I was never very conscious of erections, and at first, they were a pain — a needless, useless wonder. I'd get one, and if I noticed, I'd tap it to try to rid of it. At sleepovers when I was very young, friends would ask what they were. I had no idea, and told them so. This continued until I was about 10, at which point I decided (or was told) that erections were something to be hidden and covered up. Ironically, it was this decision/command that piqued my curiosity.
I was sleeping over at a friend's place and we were talking in bed in dim light. I was wearing boxers, and as I got up to go to the bathroom, my penis slipped through the fly. I got it back in, hoped my friend hadn't seen it, and walked off. When I got back and lay down, my friend asked if I had done "that" on purpose. I acted as if I didn't know what he was talking about. It went back and forth for a good 5 minutes before he even said the word "penis." Soon enough, we had each of ours out and were looking at them and asking questions. When each of our penises got hard, we talked and learned that both of us got regular erections, and more questions were asked (how big? how often do you get one? etc.). A month later, at the next regular sleepover (my parents went to visit family for one weekend every month or two), it happened again. This occurred off and on for a number of years.
About a year later, one night on my own, I adjusted an erection just to get rid of it, but for the first time I noticed something. It felt good. I held it like a pencil, focused only on the head, and very slowly rubbed. Soon enough, I felt rumbling inside...then my body shook slightly, and I felt what I would later realize was my first orgasm. I repeated this for many nights. Once, curious as to how oral sex would feel, I used spit as a lubricant. This continued for a long while also.
The whole thing was so unknown to me that the next time I was at my friend's place to stay over, I worked up the nerve to ask about it. That was the first of another set of questions, from both of us. It turned out that he had recently discovered masturbation too, from a book, and explained it to me. This was where I learned the "fist" technique, although at the time I was too small to be able to enjoy it. We continued talking at the next sleepovers, and online between them. It became a regular topic.
About 6 months later, we both became so horny after talking at one sleepover that we began masturbating in our own beds under the covers. This became a regular occurrence at the sleepovers. Despite my being heterosexual, the idea of him masturbating was a definite turn-on and a source of great curiosity.
Soon enough, I was masturbating daily, especially when I had grown enough to use the "fist" technique. I started by doing it most often in the shower, for I slept on a top bunk and did not want to be found out. I used spit, shampoo, and different soaps to attain orgasm.
The regular sleepovers ended when I was about 16, as my parents felt safe leaving me at home alone. For our last regular sleepover, we each decided to make preparations of our own. I printed techniques from JackinWorld, and he provided "real" lube — Astroglide, to be exact. For the last time, we took off the covers and watched each other go at it.
Nowadays, I don't quite get to masturbate daily. But when I do, I usually use either pornography, JackinWorld, or sex chat with female friends to help fantasize, but I still like to take my time no matter what I'm using. When I really want to take it slow, I use the "Stop & Go" technique while lying completely naked in bed. Sometimes I last over an hour, but I do this very rarely.
Masturbation continues to be a huge part of my sex life also. I consider it a huge turn-on to watch a girl masturbate (somewhat surprisingly, they are fewer willing to do this than, say, give oral sex), and many of my female friends are very open about their own habits. I would much rather hear about a girl's last time masturbating than her last time having sex, no matter how interesting it may be.
And by the way, my friend and I are still in regular contact, even though the sleepovers ended about 4 years ago.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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Piqued curiosity
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