Masturbation has played an important role in my life for a long time. I can remember as far back as kindergarten, being curious of other people's bodies, including my friends' at school. In the bathroom, I would wonder if anyone else looked like me, and I even used to think I had something that other people didn't until I realized that my other male friends had the same body part as me. I continued this curiosity for a long time, and when I would take baths with other people, or even with my brother, I always asked questions.
In first grade I had a friend who was just as curious as myself, and we used to look at each other and try to decide what our penis was, and what we do with it besides use it to go to the bathroom. I had my first erection that I can remember was when I was in second grade. This was probably the scariest feeling I ever had — I thought I had some sort of a disease. I had a friend down the street who I used to pose questions to, and we used to tell each other stories and even compare our bodies and penises. As you can tell, I was a curious kid all throughout my childhood! We spent the next 4 years living by each other and secretly always going to his house, taking off our clothes, and comparing and then discussing what sex was. I did this with him and one other friend for a long time.
One of my most embarrassing stories: I got out of the pool one day at a friend's house, and while I was changing in his room, he walked in. I got embarrassed because I had an erection, but he said it was okay because it happens to him as well. He then started to change and he had an erection as well. That's when we made up a game where we'd set up little forts using our towels and pillows in our room, get completely naked, and get into our fort. We would each have one turn to throw a Nerf ball and try to knock down a piece of the opponent's fort. The first person whose fort got knocked down had to dance around naked or do something funny while wearing no clothes. This happened every time we got out of the pool. We called these "Naked Wars."
This continued until I moved, and this is when I had my first orgasm. It was in 6th grade; it was on a weekend, late at night, and I had 3 friends over. We were all flipping through channels when we happened to come across some "erotic material." One friend joked about our erections, and then the next morning when we were discussing it, a friend found an electric back massager in my closet and he started using it and eventually made it down to his pants. He did it as a joke but said it felt good. He continued to do it until he made this face and noise as we watched and said it felt really good. Of course I wasn't going to sit there and do nothing — I did the same and experienced the same feeling, later learning it was a "dry" orgasm. We all did this for weeks with our clothes on, until one night one friend decided he would go behind my bed, take off his pants, and do it. He then had a wet "dribble" orgasm. I again followed him, and this time I had a "wet" orgasm. It all was sort of a learning experience. We never did it in front of each other, but I remember talking about how much semen came out. Around this time in my life, I officially decided that sex and masturbation was the greatest subject in the world.
I went through middle school masturbating regularly and listening to my friends joke constantly about each other's penises. This is when girls first came into play for me. I learned how to kiss and learned through sex-ed about everyone's bodies. I was always afraid to take a shower in gym in front of other guys, thinking I would get an erection because I had always been so curious about my male friends. I made it through middle school without having to take a shower, but later I found out it was no big deal: One day, after being with some guy friends in a sauna, we changed and took showers. Can you guess what? No erection.
I never had a problem masturbating at home; I just always lock my door. I'm sure my mother knows what is going on, and my brother doesn't care. He does it, too. I have dated many girls through out high school, and I have had mutual masturbation with a girl, which let me say was the greatest experience ever. My only other mutual masturbation session during which I ejaculated was with my cousin. We masturbated each other. But even though that happened I have always wanted to masturbate with my friends.
Now that I will be going to college soon, I wonder what will happen with my sex life and my masturbating life. I have learned that safe sex is the best sex, but even then, I should probably wait until marriage. So far so good — I just don't go all the way when I'm with a girl. I hope I can someday have a family of my own and be able to explain to my son that it's okay to be curious about his sexuality and that masturbation is okay. If anything else, I will direct him to this Web site, because this is where I have learned the most — right here on JackinWorld!
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