I have been playing with my penis since I was a child. My mom told me not to put my hands in my pants, but she didn't tell me anything when I played with it during a bath or in my bed. My first embarrassing incident was at age 5. I stayed in a hotel with my grandmother, and I woke up with a strong erection. I grabbed it and just kept it in my right hand. Suddenly my grandmother started to get up and uncovered me, too, for a bit. She asked me what I was doing in my pajamas. I pulled out my hand and did not say anything. Fortunately she did not say anything more. There was another embarrassing event, when the family doctor came to visit me and my younger brother. She examined our foreskins to see if they were too tight. She pulled it back and left it this way, and I soon got an erection, just like my brother — in the presence of our parents. They muttered something and laughed.
I had a close girlfriend in our neighborhood. We played a lot together from our babyhood to about my 11th birthday. Our favorite game was the "doctor and the patient" — we discovered each other's body this way (I always had a strong erection when we played this game) but without any real sexual acts. Then this friendship ended. Once I played the game with my younger brother, too.
A year before my first orgasm, I went to a summer camp, where the first night my friend got pretty horny. We talked about our problem, that we had a pleasurable urge but could not satisfy it — we didn't know anything about masturbation yet, being only 10. Despite not knowing what to do, we started to play with ourselves, and soon we played with each other's penis. After about 15 minutes we got tired and went to sleep.
I reached my first orgasm a few months after my 11th birthday. In the previous months I had gotten horny more and more frequently. One Sunday night I lay on my stomach and put a pillow under my penis. It kept the foreskin back and made little pelvis movements, which stimulated my shaft. It was a good feeling, and after an hour, it reached a peak. Suddenly my penis got very sensitive, and I could not imagine what was about to happen. Some watery drops appeared at the head, so I thought I was urinating. I was surprised, but it didn't smell like urine, so I didn't care about it. I wanted to continue, but my horniness went away. After that, I started to read every book and article about the male body that I could find, so I learned that what had happened to me was normal.
For about two months I used only this technique (even today I find it quite pleasurable), but it required time and I was always scared of being interrupted, so I did it only at nighttime. However, I felt that I couldn't always wait until the late evening to masturbate, so I wanted to learn some new methods. I don't remember how, but I started to pull my foreskin up and down with 3 fingers, which eventually evolved into the "fist" method. These are the three methods I've enjoyed the most.
I was almost 14 when my mother, who teaches biology, told me that masturbation is absolutely normal and she wouldn't mind if I did it in my room or the bathroom. She also told me I did not have to feel guilty because of "wet dreams," and that she wouldn't laugh at the resulting stains. (I actually didn't have my first "wet dream" until age 21.) Then she explained when and how I should use condoms — later, before I went to a party, she would often ask me if I had condoms in my bag.
At age 14 I started going to high school. By that time my semen was white, and I had a little pubic hair, too. I masturbated 3 times a day: Once in the morning, so I would be as calm at school as possible; after school, so I would be calm to study and in the evening; and before going to bed, so I would sleep well. Despite this frequency, I was horny all day, but I wasn't able to reach more than 3 orgasms a day (I got sore if I tried for a 4th). In high school I made new friends. In the first couple of months we were shy, but later this disappeared and we started to talk about our penis size. Than we talked about porn magazines and traded them among ourselves. One day, when there was no school, my best friend and I borrowed a porn video. Watching it in my room, we soon got really erected. At first we were embarrassed a bit, but then my friend asked whether I'd mind if he pulled it out. I said no and joined in. We didn't touch each other but we examined the other's tool, size, and technique, and we talked about the things we like best in girls. His penis was a bit strange to me; it was 17.5 centimeters long (mine is 15), and it curved to the left a bit and also right under the head in a kind of S-shape, and he produced a lot of "pre-cum" (I am always dry). That day each of us reached two orgasms, one after the other. And I had an extra one after he went home.
After that, he and I often talked about masturbation and sexual experiences. Once we decided to visit the local swimming pool. We always changed clothes in the same room, and on that day, I got an erection and my friend suggested that I masturbate. I took his advice, and he joined in. A while after that, we realized that we were curious what it would feel like if somebody masturbated us. I asked him to help me, and I offered to do the same to him. The idea was so cool to me that I ejaculated a drop of semen just thinking about this possibility.
After a year, though, my friend and I stopped having mutual masturbation sessions. On the last occasion when we masturbated together, two of our friends joined us. The 4 of us were masturbating openly; my friend got very excited and asked me to masturbate him, and a I did so. But the next day in school, everybody knew about what had happened and were calling us homosexual. But we were not excluded from the crowd and remained popular. I continued masturbating 3 times a day, but only privately, although I went on speaking about sex openly with my friend. He did not care about what the others were saying about him, because he knew that he was straight.
I had my first mature heterosexual experience when I was 18. After graduating from high school, a female friend invited me to spend a few days with her. For a few weeks after that we frequently enjoyed masturbating together as well as having oral sex. Later, I got to know a girl with whom I managed to lose my virginity. I celebrated it with a bottle of champagne.
After these experiences I decided to improve my masturbation techniques. Soon I discovered that the shower can also stimulate my penis shaft. I experimented with anal stimulation, using my middle finger and so on. Later I discovered JackinWorld and all of its techniques. It was revolutionary for me to try them — lubrication, ejaculting my semen into my mouth so I could taste it, the "Foreskin Fun" methods. In fact, on that night I discovered JackinWorld, I was working at the desk of a hotel. (Can you imagine a hotel receptionist with a huge erection?)
After many adventures I got to know a girl with whom I've gone out now for 3 years. She was a virgin and did not know much about sex (she had extra-conservative parents), but I taught her. She got really fantastic at it — I am proud of her. We even went to a nudist beach recently — I wish I could see her parents' face if they found out about that!
At first I thought I would gave up masturbation in a relationship, but I did not. Having sex with my darling just switched my masturbation onto a higher level. Although I do it less frequently, I sometimes do it for up to 4 hours now, unlike my ealier 15-to-30-minute sessions. Also, my fantasy life is more complex now. I like to think about strange sexual positions, or having sex in a group. Sometimes I get really excited thinking about sex with another young male, although I am not homosexual.
I am now 24 years old. I would never have my sons circumcised, because I want them to have such feelings that are possible only with a foreskin. I would openly answer any of their questions regarding sexuality or sexual orientation. I would talk to them about masturbation, masturbation techniques, and anything they would be interested in. I hope that I can give them a healthy and open sexual education. I would teach them to respect their bodies without feeling guilt, shame, or too much modesty.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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