It's mostly not guilt; I just feel like I don't really want to have anything to do with sex at that moment. I'm not worried whether that's normal. I just wanted to know if there's a way to control that problem, because it's stressful when I'm doing sexual things with other people.
It's 100% normal, if not universal, and there's nothing that you can do about it – except, perhaps, to make sure that your partner reaches orgasm before you do, so that you don't feel the need to do sexual things once you've had your ejaculation. If you can please your partner first, you'll be way ahead of the game, because so many uninformed (and inconsiderate) men during intercourse just go for their orgasm, and once it's over, they roll over and go to sleep.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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