I was never told about masturbation as a child. My parents do not openly talk about such things, and I had no siblings to explain it to me. I guess I discovered masturbation at quite an early age, although at the time I didn't know what it was. I have memories of being 6 or 7 and playing with my penis under the sheets while the babysitter was downstairs. I didn't know what I was doing; all I knew was that it felt good. It didn't develop into anything more than just playing — until I reached age 12 and a friend introduced me into the world of masturbation.
I was at a sleepover at my best friend's house. It was quite late and we were sitting in our boxers, flicking through the TV channels, when we came across a sex scene. To my shock, my friend quickly became visibly erect. The scene didn't last long, and afterwards he asked if I wanted to see some of the "porn" he had found in his brother's bedroom. I quickly agreed (who wouldn't?), and he crept off and returned with a pair of Playboy magazines. We both sat there looking through them, and I, too, got an erection. I caught my friend trying to get a glimpse of it over his magazine, and then moments later he asked if I wanted to compare. I had no problem doing so and agreed. We stood up, dropped our boxers to our ankles, and looked at each other. This was the first time I had seen another penis besides my own. His was slightly bigger than mine and quite a bit straighter.
After what seemed like an hour (but was only a few minutes) he asked if I wanted to masturbate. My confusion must have been obvious in my face, because he then asked, with quite a shocked look, "Don't you know how to masturbate?" I simply shook my head. He proceeded to demonstrate. He gripped his hand around his penis and stroked up and down. I looked on as he started to get quicker and quicker and then finally had a dry orgasm. It was my turn. I started skeptically, but I quickly found out what was great about masturbation, and I had my first orgasm. From that day on, masturbation became a routine of any sleepover my friend and I had. We tried out new techniques and shared with each other what we learned.
Puberty came without warning when I was 13. I knew what to expect, but I wasn't expecting it so early. In the changing rooms the guys would joke about the large about of hair I had on my genitals. I didn't care, though; I saw the way they looked at me, and I knew they were jealous. Hair, however, was not the only change I was experiencing. My penis seemed to have grown overnight and was much larger then most of the other guys'. Word got around, and the girls started looking at me differently as I walked down the corridor. I enjoyed the attention. I was "living large."
While I continued to masturbate on my own and with my friend quite regularly at that age, I didn't have any sexual encounters with girls until I was 14. I was at a party and things quickly turned to a game of truth and dare. One girl chose "dare," and the others whispered the dare in her ear (when we played, the dare was kept secret until it was done). She got up, walked over, and then pulled me into the bathroom. It was my lucky day — I had fancied her for a while. She was smiling and could barely look at me as she explained the dare. She had to see if the rumors about me were true. Was I really living large? She unzipped me and pulled it out. I was immediately hard. She looked up at me and said, "So they are true then." All I could do was smile.
Not long after that night, we were going out, and 4 weeks later I had sexual intercourse for the first time. And 3 years later, we are still together. Sex reduced the amount of masturbation in my life but could never take its place. I masturbate 4 or 5 times a week and still enjoy the method I first learned. I'm still living large at over 8" but no longer enjoy those mutual sessions I had when I was younger. There are many other parts of my masturbation story that I have not included, but maybe another time.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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Truth or dare
Gender:
Male