I have been masturbating since I was a young kid. My method of choice was then (and still is) lying flat on the floor or bed and moving my body up and down. As it says on JackinWorld, this provides an sensation similar to intercourse (though I've never experienced it) — especially for uncircumcised males like me.
When I was young, I never even put a label on what I would do for pleasure. As I grew older, I began to realize exactly what it was that I was doing. Approaching those awkward puberty years, I began to develop an intense curiosity of a friend's development and masturbation habits. I also learned of using your hand to masturbate, and I tried it several times — with rather poor results.
One day I was at a friend's house and we started talking about masturbation. He proceeded to ask me if I masturbated. I said no, but he promptly admitted it.
A few weeks later he was at my house and we were playing the middle-school game of "Truth or Dare" and he asked me again. This time I admitted it. We continued the game, and I dared to ask him to masturbate with me in the room. He agreed, but only if I did. The game was postponed while we dropped our pants and masturbated using our hands. We both pretended not to be looking, but we took some peeks. He then asked if we could masturbate each other. I agreed and found it to be fun to sit back and relax and let someone else do the work. I was, for some reason, unable to ejaculate, which was somewhat embarrassing.
By this time I had an intense urge to learn more, so I typed "masturbation" into a search engine and found JackinWorld. I promptly printed out the entire technique sections and experimented with all of the techniques. I still found my original method to work best, though. In fact, I am often unable to ejaculate with any other method.
I've masturbated with many more of my friends — some in full view, others not. However, this habit has died down some as we have entered high school. I have a friend who for the longest time would not masturbate for personal reasons. He was incredibly horny, and other friends and I would suggest he try masturbating. He finally did recently and is now hooked. He now finds JackinWorld an invaluable resource for tips.
One thing I enjoy to this day has been gently rubbing the tip of my penis while working at the computer. I also include my foreskin in these sessions. Even without any visuals, this is a great way to add some excitement while doing schoolwork or research.
I've never felt guilty about masturbating. My religion has never mentioned it in Sunday School or Youth Group, though we've talked about similar topics, so I assumed the view is neutral. I think that in this day and age most people just accept that boys will be boys (and more and more girls will be girls!). I've been walked in on a few times — but all when I was rubbing against the floor, so it just looked like I was lying on my stomach. I still wonder if my parents knew what was going on.
Now that I have a girlfriend, the urge to masturbate has increased dramatically. I often manage to achieve orgasm 5 or more times per day. I also have talked to her about masturbation and discovered she masturbates — especially during her period to help relieve cramps.
I'm proud to say I've masturbated on almost every vacation I've been on — camps, camping, cities, and even Canada. It's always great to get back, though, and be able to freely masturbate in my own room.
As far as toys go, I've used condoms a few times with fairly good results. I've never really tried any other items mentioned, partially for fear of discovery. My choice lube is Vaseline Intensive Care — it doesn't stain, is plenty slick, and looks innocent to purchase.
I plan to continue masturbating for a long time. I love it and really feel it is a great thing for teens to do while they are undergoing all the pressures of puberty. I truly believe it has saved my virginity and probably many other people's — not to mention lives from STDs. I'm sure that as I go off to college and get married, I will be presented with more challenges — but also more exciting sessions. Keep masturbating!
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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Gender:
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