt that the experience really cemented our friendship. Unfortunately, I moved far away a year later and we lost contact. Thanks to e-mail, we have been able to regain contact, but I've not yet mentioned that great night.
- age 32, Ohio
My friend and I are both straight. One day at my house when we were in the hot tub, I just reached down and started to play with his penis. He is 3 1/2 years older then I am, and his penis is huge. For about a year we were lovers. We both had girlfriends at the time and we still do. We don't really do it anymore because he moved across town. So when I masturbate I think of his penis.
- age 15, California
When I was younger, I used to sleep at my girlfriend's place in her bed with her. Her best friend used to sleep over as well (she would sleep beside us in a pull out chair). One night I was only half-asleep when I felt her friend's hand on my thigh, moving slowly up to my crotch, and then under my track pants to play with my penis. I reached over and started to masturbate her as well. This continued for weeks, each of us giving the other an orgasm, while my girlfriend slept on. We finally ended up having sex, and it was great! My girlfriend never found out. To this day, when I masturbate, the one thing guaranteed to make me climax is to think about those times.
- age 21, Ontario, Canada
Seriously, I'm not gay, but the thing I fantasize about most is when a friend and I did some nasty things together. We were 16 at the time, didn't have girlfriends, and our hormones were playing games with us. One day he brought a porno tape with him. It was a mixture of straight, lesbian, and gay scenes. I had never seen a real porno movie and was getting really hot. So was my friend. One thing led to another, and we started masturbating in front of each other. Then we masturbated each other and also did some oral sex. It was fun, but it stayed with that one time, although we have watched each other masturbate since then. We're both still virgins and so from time to time we rent a tape together and have masturbation contests.
- age 18, Belgium
About 3 years ago, my buddy and I disagreed on something and somehow got into a wrestling bout. We were both fully clothed, but as we got into some serious wrestling, clothes started to bunch, tear, and rip, and slowly shed. Before we knew it, we were both practically naked, and both getting aroused. Hands touched genitals first accidentally, and soon, intentionally. Suddenly we stopped and started to masturbate ourselves and then each other. We ejaculated and both lay there with our semen all over our stomachs. I found this to be such a turn-on, and I still masturbate to that scene constantly.
- age 32, California
I think about the first time I had sex with a girl. I was 15 and she was 13. It was the most incredible experience! I was with her for nine years. Last year we broke up, and I haven't had another relationship since. Of all the things we've ever done sexually (believe me, we've tried it all), our first time is the thing I'll never forget. We were both virgins, and the act was really tender – a bit clumsy, but very intense. She'll always have a special place in my heart.
- age 24, Belgium
I fantasize about the time when my girlfriend and I both got naked and masturbated each other. I ejaculated right onto her stomach. What an awesome feeling!
- age 17, The Netherlands
This is a hard question for me, because I really have 2 things I fantasize about. The first was a series of experiences over the summer when I was 13. My best childhood bud and I spent half the summer nights in his camper in the back yard. We skinny dipped in the pool, explored masturbation, and ran naked through the woods nearby. Next is when I was 17, my best high school buddy and I had a long afternoon of watching a porno tape. We both were very turned on and played the whole "bet mine is bigger" argument and decided the loser would give the bigger one oral sex. It turned out that my penis was longer and his was thicker, so we did each other – only fair, right? Both situations have been a great source of masturbation mental fuel for me.
- age 27, Illinois
I hope you don't think this is gross, but one time I came home early from school and saw my dad on his bed masturbating. Now I understand that all guys do it, but to see my dad going at it was unreal. I found myself getting horny – not for my dad, but at seeing another guy masturbating. When I'm lying on my bed and I think of seeing him doing it, I get an erection and have to pleasure myself.
- age 15, Massachusetts
"I had a clear moment of astonishment that
I was actually about to ejaculate in front of her."
It occurred when I was in 11th grade. It was the first time I ever had an orgasm with a girl. I was with my first real girlfriend, and we were making out one evening in the front seat of my 1970 Dodge Dart. I had my penis out and was straddling her. Her blouse and bra were undone, and I was sliding my penis in between her petite breasts. There are a couple of things I remember most about this, and what I think about now when I masturbate. First was the color contrast between her very pale skin and strawberry pink nipples, and the deep red and purple of my erect penis. Second, was that moment when I reached the plateau before I began to ejaculate. During that second or two, I had a clear moment of astonishment that I was actually about to ejaculate in front of her. Finally, after my orgasm, I saw my girlfriend – a virgin and a very "nice" girl – massaging my semen all over her chest and breasts.
- age 35, California
I met 2 women in a bar, and they innocently asked me to dance. I saw them start touching, while looking at me. Eventually they asked if I would like a drink and showed me a bottle. We went to the big bathroom stall to have a drink. They started kissing and turned and asked, "Does this bother you? We like to do it in front of people." I proceeded to watch.
- age 21, France (female)
One time when I was about 10, I had just finished a good swim at the public pool and headed to the changing room. I remember this one college guy in the changing room. He had a typical-boy-next-door look, but with a healthy average build. I kept thinking to myself, "I wanna look like that when I grow up." Young guys in the changing room would usually change with a towel around their waist, but this guy just pulled off his swimming trunks and I almost fell off my bench! We were learning about puberty in school and I knew what it was supposed to look like later on, but this was first-hand observation right there. I'm a straight guy, but for some reason I was incredibly turned on by that whole experience: observing how hairy his crotch was, how long his penis was, and how he didn't care about being naked in front of his friends.
- age 24, Canada
I most often use total fantasy when I masturbate, but it usually revolves around the times I have seen my friends naked, like in showers or changing. Something about catching cool views like that just turns me on beyond belief!
- age 18, Saskatchewan, Canada
When I was 33 I met a woman who was going through some marital difficulties. After lunch at my place one day, we started fooling around. When I moved my hand to her crotch she said, "My husband never touches me there." I told her that he was a fool and then moved to put my mouth there. She went into orbit, ripped my pants off and returned the favor. I couldn't keep track of how many orgasms she had – I know mine was spectacular, and she swallowed. She then told me it was the first time a man had ejaculated into her mouth. I fantasize about that time often.
- age 53, Washington
At first, my girlfriend would not give me oral sex because she thought my penis looked funny. I am not circumcised. So we talked about it and I let her wash me. I had the best orgasm ever, and I often think about this during my best masturbation times.
- age 15, Ohio
I have the fondest memories of when I was 9 and my 11-year-old cousin from Tulsa came to visit. He was somewhat precocious, in that he was very advanced in his sexual development at that age, sporting an adult penis and the ability to ejaculate. He was enthusiastic about showing me how it worked, and I was equally enthusiastic in my desire to participate and learn. The sight of his huge erection, of him dropping well-placed wads of spit for lubricant, and the forceful ejaculation that soon followed all became embedded in my mental image of what a joyful occasion it was. It was the one I envisioned every time I masturbated thereafter, hoping for the moment when I, too, would ejaculate. It finally happened when I turned 11.
- age 51, Oklahoma
My husband and I once made love on a picnic table by the lake.
- age 35, Pennsylvania (female)
Whenever I masturbate, I think about the time that I accidentally walked into the girls' locker room after track practice and saw 7 or 8 naked teenage girls taking showers. They had great bodies, and I got the biggest erection from it. Since then I have had sex with 4 of them and dated 2 others.
- age 17, Oregon
When I was 16 I had a good friend who was 14. One day we went down to the clubhouse pool in our gated community and went into the steam room. My friend jokingly said we should strip like the old men do. I dared him to do it, which he did. Then I had no choice but to do so, too. I had never seen him totally naked, and I was quite surprised by the size of his penis. He saw me looking and asked if I wanted to touch it. As I reached over, he took hold of mine and we masturbated each other for a little while. He then showed me other things his older brother had taught him. We moved 6 months later and I haven't seen him for 18 years, but I still remember that first time when I masturbate.
- age 37, California
When I gave a guy an erection in science class by licking a lollipop. He had to excuse himself to the bathroom. It was hilarious and damned arousing!
- age 14, Tennessee (female)
I happened to look into my friend's living room as I walked by from the guest room, and I saw her teenage daughter lying on her stomach with her left hand under her at crotch level. I could see the twitching of her legs increase, hear her breathing get more and more ragged, and finally watched her whole body convulse several times as she reached orgasm. The look of sheer pleasure on her face was incredible to behold. When I spoke to her later, I never let on that I saw anything.
- age 51, Canada
I saw my brother, who is a few years older than I am, having sex with his girlfriend when they were supposed to be babysitting me. Ever since then, I have thought about this whenever I masturbate.
- age 14, United Kingdom
I once masturbated on the hood of my truck late at night out on a country road. It was summer, I was completely naked, and there was a light, warm rain falling. It was an awesome experience and a very intense orgasm. I think about that particular time a lot.
- age 36, Texas
Although I've never been with a girl before, I often dream about a girl giving me oral sex, or even just kissing me – playing with me! It gets me every time!
- age 16, Wisconsin (female)
This is going to sound strange, but I frequently fantasize about the one time my mom caught me masturbating. My bedroom door hadn't closed all the way when I shut it, so she just walked in. I heard a noise when she came in, but I had my eyes closed. When I opened my eyes I was shocked to see my Mom standing in the doorway. There was little I could do to hide what was happening. She quickly left the room. We barely talked the rest of the day, and we've never really talked about what happened that day. However, for some reason I now find the whole series of events very exciting, and quite frequently I fantasize about her watching me masturbate.
- age 21, Wisconsin
I was on a class trip and looked behind me on the bus. Lo and behold, the boy sitting there had baggy shorts on, and I had a plain view of his penis. That really turned me on, because it seemed so forbidden. Moments like those make fantasies.
- age 15, Rhode Island
When I was 16, my good friend's sister called me out of the blue and asked, "Are you in the mood for sex?" My answer was readily affirmative. So I went over an hour, later and she gave me what remains highly memorable oral sex. It was the first time I ejaculated in a girl's mouth. A while later her mother knocked on her door and found me naked in the closet, but that's *not* the part I still fantasize about. What amazes me is that I still remember that evening so clearly despite all the years since. The whole story is always good for a few laughs at a party, too.
- age 34, California
I think about the time I saw the lady across the road from my bedroom window masturbating. She still does it now, and I join in from my window.
- age 14, Germany
Mostly I fantasize about my first sexual encounter with a boy back in junior high. That is the most incredible sex event in my entire life.
- age 22, Sweden
I usually think about the time my brother (who is one year older than I am) caught me naked on my bed masturbating, when he wanted to borrow some shaving cream. He said, "Hey, I do it too! Get out some lube and I'll show you a few ways!" He lubed me up and started rubbing my penis. We masturbated for about 30 minutes, completely naked. Every once in a while we still compare our stage of puberty and masturbate together. I hope everyone can have a brother like him.
- age 15, Kentucky
About 5 years ago I met a woman at a store. We were attracted to each other from the start, and we soon ended up at my house making love. She is by far the most incredible-looking blonde I have ever been with: She was 22, with a very athletic body, large, firm breasts, and was shaved smooth all over (my first!). We must have done it in every room, and on almost all of the furniture, including the kitchen table. When we were nearing completion, she wanted me to masturbate and ejaculate on her face and chest. When I finished, she massaged my semen onto her breasts and vagina. This has fueled many masturbation fantasies since.
- age 37, California